65. You Are Standing in Front of a Mirror at All Times

1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:07,000 So the big question is this, how do young men like us who didn't listen to society, 2 00:00:07,000 --> 00:00:14,000 who are on our own, how do we grow and improve ourselves so that we can live a better tomorrow? 3 00:00:14,000 --> 00:00:18,000 That is the question and this show will give you the answers. 4 00:00:18,000 --> 00:00:25,000 My name is James Radzinski and welcome to the Ascend Momentum Show. 5 00:00:25,000 --> 00:00:29,000 Welcome back everyone. 6 00:00:29,000 --> 00:00:41,000 So like usual, I meditated right before this episode and I actually, for some reason, I fell asleep like the entire time. 7 00:00:41,000 --> 00:00:45,000 Not the whole time, but the way the one... 8 00:00:45,000 --> 00:00:47,000 Okay, so let me explain. 9 00:00:47,000 --> 00:00:51,000 I'm doing the gateway process, the gateway experience. 10 00:00:51,000 --> 00:00:59,000 And I'm just going to assume you guys know what that is because I've been talking about it a lot in past episodes or the past couple weeks. 11 00:00:59,000 --> 00:01:08,000 But I have been doing wave one and then I moved to wave two for a few, for just the first two exercises. 12 00:01:08,000 --> 00:01:16,000 And then I decided to go back to wave one because I read something that said that focus 10, 13 00:01:16,000 --> 00:01:21,000 which is the main focus on wave one. 14 00:01:21,000 --> 00:01:28,000 Wave one is all about focus 10 and someone said online that focus 10 is like the foundation to everything. 15 00:01:28,000 --> 00:01:35,000 So take as long as you need on wave one so you can build a strong foundation. 16 00:01:35,000 --> 00:01:37,000 So I decided to... 17 00:01:37,000 --> 00:01:44,000 And that's really what I assumed anyways, but I got so excited to get to focus 12. 18 00:01:44,000 --> 00:01:46,000 I hadn't even achieved focus 10 yet. 19 00:01:46,000 --> 00:01:52,000 Now I have gotten very de-meditative states and very relaxed states, 20 00:01:52,000 --> 00:02:03,000 but it's not really what I believe focus 10 actually is where it's mind-awake body sleep where your body's paralyzed. 21 00:02:03,000 --> 00:02:15,000 And so I am basically just practicing the last exercise in wave one, which is free flow focus 10. 22 00:02:15,000 --> 00:02:20,000 And it's basically just... there's no real structure to it. 23 00:02:20,000 --> 00:02:26,000 It's just the narrator... the way the structure to it is in the beginning the narrator says, 24 00:02:26,000 --> 00:02:33,000 do your pre-preparatory practices, which is like energy conversion box, 25 00:02:33,000 --> 00:02:39,000 resonant tuning, resonant energy balloon, affirmation, and then get to focus 10. 26 00:02:39,000 --> 00:02:45,000 And then once you're in focus 10, he basically says now that you're in focus 10, remember the... 27 00:02:45,000 --> 00:02:46,000 like remember the purpose. 28 00:02:46,000 --> 00:02:51,000 And then he says remember the purpose one more time and then he brings you back. 29 00:02:51,000 --> 00:02:55,000 But that's... the whole thing is probably like 30 minutes long. 30 00:02:55,000 --> 00:03:08,000 So... and I fell asleep because I missed the entire second time where he said remember the purpose. 31 00:03:08,000 --> 00:03:11,000 And so I think I was like asleep during that time. 32 00:03:11,000 --> 00:03:13,000 I'm not sure if I was asleep or if I just clicked out. 33 00:03:13,000 --> 00:03:18,000 I think I was asleep because I like jolted awake. 34 00:03:18,000 --> 00:03:30,000 I jolted up when I like realized or I guess I realized and so I like jolted and like my hands moved like my whole body moved. 35 00:03:30,000 --> 00:03:37,000 And then like my throat was dry because I think my mouth was open, which is not good. 36 00:03:37,000 --> 00:03:42,000 But for some reason my throat sometimes gets dry even when I nose breath. 37 00:03:42,000 --> 00:03:44,000 It's... I don't really know how to explain this weird. 38 00:03:44,000 --> 00:03:57,000 But when I got into... or let me... wait, I was just talking about the fact that I fell asleep and I haven't even gotten to focus 10 yet. 39 00:03:57,000 --> 00:04:00,000 Like I haven't actually achieved that state yet. 40 00:04:00,000 --> 00:04:06,000 And I think that I'm not like... I definitely still have a lot more practice to do. 41 00:04:06,000 --> 00:04:11,000 But I am experiencing a lot of twitches. 42 00:04:11,000 --> 00:04:15,000 Like my... I get like a lot of twitches. 43 00:04:15,000 --> 00:04:17,000 Like in like a lot. 44 00:04:17,000 --> 00:04:20,000 Like at least 20 or 30 or 40. 45 00:04:20,000 --> 00:04:21,000 A lot of twitches. 46 00:04:21,000 --> 00:04:23,000 My finger twitches, my leg. 47 00:04:23,000 --> 00:04:27,000 Like every single time it starts to fall asleep, it just twitches. 48 00:04:27,000 --> 00:04:31,000 And so it's like hard to actually get into focus 10. 49 00:04:31,000 --> 00:04:41,000 And I'm not really sure what... I actually might look that... research that in the future on like why am I twitching or how to like stop twitching. 50 00:04:41,000 --> 00:04:45,000 Because I think it's actually hurting my progress. 51 00:04:45,000 --> 00:04:50,000 Because you should be able to like get your body to fully fall asleep. 52 00:04:50,000 --> 00:04:55,000 But if your body is starting to fall asleep, but then it twitches, it just wakes back up. 53 00:04:55,000 --> 00:05:00,000 So that's where I'm at with my meditative journey. 54 00:05:00,000 --> 00:05:07,000 But I want to talk about how today is Friday. 55 00:05:07,000 --> 00:05:15,000 And I am not going to school at all next week because of funnel hacking live. 56 00:05:15,000 --> 00:05:24,000 And this is something that I've been really looking forward to over the past like few months. 57 00:05:24,000 --> 00:05:28,000 And I think that it'll be a very good experience. 58 00:05:28,000 --> 00:05:31,000 And I definitely plan on bringing my microphone with me. 59 00:05:31,000 --> 00:05:38,000 I bought an adapter cord so I could vlog in my microphone to my friend Franklin's computer. 60 00:05:38,000 --> 00:05:41,000 Because he's going to bring his computer. 61 00:05:41,000 --> 00:05:48,000 And I use a PC to upload my like to record and upload my podcast so I can't really bring my PC. 62 00:05:48,000 --> 00:05:53,000 But I will definitely be... hopefully I'll be recording. 63 00:05:53,000 --> 00:05:59,000 So that's in... today's the 22nd. 64 00:05:59,000 --> 00:06:02,000 I get there on the 26th. 65 00:06:02,000 --> 00:06:04,000 So it's in like four days. 66 00:06:04,000 --> 00:06:11,000 But it will be different because I'm going to be recording two more... 67 00:06:11,000 --> 00:06:17,000 I'm going to double up my recordings today or tomorrow or Sunday. 68 00:06:17,000 --> 00:06:31,000 So I'm going to do two days where I do double recordings because I need to basically prepare just in case I cannot record at all while I'm there. 69 00:06:31,000 --> 00:06:35,000 So I want to have seven scheduled episodes. 70 00:06:35,000 --> 00:06:38,000 And that is what I plan on doing. 71 00:06:38,000 --> 00:06:41,000 I actually plan on doing Transurfing Principles. 72 00:06:41,000 --> 00:06:49,000 And speaking of Transurfing, I am probably like... I'm less than 100 pages left on that book. 73 00:06:49,000 --> 00:06:54,000 I'm on the final stretch and I'm about to be on the last chapter. 74 00:06:54,000 --> 00:06:58,000 So right now I'm towards the end of the mirror chapter. 75 00:06:58,000 --> 00:07:01,000 And then I have one more chapter and then the afterward. 76 00:07:01,000 --> 00:07:05,000 Which I always read the afterward because it's important as well. 77 00:07:05,000 --> 00:07:19,000 And this morning I was like... one of the things that... one of the most useful pieces of knowledge that I've learned so far in Transurfing. 78 00:07:19,000 --> 00:07:28,000 And one of the most simple things to understand is that you are always standing in front of a mirror. 79 00:07:28,000 --> 00:07:31,000 So you're standing in front of a mirror. 80 00:07:31,000 --> 00:07:33,000 Now let me explain. 81 00:07:33,000 --> 00:07:36,000 Imagine standing in front of a mirror, okay? 82 00:07:36,000 --> 00:07:39,000 Like a normal mirror and you're standing in front of it. 83 00:07:39,000 --> 00:07:44,000 Now let's say you don't like the reflection that you see. 84 00:07:44,000 --> 00:07:46,000 So you... what do you do? 85 00:07:46,000 --> 00:07:51,000 You try to... you try... you change it. 86 00:07:51,000 --> 00:07:53,000 You change your actual person. 87 00:07:53,000 --> 00:07:55,000 Like let's say you don't like your hairstyle. 88 00:07:55,000 --> 00:07:57,000 You change your hairstyle. 89 00:07:57,000 --> 00:08:01,000 Like that's just common sense, right? 90 00:08:01,000 --> 00:08:13,000 But what if I were to... like what if that person that's looking inside of a mirror tried to change the actual image that the mirror was sending? 91 00:08:13,000 --> 00:08:18,000 So they actually try to reach inside of the mirror and manipulate that image. 92 00:08:18,000 --> 00:08:19,000 What if they tried to do that? 93 00:08:19,000 --> 00:08:21,000 That would be crazy. That would be weird. 94 00:08:21,000 --> 00:08:23,000 Like that just wouldn't work, right? 95 00:08:23,000 --> 00:08:26,000 But that's exactly what we're doing in real life. 96 00:08:26,000 --> 00:08:36,000 Because one little known fact that I learned in Transurfing is that the world is a mirror. 97 00:08:36,000 --> 00:08:40,000 And the world is a mirror that displays your relationship to it. 98 00:08:40,000 --> 00:08:43,000 So let me explain. 99 00:08:43,000 --> 00:08:50,000 When you have... when you... your relationship towards the world is negative, then... 100 00:08:50,000 --> 00:08:53,000 So let's say you say the world does not take care of me. 101 00:08:53,000 --> 00:08:55,000 I never get what I want. 102 00:08:55,000 --> 00:08:58,000 Like the world is out to get me. 103 00:08:58,000 --> 00:09:00,000 Then that's exactly what your life will be. 104 00:09:00,000 --> 00:09:05,000 Your life will be very bad, very negative, and you're not gonna... 105 00:09:05,000 --> 00:09:07,000 It's gonna be like scarce. 106 00:09:07,000 --> 00:09:10,000 There's like resources that are gonna be scarce in your life. 107 00:09:10,000 --> 00:09:16,000 Now if you were to have the opposite relationship, you would say the world takes care of me. 108 00:09:16,000 --> 00:09:19,000 The world leaves like the best for me. 109 00:09:19,000 --> 00:09:22,000 And I like have all the things I need. 110 00:09:22,000 --> 00:09:24,000 The world gives me all the things I need. 111 00:09:24,000 --> 00:09:26,000 And that's exactly how your life will be. 112 00:09:26,000 --> 00:09:31,000 And that is the mirror principle, essentially. 113 00:09:31,000 --> 00:09:35,000 The world reflects... the world is a mirror and it reflects your relationship to it. 114 00:09:35,000 --> 00:09:42,000 But the only difference is the world mirror has a delay. 115 00:09:42,000 --> 00:09:45,000 So imagine standing in front of a normal mirror. 116 00:09:45,000 --> 00:09:50,000 Or just imagine standing in front of a mirror, but no reflection pops up. 117 00:09:50,000 --> 00:09:53,000 And then you're standing there for like a minute or two. 118 00:09:53,000 --> 00:09:57,000 And then slowly a reflection starts to like assemble. 119 00:09:57,000 --> 00:10:04,000 And then you like smile because you realize that you're not like... 120 00:10:04,000 --> 00:10:07,000 You're just stoic. 121 00:10:07,000 --> 00:10:11,000 You're just... you're not smiling. 122 00:10:11,000 --> 00:10:14,000 So you smile and then a minute later that smile comes. 123 00:10:14,000 --> 00:10:19,000 And then let's say you quickly lift your arm and then put it back down. 124 00:10:19,000 --> 00:10:26,000 And then a minute later nothing happens because there wasn't enough time to actually make that change. 125 00:10:26,000 --> 00:10:32,000 Because when you were smiling for a minute straight to actually make the image look like it was smiling. 126 00:10:32,000 --> 00:10:37,000 But when you lifted your arm just for a moment and then put it back down right away, 127 00:10:37,000 --> 00:10:44,000 then that wasn't enough time for the mirror to actually make the... form the image and reflect it back. 128 00:10:44,000 --> 00:10:55,000 So that's why you... if you have like a bad, objectively bad life where the world does not take care of you 129 00:10:55,000 --> 00:10:57,000 because that was your relationship to it. 130 00:10:57,000 --> 00:11:00,000 And then you just get an instant flash. 131 00:11:00,000 --> 00:11:05,000 You're like, oh, and then you start being grateful and you start... 132 00:11:05,000 --> 00:11:10,000 Like let's say one day you decide to change your relationship to the world. 133 00:11:10,000 --> 00:11:16,000 And then... and then you just went right back to it after a day of doing that. 134 00:11:16,000 --> 00:11:22,000 You're like, the next day you decide... you went back to your old habits of a negative relationship. 135 00:11:22,000 --> 00:11:28,000 Well, that would not be enough time because the mirror world, the world mirror, 136 00:11:28,000 --> 00:11:33,000 actually takes days, maybe months to actually reflect back. 137 00:11:33,000 --> 00:11:39,000 So you actually have to hold that image for quite some time to be able to actually have it reflected back. 138 00:11:39,000 --> 00:11:46,000 And so that's another strategy that when you first change the image, 139 00:11:46,000 --> 00:11:48,000 change... or first change your relationship. 140 00:11:48,000 --> 00:11:52,000 So first change your relationship to the world. 141 00:11:52,000 --> 00:11:54,000 Be grateful, be happy. 142 00:11:54,000 --> 00:11:59,000 Change your attitude towards the world mentally because your mental, your mindset, your thoughts 143 00:11:59,000 --> 00:12:03,000 actually have a huge like impact on the world. 144 00:12:03,000 --> 00:12:08,000 Though it's not visible most of the time, it's very real. 145 00:12:08,000 --> 00:12:17,000 And so first change your relationship and keep it consistent for a set, like a significant period of time. 146 00:12:17,000 --> 00:12:19,000 And then only look at the mirror. 147 00:12:19,000 --> 00:12:23,000 So only look at the world and only take peaks. 148 00:12:23,000 --> 00:12:27,000 So what most people do, they're in a closed... 149 00:12:27,000 --> 00:12:29,000 Okay, so let me explain this first. 150 00:12:29,000 --> 00:12:33,000 The mirror is a closed feedback loop. 151 00:12:33,000 --> 00:12:38,000 Like it's a closed feedback loop. 152 00:12:38,000 --> 00:12:42,000 So what tends to happen is depending on like your starting point. 153 00:12:42,000 --> 00:12:50,000 So let's say you started rich, then you would look at the world, interpret it. 154 00:12:50,000 --> 00:12:54,000 You're like, oh, nice. The world takes care of me. I'm rich. 155 00:12:54,000 --> 00:13:00,000 And then that attitude, that relationship is displayed into the mirror. 156 00:13:00,000 --> 00:13:04,000 So then the mirror like reflects back that attitude. 157 00:13:04,000 --> 00:13:08,000 So then it's just a loop and then you stay rich, you remain rich, you get richer actually. 158 00:13:08,000 --> 00:13:13,000 And then, but this same thing works if you were born poor. 159 00:13:13,000 --> 00:13:17,000 You look at the world, you're like, oh, I'm poor. The world does not take care of me. 160 00:13:17,000 --> 00:13:23,000 And then that like attitude is expressed into the mirror. 161 00:13:23,000 --> 00:13:31,000 And then you are... The mirror actually starts to display that image. 162 00:13:31,000 --> 00:13:34,000 And then you look at it again and then it's just repeated. 163 00:13:34,000 --> 00:13:36,000 You repeat it and repeat it. 164 00:13:36,000 --> 00:13:40,000 And then that's why the rich get richer and the poor get poorer because they're in a closed feedback loop. 165 00:13:40,000 --> 00:13:46,000 But since we're human beings and we actually have conscious awareness and we have the ability, 166 00:13:46,000 --> 00:13:55,000 we have one of the best abilities ever, which is to actually be able to consciously change our relationship to... 167 00:13:55,000 --> 00:14:01,000 or consciously change and control our attitudes towards the world. 168 00:14:01,000 --> 00:14:07,000 So you can destroy that. You can like reverse the feedback loop. 169 00:14:07,000 --> 00:14:12,000 So instead of first looking at the world, first display your image to the world. 170 00:14:12,000 --> 00:14:22,000 So you would want... First, display your relationship to the world by having a positive attitude. 171 00:14:22,000 --> 00:14:26,000 So if you have an attitude of the world, my world takes care of me. 172 00:14:26,000 --> 00:14:30,000 I am very well off. I'm rich. I achieve my goals. 173 00:14:30,000 --> 00:14:34,000 Everything that happens is moving towards my goals. 174 00:14:34,000 --> 00:14:39,000 Then that will... So that's the first step. 175 00:14:39,000 --> 00:14:46,000 Then the second step is your actual attitude gets sent into the mirror. 176 00:14:46,000 --> 00:14:49,000 So the mirror receives that image, essentially. 177 00:14:49,000 --> 00:14:52,000 And then it starts to reflect it back. 178 00:14:52,000 --> 00:14:55,000 And then this may take days or it may take months. 179 00:14:55,000 --> 00:15:00,000 It takes more time than instant. That's what I'm trying to say. 180 00:15:00,000 --> 00:15:04,000 And then it starts to reflect it back and there's actually a down period. 181 00:15:04,000 --> 00:15:09,000 So there's actually a period of time. It may be a short period. 182 00:15:09,000 --> 00:15:13,000 It may be a long significant period of time where no change actually happens. 183 00:15:13,000 --> 00:15:17,000 And I'm actually in that part right now in my goal. No change is happening. 184 00:15:17,000 --> 00:15:25,000 And then eventually... No, actually I'm sure there is change, but I haven't really been looking for it. 185 00:15:25,000 --> 00:15:29,000 I haven't dove deep into this yet. 186 00:15:29,000 --> 00:15:34,000 But eventually, little changes will happen. 187 00:15:34,000 --> 00:15:37,000 So then that's when you take a peek at the mirror. 188 00:15:37,000 --> 00:15:42,000 You don't fully look at the mirror because then you'll see all the bad. 189 00:15:42,000 --> 00:15:46,000 You take a peek at the mirror and then only look for the good. 190 00:15:46,000 --> 00:15:49,000 And then that is the closed-feedback loop because that good... 191 00:15:49,000 --> 00:15:54,000 You'll interpret that good as good and then you'll just keep on moving forward. 192 00:15:54,000 --> 00:16:02,000 That's how you... So you can... You only need to consciously control your attitude 193 00:16:02,000 --> 00:16:07,000 in order to change or in order to form the feedback loop. 194 00:16:07,000 --> 00:16:11,000 So right now, most people are in a negative feedback loop with the world. 195 00:16:11,000 --> 00:16:15,000 So that's when you have to change... You have to consciously change your relationship to it. 196 00:16:15,000 --> 00:16:20,000 And then keep consciously changing your relationship to that until it becomes reality. 197 00:16:20,000 --> 00:16:28,000 And then you are in a new feedback loop where you're just positively reinforced by your surroundings. 198 00:16:28,000 --> 00:16:33,000 And that's basically the mirror world principle. 199 00:16:33,000 --> 00:16:40,000 And that's like... Honestly, that's... He says this is a very good technique for Transurfing. 200 00:16:40,000 --> 00:16:49,000 And I agree. And I would go... I would argue to say that this is like a foundational piece to understanding the world. 201 00:16:49,000 --> 00:16:55,000 Because the fact that the world is a mirror is so crucial to understand. 202 00:16:55,000 --> 00:17:04,000 Because you... Okay, so you can direct... You can impact the world through your direct actions, 203 00:17:04,000 --> 00:17:06,000 which most people are familiar with. 204 00:17:06,000 --> 00:17:11,000 You can move the pen on your desk. 205 00:17:11,000 --> 00:17:16,000 So I just moved a pen over an inch or two on my desk. 206 00:17:16,000 --> 00:17:22,000 By using my hand, that's direct action. That's through actions. That's inner intention. 207 00:17:22,000 --> 00:17:29,000 But you can also... That's one way to control reality. 208 00:17:29,000 --> 00:17:37,000 I just controlled my reality by moving this pen over to a different position on my desk. 209 00:17:37,000 --> 00:17:41,000 But another way to control reality, which people are not actually... 210 00:17:41,000 --> 00:17:48,000 Most people don't even know is a way to control reality because pendulums have actually... 211 00:17:48,000 --> 00:17:53,000 One, destroyed our abilities to actually control reality in this way. 212 00:17:53,000 --> 00:18:01,000 But two, they've actually made it so we forgot or they kind of erased it from our like knowledge base 213 00:18:01,000 --> 00:18:04,000 that it's even a possibility at all. 214 00:18:04,000 --> 00:18:10,000 And that way, that means of controlling reality is actually a much more powerful tool. 215 00:18:10,000 --> 00:18:12,000 And it's through your thoughts. 216 00:18:12,000 --> 00:18:19,000 Like, if you just think about it, it really makes sense that your thoughts have a lot of power. 217 00:18:19,000 --> 00:18:25,000 Because now I know I have a lot of background knowledge because I've been studying a lot of this stuff. 218 00:18:25,000 --> 00:18:30,000 But I've gotten to the point where I'm like, wow, why didn't I realize this before? 219 00:18:30,000 --> 00:18:36,000 Because... And I think I actually did start to realize it before because that's why I wanted to... 220 00:18:36,000 --> 00:18:46,000 After I finished starting to max out my physical qualities, like my appearance, like gym, all that stuff. 221 00:18:46,000 --> 00:18:53,000 Then I moved on. I was like, oh, my mind is like the next thing that's very important for me to move on. 222 00:18:53,000 --> 00:18:57,000 So I had a hint that the mind was actually very important. 223 00:18:57,000 --> 00:19:03,000 But I didn't realize how valuable it actually was because everyone has thoughts. 224 00:19:03,000 --> 00:19:07,000 Now, if you compare... 225 00:19:07,000 --> 00:19:10,000 So objectively speaking, the Buddha. 226 00:19:10,000 --> 00:19:13,000 So let's say Siddhartha, that's the Buddha. 227 00:19:13,000 --> 00:19:16,000 He's the guy that created Buddhism. 228 00:19:16,000 --> 00:19:22,000 So I have not really learned that much about... 229 00:19:22,000 --> 00:19:26,000 I haven't really studied it, but I know that he reached enlightenment. 230 00:19:26,000 --> 00:19:30,000 So his mind, and he meditated a lot. 231 00:19:30,000 --> 00:19:34,000 So his mind was very clear, I assume. 232 00:19:34,000 --> 00:19:38,000 There's something called the monkey mind that I've heard of. 233 00:19:38,000 --> 00:19:44,000 And it's basically where it's like that constant chatter in your mind, like the constant thoughts. 234 00:19:44,000 --> 00:19:51,000 And so most ordinary people, their minds are just nonstop, very loud. 235 00:19:51,000 --> 00:19:53,000 They just are constantly talking. 236 00:19:53,000 --> 00:19:56,000 And they're always thinking about different things. 237 00:19:56,000 --> 00:20:01,000 So it's kind of like a difference between the land and a laser. 238 00:20:01,000 --> 00:20:06,000 So most ordinary people's minds, they're thinking, is like a lamp. 239 00:20:06,000 --> 00:20:11,000 All of their thought energy is dispersed over many different things. 240 00:20:11,000 --> 00:20:20,000 But what Transurfing actually suggests is to actually put all of your... 241 00:20:20,000 --> 00:20:24,000 concentrate all of your thought energy into one thing. 242 00:20:24,000 --> 00:20:27,000 So think about that one goal. 243 00:20:27,000 --> 00:20:29,000 Think about your goal and only think about that. 244 00:20:29,000 --> 00:20:33,000 And that basically concentrates all that energy into a laser, and it's very powerful. 245 00:20:33,000 --> 00:20:38,000 Like a laser light is way more powerful than a lamp. 246 00:20:38,000 --> 00:20:42,000 And so it just makes sense that it helps you move forward. 247 00:20:42,000 --> 00:20:47,000 And so that's why most people actually don't see tangible... 248 00:20:47,000 --> 00:20:52,000 They don't actually see the fact that their thoughts actually manipulate their reality 249 00:20:52,000 --> 00:20:54,000 and actually create their reality. 250 00:20:54,000 --> 00:21:00,000 And objectively speaking, the Buddha was extremely successful. 251 00:21:00,000 --> 00:21:03,000 Because he created an entire religion. 252 00:21:03,000 --> 00:21:07,000 Like not many people have created an entire religion in their lives. 253 00:21:07,000 --> 00:21:12,000 Like that is actually an extremely successful person right there. 254 00:21:12,000 --> 00:21:18,000 Like, yes, Bill Gates created a massive company. 255 00:21:18,000 --> 00:21:21,000 And he is like one of the richest people in the world. 256 00:21:21,000 --> 00:21:23,000 But he didn't create a religion. 257 00:21:23,000 --> 00:21:26,000 Like you have to be something different. 258 00:21:26,000 --> 00:21:28,000 You have to be a completely different breed. 259 00:21:28,000 --> 00:21:31,000 Like extremely successful to create a religion. 260 00:21:31,000 --> 00:21:39,000 Like can you agree with me over the fact that this guy created a religion so he is like extremely successful? 261 00:21:39,000 --> 00:21:43,000 Like all of their successful people in this world... 262 00:21:43,000 --> 00:21:46,000 Like there's a bunch of successful people. 263 00:21:46,000 --> 00:21:54,000 The list goes on, but there's only a select few people who've created an entire religion. 264 00:21:54,000 --> 00:21:57,000 Like an entire religion. 265 00:21:57,000 --> 00:22:03,000 Like Buddhism is still like an extremely popular world religion right to this day. 266 00:22:03,000 --> 00:22:07,000 And this man actually created the religion. 267 00:22:07,000 --> 00:22:10,000 And he was focusing on his thoughts a lot. 268 00:22:10,000 --> 00:22:12,000 Like he... 269 00:22:12,000 --> 00:22:14,000 I know one thing for sure. 270 00:22:14,000 --> 00:22:17,000 He like cleared the mental chatter. 271 00:22:17,000 --> 00:22:20,000 And that's what I'm trying to say. 272 00:22:20,000 --> 00:22:25,000 When you like throughout like all the time you're standing in front of a mirror. 273 00:22:25,000 --> 00:22:30,000 Like when you're living in life, you're always standing in front of a mirror. 274 00:22:30,000 --> 00:22:36,000 And you're the way you were like sending an image to the mirror to be reflected is through your thoughts. 275 00:22:36,000 --> 00:22:43,000 Like your thoughts create that image that gets reflected back and then it's turned into reality. 276 00:22:43,000 --> 00:22:49,000 And so it just makes sense to clear your mind and then concentrate all of your thoughts. 277 00:22:49,000 --> 00:22:59,000 And concentrate all that energy into one thing or one like idea or one relationship or one attitude. 278 00:22:59,000 --> 00:23:01,000 Like my world takes care of me. 279 00:23:01,000 --> 00:23:07,000 I'll concentrate everything into that and or concentrate everything into your goal. 280 00:23:07,000 --> 00:23:12,000 And then it just makes sense that that's how you move forward. 281 00:23:12,000 --> 00:23:15,000 So that's what that's like my thoughts on that. 282 00:23:15,000 --> 00:23:18,000 The Buddha was extremely successful. 283 00:23:18,000 --> 00:23:26,000 He created an entire religion and he was like his religion that religion focuses all about your mind. 284 00:23:26,000 --> 00:23:31,000 And that's like you can't like you can't brush that aside. 285 00:23:31,000 --> 00:23:36,000 Like a lot of people try to influence the world directly, which is fine. 286 00:23:36,000 --> 00:23:43,000 And it works because like it's actually obvious that works because you can see right away. 287 00:23:43,000 --> 00:23:48,000 There's instant results when I moved that pen across my desk. 288 00:23:48,000 --> 00:23:50,000 Instant results. 289 00:23:50,000 --> 00:23:54,000 Now, since the world is the delay, it has a delay. 290 00:23:54,000 --> 00:23:56,000 The mirror has a delay. 291 00:23:56,000 --> 00:23:57,000 The results are not instant. 292 00:23:57,000 --> 00:24:06,000 So that's why people don't actually see or people don't actually know that there is that your thoughts actually matter. 293 00:24:06,000 --> 00:24:11,000 Because the way your thoughts are actually much more powerful than your direct action. 294 00:24:11,000 --> 00:24:13,000 But there is a delay. 295 00:24:13,000 --> 00:24:16,000 So it's kind of like a downside to it. 296 00:24:16,000 --> 00:24:19,000 But it's you could interpret it either way. 297 00:24:19,000 --> 00:24:28,000 Like it could be an upside because there are many thoughts that appear instantly in like our minds from a day to day, 298 00:24:28,000 --> 00:24:33,000 which we would not necessarily want it to become real. 299 00:24:33,000 --> 00:24:35,000 If that makes sense. 300 00:24:35,000 --> 00:24:40,000 And so it is probably good and beneficial that there is a delay. 301 00:24:40,000 --> 00:24:45,000 Now, let's talk about how to make that your thoughts stronger. 302 00:24:45,000 --> 00:24:53,000 So let me explain. You have two sides to your brain, a left hemisphere and a right hemisphere. 303 00:24:53,000 --> 00:24:55,000 Like your brain is split into two. 304 00:24:55,000 --> 00:25:05,000 And the left side is based off of reasoning, analyze, and then it also perceives all information from the outside world and interprets it. 305 00:25:05,000 --> 00:25:13,000 And then the right side is all about like creativity, emotion, and it knows things. 306 00:25:13,000 --> 00:25:16,000 Like it just feels things and it knows things. 307 00:25:16,000 --> 00:25:22,000 And then in Transurfing terms, the left side of your brain is actually called the mind. 308 00:25:22,000 --> 00:25:26,000 And then the right side is called the heart or the soul. 309 00:25:26,000 --> 00:25:40,000 And so essentially the right side actually says things and actually makes it actually sends like directions over many different decisions throughout the day. 310 00:25:40,000 --> 00:25:49,000 So for now on, I'm just going to refer to the right side as the heart and then the left side is the mind because it's just simpler. 311 00:25:49,000 --> 00:25:59,000 Especially because I feel it will be easier to associate those words instead of left and right. 312 00:25:59,000 --> 00:26:06,000 Because people, I included, get left and right mixed up in their understandings a lot of the times. 313 00:26:06,000 --> 00:26:16,000 And so during the day when you're actually making decisions, so let's say you make a decision to get a certain type of haircut. 314 00:26:16,000 --> 00:26:32,000 And then your heart actually sends like its interpretation and it actually sends a feeling of inner discomfort, inner peace, or nothing to the mind. 315 00:26:32,000 --> 00:26:38,000 And it's up to the mind. One of the mind's jobs is to actually listen to that. 316 00:26:38,000 --> 00:26:42,000 Listen to that input because that input is actually never wrong. 317 00:26:42,000 --> 00:26:45,000 It's always, it is never wrong. 318 00:26:45,000 --> 00:26:57,000 And so that what the mind actually is supposed to listen to the heart on its input. 319 00:26:57,000 --> 00:27:05,000 But most people actually don't. Like most of the time, since we have such a loud monkey mind is what it's called. 320 00:27:05,000 --> 00:27:11,000 Your mind is actually so busy, so busy with its own chatter. 321 00:27:11,000 --> 00:27:20,000 And it's so loud that it actually like drowns out the heart and the heart actually, the mind cannot actually hear the heart. 322 00:27:20,000 --> 00:27:30,000 And so we actually have to consciously listen to the whisperings of the heart, which is actually called the Russell of the Morning Stars. 323 00:27:30,000 --> 00:27:43,000 And the Russell of the Morning Stars actually helps tremendously with us moving towards our goals the right way because your heart is actually connected to a thing called the alternative space. 324 00:27:43,000 --> 00:27:51,000 And now I'm going to connect it all because when I said the world is a mirror, the world is actually a dual-sided mirror. 325 00:27:51,000 --> 00:27:57,000 So on one side is the physical reality, and then the other side is the alternative space. 326 00:27:57,000 --> 00:28:02,000 Now physical reality, its resources are limited. 327 00:28:02,000 --> 00:28:08,000 Like objectively speaking, there are a limited amount of resources in our world right now. 328 00:28:08,000 --> 00:28:19,000 But the alternative space, the other side of the mirror, which the heart has access to, and it's actually the side that our thought energy is like sent. 329 00:28:19,000 --> 00:28:22,000 It's kind of like the side that our thought energy is sent to. 330 00:28:22,000 --> 00:28:30,000 And that side actually has infinite because the alternative space is all that was, is, or will be. 331 00:28:30,000 --> 00:28:36,000 It's every single possible outcome that could happen in the world and more. 332 00:28:36,000 --> 00:28:40,000 And there's infinite resources in the alternative space. 333 00:28:40,000 --> 00:28:54,000 It's actually where your heart goes, it's where your soul flies around when you are asleep, when you're dreaming at nighttime, when you're actually in REM sleep, when you're in dreaming. 334 00:28:54,000 --> 00:29:01,000 Your soul actually flies around. That's why crazy things can happen in your dreams because you're flying around the alternative space. 335 00:29:01,000 --> 00:29:13,000 And so when you're in waking, in normal physical reality, your heart actually has access to the alternative space. 336 00:29:13,000 --> 00:29:28,000 So that's why it can send input to the mind about decisions that it has made because the heart can actually see inevitable, or it can actually see outcomes based off of that decision. 337 00:29:28,000 --> 00:29:37,000 And so that's what the heart sends. That's why the heart knows things because the heart can see the alternative space and what will happen next. 338 00:29:37,000 --> 00:29:53,000 And all of this, so basically it makes sense that if you use your mind to think, it would make sense to form, like to merge the left and the right side of the brain, the heart and the mind. 339 00:29:53,000 --> 00:30:03,000 And it actually works well because when you're thinking, normally thinking, then you're just using your mind. 340 00:30:03,000 --> 00:30:10,000 You're just using your left side of the mind. So the thoughts are just useless. 341 00:30:10,000 --> 00:30:21,000 Now, the thoughts that actually gain energy and actually become weighted and powerful when you're using your left side and the right side. 342 00:30:21,000 --> 00:30:33,000 When you're using the heart and the mind, because the heart has access to the alternative space, so it can actually have access to those infinite resources. 343 00:30:33,000 --> 00:30:40,000 And the mind can be controlled at will. Like you can control your mind with will. 344 00:30:40,000 --> 00:31:00,000 So when you combine those two thinking, those two heart and the mind, the left side and the right side of the brain, then what results is a powerful wave of like thought energy that actually pushes the, like, is actually so much more, 345 00:31:00,000 --> 00:31:19,000 creates such a sharper and clearer image in the dual mirror that let's say, so you know how when you're watching a video on the phone, let's say you're watching YouTube, there's a settings option and you can actually change the resolution. 346 00:31:19,000 --> 00:31:30,000 Like you can change the image quality. So there's like, it goes down to like 100 pixels and then there's like 1080, there's like 4000 pixels or something. 347 00:31:30,000 --> 00:31:40,000 It goes from like 100 to 4000. Now 4000 is like a crystal clear image and 100 is like, you can see the squares on the screen. 348 00:31:40,000 --> 00:31:53,000 So when you're thinking with just normal, just your mind, your basically thought, your thought energy is in the settings of like 100 pixels. 349 00:31:53,000 --> 00:32:00,000 But then once you attune your heart in the mind, you're actually your thought energy is like 4k, it becomes crystal clear. 350 00:32:00,000 --> 00:32:16,000 So that's why initially it's actually not very, it's very difficult to attune your heart in the mind and unify them because your mind actually has doubts on if the goal is true. 351 00:32:16,000 --> 00:32:25,000 So you just have to use your willpower and send out that energy in those little pixels until you can actually see changes happening. 352 00:32:25,000 --> 00:32:36,000 And then eventually your heart and the mind will actually attune and then you'll see like the crystal clear, you'll be sending in that crystal clear image to the... 353 00:32:36,000 --> 00:32:50,000 I like to think of the mirror as like a waiter. So when you go to a restaurant, you sit down and you give the waiter your order. 354 00:32:50,000 --> 00:32:57,000 And the waiter takes that order, goes back, it takes a little time. It's like a delay, there's a delay to it. 355 00:32:57,000 --> 00:33:06,000 So the waiter actually goes back and prepares the food. Now like, or the chef prepares the food and you can't see like that happening. 356 00:33:06,000 --> 00:33:14,000 You don't see how far along the process it is. It could take 10 minutes, it could take 1 hour. 357 00:33:14,000 --> 00:33:20,000 Like I've been to restaurants where it's taken an hour to like prepare the food. 358 00:33:20,000 --> 00:33:27,000 And so, but you know that it will come. Like you know that the food will come, you just are waiting for it. 359 00:33:27,000 --> 00:33:43,000 And so that's exactly what the mirror world is. You send your order. Now the more clear your order is, like if you want a triple cheeseburger with 56 fries, 360 00:33:43,000 --> 00:33:51,000 no ketchup, mayo, and then you want like tuna on it or something. Like that's a super specific order. 361 00:33:51,000 --> 00:34:00,000 But if you're just using your mind to create that order, the pixels, like you'll be creating like a 100 pixel resolution image. 362 00:34:00,000 --> 00:34:08,000 So maybe they'll give you the triple cheeseburger, but they won't give you like the mayo or they'll put on ketchup. 363 00:34:08,000 --> 00:34:14,000 Like they'll, it won't be exactly like how it is because you weren't so clear. 364 00:34:14,000 --> 00:34:25,000 But if you're extremely clear and you are using that 4k resolution with your heart and the mind with your order to the waiter or the mirror, 365 00:34:25,000 --> 00:34:32,000 then you will get exactly what you wanted. So you'll be clear. Let's just use the mansion example. 366 00:34:32,000 --> 00:34:42,000 So let's say your goal is to live in a mansion and actually like have your, raise your family in a mansion. 367 00:34:42,000 --> 00:34:50,000 So that's a very specific, like that's a specific goal. You want, or let's just say you want to be in a mansion. 368 00:34:50,000 --> 00:35:01,000 You want to live in a mansion that has three bathrooms, eight bedrooms, a pool, a hot tub, like a bunch of very specific 369 00:35:01,000 --> 00:35:10,000 qualities and features to it. But initially, since your mind will have its doubts, you can only use the mind. 370 00:35:10,000 --> 00:35:22,000 Or you can only use the heart. I don't really know how it works, but initially you just send that your thought energy, which is to the waiter. 371 00:35:22,000 --> 00:35:34,000 So essentially, you tell the waiter what you want, but initially you're probably only going to be able to say effectively to the waiter that you want to be in a mansion. 372 00:35:34,000 --> 00:35:40,000 You want to live in a mansion. But the way you actually say it makes a difference. 373 00:35:40,000 --> 00:35:50,000 If you say, I want to live in the mansion in the future, then the waiter actually can't, like the mirror is only knows about the present. 374 00:35:50,000 --> 00:35:57,000 The mirror can't create the future. So what you actually have to do is you tell the waiter, I have a mansion. 375 00:35:57,000 --> 00:36:03,000 And then the waiter has no other choice but to give you a mansion. 376 00:36:03,000 --> 00:36:12,000 And so the waiter will go back to the kitchen, tell the chef the order, and then the chef will begin to prepare that order. 377 00:36:12,000 --> 00:36:27,000 Now, the mansion will probably take a decent amount of time to actually cook. It'll take longer to cook a mansion than it would to cook a condo, metaphorically speaking. 378 00:36:27,000 --> 00:36:32,000 But nonetheless, the chef is cooking it in the background. 379 00:36:32,000 --> 00:36:44,000 Now, let's say you begin to say, oh, this is taking too long. Then the waiter says that objectively because you are saying this is taking too long. 380 00:36:44,000 --> 00:36:54,000 So the waiter's like, okay. And then he goes back tells the chef to take longer or take a long time because that's exactly what you said. 381 00:36:54,000 --> 00:37:02,000 Like your thoughts are still running in your mind. Like this is taking too long. So you're basically destroyed. You're one destroying the image. 382 00:37:02,000 --> 00:37:07,000 And you're also making it take longer because of your thoughts, your impatience. 383 00:37:07,000 --> 00:37:15,000 So basically, you make your order and just patiently wait because it is happening and it's not direct. 384 00:37:15,000 --> 00:37:29,000 If you could have a like, obviously, our direct actions has failed have failed us. Now, we know it's possible to get a mansion because we see like wealthy people living in mansions all the time. 385 00:37:29,000 --> 00:37:41,000 So we know it's possible to live in a mansion. But we also know that our direct actions on this world on our physical, like the physical side of the mirror. 386 00:37:41,000 --> 00:37:47,000 It just has failed us. Like it's not powerful enough to create a mansion. 387 00:37:47,000 --> 00:37:56,000 And so you have to resort back to the thought, like the thoughts, your thought process. 388 00:37:56,000 --> 00:38:09,000 And you have to be thinking about your like Brent, like your mindset, your worldview, your attitude, like all of that stuff is how you actually become like able to live in a mansion. 389 00:38:09,000 --> 00:38:29,000 And like that, like your thinking is how you place that order to the waiter, which goes back and tells the chef, like the waiter, you place your order to the mirror, and then the mirror reflects back what you like ordered, and it reflects it back to physical reality. 390 00:38:29,000 --> 00:38:41,000 Like it's got no other choice but to do that. And there's also another analogy where you're in like the cosmic space shop or something like that, or the alternative space shop. 391 00:38:41,000 --> 00:38:56,000 And all like all these analogies are in a transurfing. So I didn't create these, but the it's very, it's a lot more effective to teach through stories. 392 00:38:56,000 --> 00:39:04,000 So and that's what I learned in Russell Brown's book, expert secrets. And I think maybe traffic or com.com. I don't know. 393 00:39:04,000 --> 00:39:11,000 But in the alternative space shop, the way it works is you get exactly like what you ordered. 394 00:39:11,000 --> 00:39:18,000 So you go in the alternative space shop, and you talk to the assistant, and they're like the assistant's like, what would you like? 395 00:39:18,000 --> 00:39:27,000 We've got many different options that we've got a extremely happy in a mansion with a pool. 396 00:39:27,000 --> 00:39:40,000 We've got a extremely successful actor with a Grammy award. We've got a like extremely successful world renowned bodybuilder. 397 00:39:40,000 --> 00:39:43,000 That's one Mr. Olympia like 20 times. 398 00:39:43,000 --> 00:39:53,000 Now we've got like that's basically what the shop assistant is asking you and then you tell the shop assistant, oh, I would like whatever your goal is. 399 00:39:53,000 --> 00:40:06,000 So let's say I would like to be a world class actor. And then the person is like, oh, nice, we've actually got that right here. 400 00:40:06,000 --> 00:40:16,000 This world class actor one and then they basically the shop assistant basically begins to read off like all of the stats of what your life will be. 401 00:40:16,000 --> 00:40:27,000 Like you win five Grammy awards, you win like a bunch of Oscars, you have a very successful career. 402 00:40:27,000 --> 00:40:39,000 You star in many extremely successful shows and movies. And then you basically go on your mind, your worldview, your attitude, your mental outlook of the world. 403 00:40:39,000 --> 00:40:51,000 Your mindset begins to say, oh, no, it's actually a lot harder to get like the acting business is very difficult and it's very tough. 404 00:40:51,000 --> 00:40:58,000 You actually have to know the right people. You have to like it's very difficult to make it into the act in the acting business. 405 00:40:58,000 --> 00:41:05,000 And the shop assistant is like, yeah, but it's right here. Like here's the life you want. This is it's right here. Just get it. 406 00:41:05,000 --> 00:41:10,000 And then you're like your mind goes, oh, no, it's actually a lot harder than that. 407 00:41:10,000 --> 00:41:17,000 Like I don't think that I can I don't think it's actually possible for me to do that. 408 00:41:17,000 --> 00:41:21,000 And so the shop assistant is like, OK, well, I guess I can't help you. 409 00:41:21,000 --> 00:41:29,000 And so basically what happened is you're you had the right to choose that life of an extremely successful actor. 410 00:41:29,000 --> 00:41:35,000 But what you did instead, like you had it in your hands, you could have just made the choice to grab it. 411 00:41:35,000 --> 00:41:46,000 But what you did instead is you started to think about the negative sides and this like these negative thoughts are so instilled in us that they just seem normal now. 412 00:41:46,000 --> 00:41:53,000 But if you just think about it, those negative thoughts just are absolutely useless. 413 00:41:53,000 --> 00:41:57,000 Like there is no positive benefit to those negative thoughts. 414 00:41:57,000 --> 00:42:08,000 And me just thinking about this, the simple fact that we have negative thoughts that basically hold us back from taking action, direct action. 415 00:42:08,000 --> 00:42:12,000 So negative thoughts definitely hold us back from taking direct action. 416 00:42:12,000 --> 00:42:18,000 But then again, those negative thoughts are like thoughts and they're sending thought energy. 417 00:42:18,000 --> 00:42:23,000 So then they're also holding us back from those that outer intention, that alternative space action. 418 00:42:23,000 --> 00:42:34,000 So just the fact that we have negative thoughts, like no one like there is no benefit to negative thoughts. 419 00:42:34,000 --> 00:42:47,000 Now there is in the like there's no benefit in the modern world to negative thoughts because we don't have to like run away from like we don't have to fight for survival anymore. 420 00:42:47,000 --> 00:42:53,000 Like negative thoughts were formed through in our evolution because we needed to be able to survive. 421 00:42:53,000 --> 00:42:58,000 Like literally have to survive in the wild fighting against wild animals. 422 00:42:58,000 --> 00:43:04,000 So that's what like that's the only use for negative thoughts and I don't even see a good use for it. 423 00:43:04,000 --> 00:43:13,000 I guess like it's negative to go into a lion's den, but I still can't see a good use for negative thoughts. 424 00:43:13,000 --> 00:43:18,000 And negative thoughts have been instilled in our brains in our worldview by pendulums. 425 00:43:18,000 --> 00:43:22,000 And it's those who are successful that do the inner work. 426 00:43:22,000 --> 00:43:28,000 Like Siddhartha, who is the Buddha, did the inner work. 427 00:43:28,000 --> 00:43:43,000 Like he is one of like you can count the amount of people who have reached enlightenment on like the hands of like on the like within one hand or something like that in the fingers of one hand. 428 00:43:43,000 --> 00:43:49,000 Like there there's a very small amount of people who have reached enlightenment less than 10. 429 00:43:49,000 --> 00:43:53,000 And so Siddhartha has definitely done the inner work. 430 00:43:53,000 --> 00:44:00,000 He reached enlightenment and he like got rid of those negative thoughts. 431 00:44:00,000 --> 00:44:08,000 Now he like absolutely destroyed those negative thoughts every single time they came in because he recognized that those only hold you back. 432 00:44:08,000 --> 00:44:10,000 There are no benefit to that. 433 00:44:10,000 --> 00:44:17,000 And so he definitely like abolished them because those are just instilled on us by pendulums. 434 00:44:17,000 --> 00:44:23,000 And their pendulums cannot benefit from us go in our own way and achieving massive success. 435 00:44:23,000 --> 00:44:29,000 They benefit from us slaving away our entire lives stuck in the same place for our entire lives. 436 00:44:29,000 --> 00:44:35,000 So that's what they do and they instill negative thoughts and you could go your own way become a great actor. 437 00:44:35,000 --> 00:44:40,000 But the pendulum does not benefit from that energy exchange. 438 00:44:40,000 --> 00:44:47,000 So what the pendulum does is actually instills negative thoughts into your mind like oh I can't there. 439 00:44:47,000 --> 00:44:49,000 It's really difficult to become a great actor. 440 00:44:49,000 --> 00:44:54,000 And so it basically traps you in your own place through your mindset. 441 00:44:54,000 --> 00:45:04,000 And I'm actually beginning to think that I'm actually beginning to believe that you're like mind you're out like attitude to the world. 442 00:45:04,000 --> 00:45:13,000 Like mental all of that stuff your worldview that is more important than your direct actions. 443 00:45:13,000 --> 00:45:31,000 And I'm starting to believe it in that because it just makes sense because first of all your mind your thinking your thought patterns actually affect your direct actions because if you think that it's like impossible to become a great actor. 444 00:45:31,000 --> 00:45:39,000 Well then that's going to affect your negative your your actual direct actions you're going to be thinking that oh well if it's impossible I might as well not even try. 445 00:45:39,000 --> 00:45:47,000 I might as well not even do direct action and actually practice my acting skills like I might as well not even attempt it. 446 00:45:47,000 --> 00:45:52,000 So that's one way your thoughts actually impact your reality. 447 00:45:52,000 --> 00:46:02,000 But also the more like powerful way is through the alternative space like since your mind actually can like you're sending energy to the alternative space. 448 00:46:02,000 --> 00:46:15,000 And that helps to manifest that and it works both ways like you're manifesting if you have negative thoughts you're manifesting a negative world. 449 00:46:15,000 --> 00:46:18,000 So that's like that's my thoughts on all that. 450 00:46:18,000 --> 00:46:33,000 But let me get some water. 451 00:46:33,000 --> 00:46:38,000 All right so next episode is actually going to be Transurfing Principles. 452 00:46:38,000 --> 00:46:53,000 So if you have been keeping up go watch that episode and if you enjoy listening to this kind of stuff about Transurfing and the mirrors and all that stuff go watch that listen to that episode tomorrow. 453 00:46:53,000 --> 00:46:56,000 And I'm actually going to record it. 454 00:46:56,000 --> 00:46:58,000 So I'm right now. 455 00:46:58,000 --> 00:47:00,000 All right let me explain. 456 00:47:00,000 --> 00:47:05,000 So a couple weeks like a couple like maybe a week ago or a couple weeks ago. 457 00:47:05,000 --> 00:47:13,000 I have had Transurfing Principles episodes so I've had six Transurfing Principles episodes in the past. 458 00:47:13,000 --> 00:47:24,000 And every single like a lot of the times that I record those I record a normal episode like this in first and then right after that I record the Transurfing Principles. 459 00:47:24,000 --> 00:47:27,000 So I like do two episodes in one day. 460 00:47:27,000 --> 00:47:39,000 And I think I've done this like three times total because I prepare for upcoming like trips or times where I can't record. 461 00:47:39,000 --> 00:47:50,000 And so that's basically what I'm going to do today and tomorrow because that is I already I already told told about this because I'm going to funnel hacking live. 462 00:47:50,000 --> 00:48:03,000 But I before I would actually just record the Transurfing Principles episode like I would record back to back like I would literally finish one and then go straight away to the next one. 463 00:48:03,000 --> 00:48:10,000 Now the issue is that with that is my brain is already kind of like beginning to be like fatigued. 464 00:48:10,000 --> 00:48:20,000 And so I feel like my first episode is like 100% possible best quality of my skill level at that time. 465 00:48:20,000 --> 00:48:33,000 But that second episode that I recorded that day is maybe like 95 80% 70% of its pot like of its quality that it could be at. 466 00:48:33,000 --> 00:48:43,000 And so I feel like it like the episode loses its quality if I do two episodes in one day which I actually have to do two episodes in one day. 467 00:48:43,000 --> 00:48:48,000 A lot of times because I upload I post daily. 468 00:48:48,000 --> 00:48:57,000 So I actually if I miss a day I actually have to kind of like make up for it by recording to in a day and I always make up for it beforehand. 469 00:48:57,000 --> 00:49:14,000 And so what I'm actually planning on doing to kind of compensate for that need to record to in one day is I'm since I started meditating right before my podcast. 470 00:49:14,000 --> 00:49:26,000 And I actually got so much value and benefit out of that because it's extremely benefit like it cleared my mind so much and it actually helped my mind rest like it helped me rest. 471 00:49:26,000 --> 00:49:32,000 Like I think meditation actually helps you like recover mentally from the day. 472 00:49:32,000 --> 00:49:51,000 It's a good like rest for the mind and then what I and especially for the body but I think what I'm actually going to do is right after this episode I'm actually going to go back upstairs and get another 30 minute meditation session. 473 00:49:51,000 --> 00:50:09,000 So I'll have four meditations in one day today and I'm just going to focus on my like just focus on clearing my mind because hopefully that will help me get into another like meditative super focused state so I can have another 100% quality episode. 474 00:50:09,000 --> 00:50:11,000 And we'll find out on tomorrow's episode. 475 00:50:11,000 --> 00:50:16,000 Episode 66 it's going to be if it actually works out or not. 476 00:50:16,000 --> 00:50:32,000 And that's the thing like I am actually what was I even say I I just got a complete brain fog but I want to okay I want to talk about my. 477 00:50:32,000 --> 00:50:45,000 So I want to okay I'm going to talk about this one transfer there's this one thing I learned about in transfer I'm going to completely shift the topic because I've I lost my train of thought and I'm pretty sure I've just finished like that thought and that's why I lost my train of thought. 478 00:50:45,000 --> 00:50:53,000 But I want to talk about slides and I'm not talking about like your goal I'm talking about like your personal slides where your. 479 00:50:53,000 --> 00:51:03,000 How you perceive yourself so let's say you perceive yourself negatively and you have no confidence low self esteem that's a negative side but if you perceive yourself. 480 00:51:03,000 --> 00:51:20,000 If you are like that but then you perceive yourself as high self esteem high confidence then the world is like a mirror so it has to reflect it back like that's your order it has to reflect it back so then you will become like that. 481 00:51:20,000 --> 00:51:32,000 And if you run that slide and you can actually there's a way to speed it up and make it more effective so you run that slide while talking to absolutely no self esteem. 482 00:51:32,000 --> 00:51:37,000 While talking to absolute strangers and actually. 483 00:51:37,000 --> 00:51:50,000 Like this I was doing this a little while back and I actually found that I am a lot more confident and my social anxiety has eased up a lot and I actually got verification of this from another person today. 484 00:51:50,000 --> 00:52:03,000 And one of my friends actually said that he is in a class where like in school where it's like journaling journalism and you basically have to. 485 00:52:03,000 --> 00:52:12,000 Go out into public and talk to absolute strangers about certain prompts and like write about what they said. 486 00:52:12,000 --> 00:52:25,000 And he said that that like absolutely destroyed his social social anxiety like not destroyed but like cured him of his social anxiety like he has none anymore because he just went out and talked to random strangers. 487 00:52:25,000 --> 00:52:35,000 And that and that is so beneficial to know because that when you have social anxiety you're basically creating a lot of excess potential. 488 00:52:35,000 --> 00:52:47,000 When you just take action you're just destroying the excess potential so then you get more comfortable and you like ease up and you're actually able to be calm in social situations. 489 00:52:47,000 --> 00:52:59,000 And then another thing is if you're running a slide while doing that then you'll actually get a lot more benefits like personally and you actually get more like that slide. 490 00:52:59,000 --> 00:53:06,000 And so that's actually when I'm at Florida there's going to be a lot of people and there's going to be like a networking. 491 00:53:06,000 --> 00:53:15,000 There's going to be a lot of networking and I've never networked and networking is actually like a big fear of mine or not necessarily a fear but like it's something outside my comfort zone. 492 00:53:15,000 --> 00:53:16,000 It's uncomfortable. 493 00:53:16,000 --> 00:53:20,000 I'm uncomfortable for me to just talk to strangers. 494 00:53:20,000 --> 00:53:43,000 I am a little introverted but I don't blame it on that I blame it on fact that I just never did it growing up and I was I was like I spent a lot of my childhood playing video games from like fifth grade to like junior year or sophomore year. 495 00:53:43,000 --> 00:53:54,000 And like that like impacted me a lot because I didn't really have the social experiences that I should have helped me get that. 496 00:53:54,000 --> 00:54:06,000 And I feel like a lot of people are like that and a lot of people could benefit from just going out and talking to strangers like my friend did and that's like that's another thing. 497 00:54:06,000 --> 00:54:17,000 There's a one of the classes that I wanted to take like the only class that I actually wanted to take my senior year was called like speech communication. 498 00:54:17,000 --> 00:54:19,000 And it was basically just a class. 499 00:54:19,000 --> 00:54:26,000 It was an English class all about public speaking and practicing your public speaking. 500 00:54:26,000 --> 00:54:33,000 So that's why I wanted to practice that because that is like a like that. 501 00:54:33,000 --> 00:54:34,000 That's an amazing skill. 502 00:54:34,000 --> 00:54:40,000 Like that is outside of my comfort zone and it's just a great skill to have. 503 00:54:40,000 --> 00:55:00,000 And unfortunately it was only provide it was only like provided second semester and I'm graduating first semester so I won't actually be able to get that class but that's another thing that is a thing that we could people could do to increase their comfort zone. 504 00:55:00,000 --> 00:55:04,000 Like a little while back I was really into increasing my comfort zone. 505 00:55:04,000 --> 00:55:17,000 I would cold out cold email companies out cold call companies and then I would go in person and like go in person and actually talk to people in businesses. 506 00:55:17,000 --> 00:55:22,000 And like those were way outside of my comfort zone and my comfort zone expanded so much. 507 00:55:22,000 --> 00:55:30,000 And like I actually like was talking about this stuff in my podcast like in my early episodes of podcasts. 508 00:55:30,000 --> 00:55:40,000 And then after that we found me and my friend or we discovered another way to expand our comfort zone which was cold approaching girls. 509 00:55:40,000 --> 00:55:48,000 And so we went to the mall and cold approached girls and we did that over three different days like very far apart. 510 00:55:48,000 --> 00:55:57,000 And then we kind of just stopped. I don't know about my friend but I stopped expanding my comfort zone for quite some time. 511 00:55:57,000 --> 00:56:06,000 But I think that Florida is going to be a very good spot to expand a comfort zone because like how far away from your life can you get. 512 00:56:06,000 --> 00:56:09,000 Like you're not going to see any of these people ever again. 513 00:56:09,000 --> 00:56:19,000 So there's like no downside. Because I live in Chicago so I'm flying all the way down to Florida all the way across the country. 514 00:56:19,000 --> 00:56:22,000 So yeah I'm never going to see these guys again. 515 00:56:22,000 --> 00:56:29,000 And I was OK like doing talking to people just one town over like at the mall. 516 00:56:29,000 --> 00:56:41,000 And so that's like an extremely beneficial time to do all the comfort zone challenges. And like expanding your comfort zone. 517 00:56:41,000 --> 00:56:47,000 I'm going to get into this again. It's so beneficial. And I actually haven't done in a while. 518 00:56:47,000 --> 00:56:58,000 But in my class we actually speaking of public speaking me and my friend actually have are in a business class business incubator where we actually have had to do a few. 519 00:56:58,000 --> 00:57:12,000 Presentations in front of the class and like three maybe. And we actually had one yesterday and it was like I was fairly comfortable. 520 00:57:12,000 --> 00:57:17,000 Like I wasn't extremely uncomfortable like how I was like last year. 521 00:57:17,000 --> 00:57:24,000 Last year I would when I would start talking I would have to talk very quickly because I would literally start like I would get a rock in my throat. 522 00:57:24,000 --> 00:57:35,000 And I literally start crying not like crying for real but I would start like getting my chest would compress getting super scared like it was just bad. 523 00:57:35,000 --> 00:57:46,000 And I was fairly comfortable doing it. And that's just from simply expanding my comfort zone doing like cold approaching all that stuff. 524 00:57:46,000 --> 00:57:55,000 And I'm going to be gone for like five days at Florida. So that's like five days to expand my comfort zone doing a lot of stuff. 525 00:57:55,000 --> 00:57:59,000 So it's going to be extremely beneficial extremely valuable. 526 00:57:59,000 --> 00:58:12,000 And that like I was thinking about maybe talking to a few strangers every single day starting the first day we got there because we're actually planning on going to Costco straight from the airport. 527 00:58:12,000 --> 00:58:23,000 And I was thinking of like just I just the thought popped in my head just now of like approaching random strangers at the Costco and just starting to talk to them. 528 00:58:23,000 --> 00:58:32,000 But I don't know like what I would say because it's weird to just go up to them and say nothing or like go up to them and just start talking gibberish. 529 00:58:32,000 --> 00:58:36,000 And so I would have to have like a specific reason to talk to them. 530 00:58:36,000 --> 00:58:44,000 Like when I would go up to the girls mat the reason would be getting their number which I guess is still weird but I don't know like that. 531 00:58:44,000 --> 00:58:52,000 Well I'll figure that out because that would be a very good to expand my comfort zone and actually get me more comfortable in those public situations. 532 00:58:52,000 --> 00:58:59,000 So I think I'll actually do some of that stuff and I'll document the entire journey because hopefully I'll be able to find an hour every day. 533 00:58:59,000 --> 00:59:12,000 And that's one thing I was thinking about as you guys know I'm very into routine and I have a very strict routine here at home where I basically have my entire day filled up with stuff. 534 00:59:12,000 --> 00:59:20,000 And every single thing in my routine is beneficial for my future like it actually helps me move forward or move towards my goal. 535 00:59:20,000 --> 00:59:31,000 And I was kind of thinking about what my routine should be in Florida because we're going to have the final the event usually starts at 8am. 536 00:59:31,000 --> 00:59:36,000 And they said it goes on until like that late afternoon. 537 00:59:36,000 --> 00:59:50,000 So I'm going to have to have one hour allotted in the afternoon every single day to or probably an hour and a half to record and upload and edit. 538 00:59:50,000 --> 00:59:58,000 And then I'm going to have to have another hour like or I'm going to talk. 539 00:59:58,000 --> 01:00:12,000 So I saw. OK so I have a quite a few things in my routine my daily routine but I actually decide I kind of understood the fact that I might not be able to do all of this stuff. 540 01:00:12,000 --> 01:00:20,000 Like I'm not going to obviously I'm not going to be able to do my balancing on the medicine ball because I'm not going to bring the 10 pound medicine ball all the way to Florida with me. 541 01:00:20,000 --> 01:00:34,000 So there are some things that are going to have to get cut but I was thinking of creating a like hierarchy or like numbering which ones were the most valuable most important to actually keep. 542 01:00:34,000 --> 01:00:49,000 And for me the most important thing to keep in my routine is the podcast the podcast like like the most important thing for me is the podcast like I would rather podcast and go to the gym at Florida. 543 01:00:49,000 --> 01:00:56,000 Because I can get both at home but at Florida I know a lot of my days going to be spent up at the conference. 544 01:00:56,000 --> 01:01:15,000 And so I may not be able to get both. And if it comes down to it I'm going to choose the podcast over the gym because I know that these five days that I'm at Florida are going to be like a very high quality episodes because they're going to be content packed 545 01:01:15,000 --> 01:01:29,000 because I'm going to be in a brand new experience. I'm going to like I'm literally going to be in a different environment like an entirely different state and entirely different part of the country may like my life will be radically changed. 546 01:01:29,000 --> 01:01:35,000 Just objectively speaking like I'm going to go from Chicago to Florida. 547 01:01:35,000 --> 01:01:47,000 So on that part but also I'm going to be learning from like it's not every day you get to learn from like the best of the best like professionals like amazing entrepreneurs. 548 01:01:47,000 --> 01:01:53,000 And so that's basically my plans and that's the end of the episode. 549 01:01:53,000 --> 01:02:00,000 So to wrap things up don't forget to download your favorite episodes and subscribe to the Ascend Momentum show. 550 01:02:00,000 --> 01:02:05,000 But before you guys leave make sure to look up at the sky.