71. Take a Leap

1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:06,680 So the big question is this, how do young men like us who didn't listen to society 2 00:00:06,680 --> 00:00:12,240 who are on our own, how do we grow and improve ourselves so that we can live a 3 00:00:12,240 --> 00:00:18,600 better tomorrow? That is the question and this show will give you the answers. My 4 00:00:18,600 --> 00:00:27,820 name is James Rydzinski and welcome to the Ascend Momentum Show. Welcome back, 5 00:00:27,820 --> 00:00:37,400 welcome back. Alright, so if you guys have been keeping up, I'm in Florida. Today is my 6 00:00:37,400 --> 00:00:45,120 first day in Florida and it's actually amazing. So there's a lot of things that 7 00:00:45,120 --> 00:00:50,520 could have gone wrong and I want to hit you with the first lesson for today. Just 8 00:00:50,520 --> 00:00:59,700 do not plan. Don't hold a strong grip of control. Our minds have a 9 00:00:59,700 --> 00:01:11,060 tendency to have a strong grip of control and this actually is really bad. So 10 00:01:11,060 --> 00:01:17,580 there are many instances when throughout the day we actually could have, we could 11 00:01:17,580 --> 00:01:22,940 have, actually let me just start over. So let's just, I'm just gonna tell the 12 00:01:22,940 --> 00:01:31,500 whole story. So this morning I woke up at 2.15 a.m. the first, like there's many 13 00:01:31,500 --> 00:01:35,340 things that could have gone wrong with that in the first place. I woke up at 14 00:01:35,340 --> 00:01:44,740 2.15 a.m. did my morning routine and then left to go pick up my friend Franklin and 15 00:01:44,740 --> 00:01:51,500 my mom was driving us and then she drove us to the airport and then once we got 16 00:01:51,500 --> 00:01:56,300 to the airport since I have no idea what I'm doing at the airport I've never 17 00:01:56,300 --> 00:02:04,540 been, I've never flown by myself before. So I was at the, literally the first 18 00:02:04,540 --> 00:02:11,020 station where you print your boarding pass and get your checked bag checked. I 19 00:02:11,020 --> 00:02:18,660 like asked the people beside me for help and they helped me but the lady took my 20 00:02:18,660 --> 00:02:24,460 boarding pass on accident and I didn't even realize it and then like her 21 00:02:24,460 --> 00:02:29,180 husband came back like a few moments later and like returned it instead of 22 00:02:29,180 --> 00:02:32,980 an accident. So that could have gone wrong. That could have ruined the entire 23 00:02:32,980 --> 00:02:38,580 trip. I didn't even realize that that happened and then that happened and then 24 00:02:38,580 --> 00:02:46,460 I didn't even know how to like tape. There are a lot a lot a lot of things I 25 00:02:46,460 --> 00:02:54,940 didn't know how to do but flash forward we went through security and we didn't 26 00:02:54,940 --> 00:03:02,020 want to go through the like the scanner thing so we actually got padded down and 27 00:03:02,020 --> 00:03:07,540 said and that took like 50 minutes. We had to wait like for like 50 minutes 28 00:03:07,540 --> 00:03:14,380 before we could even get into the terminal and then my friend like lost 29 00:03:14,380 --> 00:03:20,500 his ID like he put it through the machine and then he just lost it and so 30 00:03:20,500 --> 00:03:27,020 that could have gone terribly wrong and then we just found it just like that and 31 00:03:27,020 --> 00:03:32,740 then once we went through that we were walking the wrong direction but then we 32 00:03:32,740 --> 00:03:38,940 just went back and went to the correct terminal and the correct gate and once 33 00:03:38,940 --> 00:03:44,220 we got on the plane it was all good and we had no idea how once we landed in 34 00:03:44,220 --> 00:03:49,460 Florida we had no idea how to like where the bags were but we just kept on 35 00:03:49,460 --> 00:03:53,580 moving one foot forward in front of the other and throughout this whole time we 36 00:03:53,580 --> 00:03:59,500 were like devising little mini plans on what to do once we got our bags but we 37 00:03:59,500 --> 00:04:03,860 decided not to plan and not to hold a grip of control and just go with the flow 38 00:04:03,860 --> 00:04:10,220 and keep placing one step in front of the other and that is exactly what I've 39 00:04:10,220 --> 00:04:14,620 been talking about and this is exactly what I'm learning and Transurfing. I want 40 00:04:14,620 --> 00:04:20,780 to I want to go back to this metaphor that I actually used to talk about I had 41 00:04:20,780 --> 00:04:25,100 an entire episode about it it's like life is just a forest I think that's the 42 00:04:25,100 --> 00:04:32,740 title but pretty much when you're in life you're literally just in a forest and 43 00:04:32,740 --> 00:04:42,420 it's a massive forest and it's pitch black there's no light and then when 44 00:04:42,420 --> 00:04:46,300 okay so you're just standing in the middle in the middle of a dark forest 45 00:04:46,300 --> 00:04:50,980 and you're given a torch and this torch lights up literally like one meter around 46 00:04:50,980 --> 00:04:58,180 you so you cannot even see anything except for within one foot in front of 47 00:04:58,180 --> 00:05:04,060 you so you can place one step but you can't see two steps down the line and 48 00:05:04,060 --> 00:05:10,580 that's basically what we were doing this morning on the just like all day we 49 00:05:10,580 --> 00:05:16,900 were doing this so we were once we landed in Florida we initially started 50 00:05:16,900 --> 00:05:20,100 devising a plan on what we should do because we had a few things on our 51 00:05:20,100 --> 00:05:24,980 bucket list that we needed to do like we had to go register for funnel hacking 52 00:05:24,980 --> 00:05:32,300 live we had to go to the hotel drop off our bags we had to go to Costco and get 53 00:05:32,300 --> 00:05:38,780 some food like we had to do a few different things but we remembered the 54 00:05:38,780 --> 00:05:44,820 Transurfing principles and we just decided to drop the plan and just keep 55 00:05:44,820 --> 00:05:48,140 going with the flow and just place one foot in front of the other like you can 56 00:05:48,140 --> 00:05:55,380 not see one foot in front of you you can only see like how whatever is lit up by 57 00:05:55,380 --> 00:05:59,700 your torch when you're walking through that forest you can't see the massive 58 00:05:59,700 --> 00:06:04,540 waterfall just to your right you may be able to hear it through seeing different 59 00:06:04,540 --> 00:06:10,260 signs like throughout life signs occur that show if you're moving in the right 60 00:06:10,260 --> 00:06:19,500 direction or not and let's say your goal like for example my goal was to have like 61 00:06:19,500 --> 00:06:25,900 what one of the attributes to my goal over summer a couple months ago was to 62 00:06:25,900 --> 00:06:30,500 have a really nice car that was just an attribute to my goal it's just a side 63 00:06:30,500 --> 00:06:36,980 piece and so I was like moving towards my goal over summer visualizing and I 64 00:06:36,980 --> 00:06:42,180 actually remember this one experience very vividly and I actually think that I 65 00:06:42,180 --> 00:06:47,860 talked about it on like my early episodes probably like 15 to 21 around 66 00:06:47,860 --> 00:06:53,820 either in that range of episodes I was at Berry Park with my friend Franklin and 67 00:06:53,820 --> 00:06:58,340 we were both meditating just laying in the grass and it was a really sunny day 68 00:06:58,340 --> 00:07:04,380 it was amazing and I got into a super deep meditation and I can't really 69 00:07:04,380 --> 00:07:13,100 recall if I was visualizing the goal or not but after that after that meditation 70 00:07:13,100 --> 00:07:20,620 I got up and there was a very massive sign so I got up and I just started like 71 00:07:20,620 --> 00:07:25,060 looking at the world and I wasn't really looking for anything particular I was 72 00:07:25,060 --> 00:07:30,100 just kind of like looking just like observing and then I kind of had this 73 00:07:30,100 --> 00:07:37,020 like urge to look to the left so I looked to the left and I saw this I saw 74 00:07:37,020 --> 00:07:43,740 this like really nice car driving down the street and mind you this street was 75 00:07:43,740 --> 00:07:48,500 the type of street you would not want to drive a car a really nice car on like 76 00:07:48,500 --> 00:07:53,740 this street is like a broken down street with like potholes and all kinds of 77 00:07:53,740 --> 00:07:59,700 things I would not want to drive my own like nice car on that street and so I 78 00:07:59,700 --> 00:08:05,340 like saw that car and I just like quickly tapped my friend on the shoulder and I 79 00:08:05,340 --> 00:08:10,740 like he looked at it and I was like there it is and I just remember like 80 00:08:10,740 --> 00:08:17,460 that's a sign so going back to the metaphor of life is just a dark forest 81 00:08:17,460 --> 00:08:24,900 you can only see one foot in front of you like you can only see whatever is lit 82 00:08:24,900 --> 00:08:30,820 up by your torch but you may be able to hear like that that waterfall if your 83 00:08:30,820 --> 00:08:35,460 goal is to get to the waterfall it's like have a drink or have a swim in the 84 00:08:35,460 --> 00:08:41,100 waterfall if that's your goal then you may be able to hear the waterfall 85 00:08:41,100 --> 00:08:47,580 through certain signs and an example of the sign was that car that I saw but 86 00:08:47,580 --> 00:08:55,660 this all relates because we had no idea like the logistics around our trip to 87 00:08:55,660 --> 00:09:02,580 Florida and this morning like we had we were just like completely blind we were 88 00:09:02,580 --> 00:09:06,780 just walking in the dark forest we could only know what to do next and that's 89 00:09:06,780 --> 00:09:12,100 what we did we just walked kept on moving forward and everything worked out 90 00:09:12,100 --> 00:09:15,940 perfectly like literally everything worked out perfectly and if something 91 00:09:15,940 --> 00:09:21,180 initially didn't work out perfectly we kind of just like allowed it to happen 92 00:09:21,180 --> 00:09:30,100 and then it like fixed itself on its own so in another example is I actually am 93 00:09:30,100 --> 00:09:35,780 not sure okay there is one example that I would share but I'm not gonna share it 94 00:09:35,780 --> 00:09:44,220 right now so I'm gonna actually I'm gonna share it yeah I will share it so no 95 00:09:44,220 --> 00:09:49,540 before I share that one I'm gonna share this one so we after we were at the 96 00:09:49,540 --> 00:09:54,220 airport we picked up our bag and we didn't really know what to do so we just 97 00:09:54,220 --> 00:09:58,420 decided to go to the hotel it just like that was just the first thing that came 98 00:09:58,420 --> 00:10:02,340 up we were gonna go to the hotel and drop off our bags because it was at like 99 00:10:02,340 --> 00:10:09,500 10 in the morning and check-in wasn't until 4 in the afternoon so we like 100 00:10:09,500 --> 00:10:12,820 according to our check-in time we probably wouldn't have been able to 101 00:10:12,820 --> 00:10:18,700 actually get to our hotel room but we were just gonna drop off our bags and 102 00:10:18,700 --> 00:10:25,500 so we got an Uber all the way to the hotel and I remember we were in the 103 00:10:25,500 --> 00:10:32,420 Uber ride and my friend was like talking to the Uber because we really liked the 104 00:10:32,420 --> 00:10:38,260 Uber driver he was really nice and like a very just producing very good vibes all 105 00:10:38,260 --> 00:10:45,060 around and so naturally like my friend wanted to have him again as a driver so 106 00:10:45,060 --> 00:10:49,900 we were like oh we're just gonna drop off our bags like could you wait for us but 107 00:10:49,900 --> 00:10:55,380 then we both agreed on that and then we became conscious of that's another plan 108 00:10:55,380 --> 00:11:01,580 and we should just let the Uber driver go off on his own and not have to wait 109 00:11:01,580 --> 00:11:08,540 for us just in case and also that's a plan and we didn't know we didn't like 110 00:11:08,540 --> 00:11:16,100 that was just our mind creating that plan so that would be akin to if we were in a 111 00:11:16,100 --> 00:11:20,420 dark forest and we were completely blind and we created a plan that there would 112 00:11:20,420 --> 00:11:26,660 be a rock on the right a bush on the left and like a waterfall straight ahead 113 00:11:26,660 --> 00:11:31,500 like that would be ridiculous to plan that wouldn't it like you don't know 114 00:11:31,500 --> 00:11:38,660 what's actually there but if you just like self importantly said oh I can't 115 00:11:38,660 --> 00:11:43,940 see this dark forest I can only see literally one foot in front of me but I 116 00:11:43,940 --> 00:11:51,100 plan for there to be a waterfall 20 feet ahead of me and then before I get to the 117 00:11:51,100 --> 00:11:55,300 waterfall I'm gonna step up on a few rocks and then there's gonna be a tree 118 00:11:55,300 --> 00:12:00,180 like that would be ridiculous to plan out how the forest would be structured 119 00:12:00,180 --> 00:12:05,780 when the forest has already been prepared like it's just ridiculous and 120 00:12:05,780 --> 00:12:11,780 that's just one of the habits that we're slowly but surely getting over and we 121 00:12:11,780 --> 00:12:16,220 keep on reminding ourselves that today and I'm sure that many times in the 122 00:12:16,220 --> 00:12:20,300 future that will be happen but this isn't even like the whole part where 123 00:12:20,300 --> 00:12:25,420 another thing could have gone wrong so for context me and my friend are I'm 18 124 00:12:25,420 --> 00:12:35,940 my friend is 17 and for context we are very familiar with a general rule around 125 00:12:35,940 --> 00:12:43,260 hotels like hotels you're allowed to be in a hotel room if you're under 18 but 126 00:12:43,260 --> 00:12:49,780 you can't check into a hotel room unless you're 21 or older so you have to be 127 00:12:49,780 --> 00:12:54,940 21 or older to be able to check into a hotel room now we were very aware of 128 00:12:54,940 --> 00:13:00,260 that booking our hotels and there were two hotels like we were originally gonna 129 00:13:00,260 --> 00:13:05,700 book a hotel across the street from where the convention the Funnel Hacking 130 00:13:05,700 --> 00:13:11,180 Live is actually gonna be at but then right when I was going to check out and 131 00:13:11,180 --> 00:13:17,260 confirm the purchase it said you have to be 21 to check in and so that didn't 132 00:13:17,260 --> 00:13:24,420 work and then we were gonna actually we were gonna actually stay at the World 133 00:13:24,420 --> 00:13:29,380 Center Orlando Mary where the World Center which is where the convention is 134 00:13:29,380 --> 00:13:35,820 we're gonna actually stay there but like we saw that same thing again and 135 00:13:35,820 --> 00:13:41,180 actually just the other day I was talking to my sister and she she was like 136 00:13:41,180 --> 00:13:44,460 where you guys gonna stay like are you gonna stay at an Airbnb or what and I 137 00:13:44,460 --> 00:13:49,740 was like no we're gonna stay at a like a hotel and she was she was like shocked 138 00:13:49,740 --> 00:13:53,420 and she was like well you guys can't do that because you're not 21 you have to 139 00:13:53,420 --> 00:14:00,380 be 21 to like check into a hotel and so I was like well this one is not like 140 00:14:00,380 --> 00:14:05,380 that because I found like literally a month ago I found a hotel that was like 141 00:14:05,380 --> 00:14:12,940 probably like a 20 minute walk away from the event I found a hotel that and I 142 00:14:12,940 --> 00:14:19,260 called them and they said you can be 18 to check in which is I was like amazed 143 00:14:19,260 --> 00:14:25,940 and this hotel so I like the only reason why I stayed at this hotel is because 144 00:14:25,940 --> 00:14:32,380 it's the only place where you you can check in below 21 that below the age of 145 00:14:32,380 --> 00:14:38,940 21 that was the only reason and actually a couple days after like literally like 146 00:14:38,940 --> 00:14:43,500 a day after I actually purchased the hotel room because I prepaid so I 147 00:14:43,500 --> 00:14:49,940 actually paid $900 right at that time to to reserve the hotel room and 148 00:14:49,940 --> 00:14:55,900 actually a day after I did that before the like cancellation period was over I 149 00:14:55,900 --> 00:15:00,860 actually went to cancel the room and I actually did cancel the room and I went 150 00:15:00,860 --> 00:15:08,100 to the other website the Marriott World Center website and I actually went to go 151 00:15:08,100 --> 00:15:14,620 buy it and then I started to buy the room and I got like this feeling and I was 152 00:15:14,620 --> 00:15:19,860 like oh wow good thing I didn't buy it because that's the whole reason why I 153 00:15:19,860 --> 00:15:27,060 didn't go to that like that hotel in the first place was because I wasn't 21 154 00:15:27,060 --> 00:15:30,340 years old so that would have that was another thing that could have ended 155 00:15:30,340 --> 00:15:35,220 badly but I went back to this hotel reservation which the only reason why 156 00:15:35,220 --> 00:15:40,020 we're staying here originally is because this is the only place where we can 157 00:15:40,020 --> 00:15:50,460 check in on our own so going back to the story of we got a ride to the hotel and 158 00:15:50,460 --> 00:15:57,340 we got into the hotel to start checking in at like 10 30 in the morning and what 159 00:15:57,340 --> 00:16:02,220 happened was I started to check in and I was a little nervous that I wasn't 160 00:16:02,220 --> 00:16:06,660 gonna be able to check in because I wasn't 21 but I was able to check in and 161 00:16:06,660 --> 00:16:14,220 our room was ready and I was aware of what our room looked like but I was 162 00:16:14,220 --> 00:16:19,300 kind of like skeptical because it seemed a little too good to be true and so we 163 00:16:19,300 --> 00:16:24,540 got we literally got driven to our room because it's not like a normal hotel it 164 00:16:24,540 --> 00:16:28,580 is literally like an entire resort it's like an it's like my friend Franklin said 165 00:16:28,580 --> 00:16:32,820 today while we were driving around he said it's literally a village like 166 00:16:32,820 --> 00:16:41,180 imagine three different like towns of a probably like hundreds of different 167 00:16:41,180 --> 00:16:47,180 villas like all different houses and like apartment kind of things like 168 00:16:47,180 --> 00:16:55,340 literally a town and so we went we got taken to our place and we went in and 169 00:16:55,340 --> 00:17:03,500 we were amazed we had an entire kitchen and so we were able to have a fridge and 170 00:17:03,500 --> 00:17:08,900 a stove which is huge because we're trying to actually cook for ourselves 171 00:17:08,900 --> 00:17:15,340 like eat for ourselves we're trying to actually like stay healthy while we're 172 00:17:15,340 --> 00:17:21,820 here and not like go out to eat and eat bad food so that was like a big thing 173 00:17:21,820 --> 00:17:28,420 and like that's another way that we didn't have a plan like this wasn't a 174 00:17:28,420 --> 00:17:33,380 part of our original plan to go to Funnel Hacking Life but the world is 175 00:17:33,380 --> 00:17:37,380 taking care of us because we kept on reminding ourselves like the world is 176 00:17:37,380 --> 00:17:43,100 taking care of us like we have this amazing room and actually we have there's 177 00:17:43,100 --> 00:17:49,340 two bedrooms so like this room it's like a it's literally an apartment kind of 178 00:17:49,340 --> 00:17:55,100 like like we we go we enter into the door and there's a kitchen and then 179 00:17:55,100 --> 00:18:00,340 there is literally like a couch it's like a living room and then there is like an 180 00:18:00,340 --> 00:18:05,180 outdoor patio kind of thing with a screened-in porch that looks straight 181 00:18:05,180 --> 00:18:12,060 into a lake like a little pond that has like animals inside of it like birds and 182 00:18:12,060 --> 00:18:16,740 like whatever they're like there's like animals floating around in the water 183 00:18:16,740 --> 00:18:21,180 which is awesome the trees outside it like the landscaping is amazing and 184 00:18:21,180 --> 00:18:29,100 then we have two bathrooms both with showers and then there's two bedrooms 185 00:18:29,100 --> 00:18:35,060 so there's one like master bedroom which Franklin's staying in and then there's 186 00:18:35,060 --> 00:18:40,740 one like twin bedroom with two twin beds which I'm staying in it's amazing and 187 00:18:40,740 --> 00:18:46,660 another little tiny thing is since I go to bed we go to bed like before 188 00:18:46,660 --> 00:18:53,980 sun goes down and so our rooms are like especially kitted with blackout curtains 189 00:18:53,980 --> 00:18:58,860 so we can have like complete darkness in our rooms these rooms have blackout 190 00:18:58,860 --> 00:19:05,580 curtains like everything is turning out so amazing because we sent in our order 191 00:19:05,580 --> 00:19:11,300 to the world and we released our grip of control and we stopped planning like 192 00:19:11,300 --> 00:19:17,180 don't plan for things don't plan things now yes you should don't take it absolutely 193 00:19:17,180 --> 00:19:22,100 literally because there were times when we were literally like walking in the 194 00:19:22,100 --> 00:19:27,940 wrong direction outside and we had to like check the phone like that's some 195 00:19:27,940 --> 00:19:31,860 like those little things like plan for that like if you're walking in the 196 00:19:31,860 --> 00:19:36,340 absolute wrong direction go into a location you should probably make a plan 197 00:19:36,340 --> 00:19:40,700 to turn around like that's literally what I was saying to my friend today but 198 00:19:40,700 --> 00:19:45,660 like all around don't plan for things to happen like don't plan oh I'm gonna do 199 00:19:45,660 --> 00:19:49,660 this and then this and then this and then this and even while I'm saying that 200 00:19:49,660 --> 00:19:54,740 I'm becoming conscious of the fact that I like literally yesterday's episode I 201 00:19:54,740 --> 00:19:59,700 was planning about all the different books that I was gonna read which yes I 202 00:19:59,700 --> 00:20:05,860 think that it's fine to plan out your books but that's why I'm also conscious 203 00:20:05,860 --> 00:20:11,020 of the fact that things may change during this event because it's just like 204 00:20:11,020 --> 00:20:15,460 literally day zero we like we haven't even we haven't even experienced fun 205 00:20:15,460 --> 00:20:22,780 lacking life but like our worldviews are radically changing already simply because 206 00:20:22,780 --> 00:20:27,620 we're literally practicing transfer from principles like literally like two months 207 00:20:27,620 --> 00:20:32,940 ago this idea came into fruition and we were let we decided that we were gonna 208 00:20:32,940 --> 00:20:39,220 go and we were just talking about how we were literally like walking shirtless 209 00:20:39,220 --> 00:20:45,380 and barefoot down the road in Florida through the grass today in the salt like 210 00:20:45,380 --> 00:20:50,940 hot humid sunny weather shirtless and barefoot two dudes walking down the 211 00:20:50,940 --> 00:20:58,060 highway on the way to the the world center where the the event is taking 212 00:20:58,060 --> 00:21:02,900 place for registration and we were doing that and we were just thinking like 213 00:21:02,900 --> 00:21:08,300 man it was 11 it was like it was probably like 12 o'clock at that time we're 214 00:21:08,300 --> 00:21:15,980 like man transfer fee absolutely changes changed our lives because literally we 215 00:21:15,980 --> 00:21:22,420 started trans surfing and now we're in Florida and if like what would we have 216 00:21:22,420 --> 00:21:30,420 been doing like I literally said we like right now we would be sitting in fourth 217 00:21:30,420 --> 00:21:36,620 period talking to our teacher sitting in a chair in a classroom like that would 218 00:21:36,620 --> 00:21:42,380 that's what we would be doing but now we're in Florida like that's so amazing 219 00:21:42,380 --> 00:21:48,740 how like transfer fee actually works and this is like my first taste of it 220 00:21:48,740 --> 00:21:53,220 actually working because we are literally in Florida and I'm not even gonna lie 221 00:21:53,220 --> 00:21:59,420 we're living like the best case scenario as well like we were prepared when we 222 00:21:59,420 --> 00:22:03,860 were planning this event we were actually talking about like buying hammocks and 223 00:22:03,860 --> 00:22:09,260 setting up a hammock on a tree and literally sleeping outside like we were 224 00:22:09,260 --> 00:22:15,300 prepared to do that but we just released our grip of control and kept on placing 225 00:22:15,300 --> 00:22:19,220 one foot in front of the other and the world is literally taking care of us so 226 00:22:19,220 --> 00:22:24,260 much more than we could have ever hoped or imagined like we are sitting in a 227 00:22:24,260 --> 00:22:28,500 hotel room like right now I'm literally sitting on the floor in a very nice 228 00:22:28,500 --> 00:22:33,860 hope like not even a hotel room it's like a villa like it's a villa I don't 229 00:22:33,860 --> 00:22:40,500 even know what a villa is and I'm sitting in a villa and another thing is I 230 00:22:40,500 --> 00:22:45,140 was worried that I wasn't going to be a podcast but my friend is extremely 231 00:22:45,140 --> 00:22:50,860 generous and allowed me to use his computer for an entire hour so that's 232 00:22:50,860 --> 00:22:58,260 amazing but like I want to talk about we were walking to like we literally spent 233 00:22:58,260 --> 00:23:03,540 probably like 40 minutes to an hour walking around today barefoot and 234 00:23:03,540 --> 00:23:09,380 shirtless just two dudes walking through Florida barefoot and shirtless and we 235 00:23:09,380 --> 00:23:16,940 walked like a couple miles all the way to the World Center and it was amazing 236 00:23:16,940 --> 00:23:25,180 like we were like we got there and I was really nervous that I was gonna have 237 00:23:25,180 --> 00:23:31,020 like smell it like my shirt was gonna smell because my I usually a bad body 238 00:23:31,020 --> 00:23:36,340 odor but since we were shirtless walking there my shirt did not smell at all and 239 00:23:36,340 --> 00:23:41,820 that's like one thing that doesn't even matter but we got there and we got into 240 00:23:41,820 --> 00:23:45,340 the registration now there was one thing we were nervous about and I'm not even 241 00:23:45,340 --> 00:23:49,020 sure if I should be saying this right now I think it's fine because this 242 00:23:49,020 --> 00:23:55,740 episode will post like a day or like literally like two or three days after 243 00:23:55,740 --> 00:24:00,900 the last day of the event so I think it's fine but we were actually nervous 244 00:24:00,900 --> 00:24:10,140 because my friend is not 18 and you have to be 18 or else you have to have your 245 00:24:10,140 --> 00:24:14,660 parent with you to be able to get into fun lacking live and we were aware of 246 00:24:14,660 --> 00:24:23,060 that but we just decided to come anyways and so we like got to the entrance and to 247 00:24:23,060 --> 00:24:28,220 be honest I don't know I can't speak for Franklin on this part but once we got to 248 00:24:28,220 --> 00:24:34,660 the like the registration area I was like so excited and I completely forgot 249 00:24:34,660 --> 00:24:39,260 about the fact that Franklin was not gonna like he did he was not 18 so I 250 00:24:39,260 --> 00:24:44,860 forgot about that fact and so the guy and we're just two dudes that look pretty 251 00:24:44,860 --> 00:24:50,140 young so the dude was like are you like how older like are you guys under 18 252 00:24:50,140 --> 00:24:55,660 because there was a guy who was 17 years old who came and had to wait for his 253 00:24:55,660 --> 00:25:01,520 like his parents to let him come because you have to be accompanied by an 254 00:25:01,520 --> 00:25:07,940 adult and I was like I'm I'm 18 I'm good and then my friend was like he's 18 as 255 00:25:07,940 --> 00:25:13,740 well and so we just walked in and like the dude was like nice like he didn't 256 00:25:13,740 --> 00:25:20,820 even question it that's another another example of the world taking care of us 257 00:25:20,820 --> 00:25:29,140 like we placed our order into the world and there was some actual like barriers 258 00:25:29,140 --> 00:25:35,220 that seemed pretty real to our mind but the world was like no that's not real 259 00:25:35,220 --> 00:25:40,740 it's like like the world just took care of it for us and so we got in and it was 260 00:25:40,740 --> 00:25:48,460 amazing we were lit we got like our we printed out our badges and that's another 261 00:25:48,460 --> 00:25:54,860 thing my friend bought both of the tickets so he bought my ticket as well 262 00:25:54,860 --> 00:26:00,380 as his and I was really worried that I wasn't gonna be able to like get in 263 00:26:00,380 --> 00:26:09,100 because he used my personal email which was fine but I was worried because I 264 00:26:09,100 --> 00:26:15,900 never received any emails on that email on that email account regarding 265 00:26:15,900 --> 00:26:19,900 funnel hacking life like I never received any emails regarding that and so 266 00:26:19,900 --> 00:26:24,580 literally like three days ago when I got an actual email regarding funnel 267 00:26:24,580 --> 00:26:33,540 hacking live so I was a little bit like not I was a little bit what's the word 268 00:26:33,540 --> 00:26:39,340 like I was like my nerves were a little bit eased but like it was a moment of 269 00:26:39,340 --> 00:26:45,740 truth when I had to type in my name and like my my full name into the like 270 00:26:45,740 --> 00:26:50,900 printer basically to print out my badge and I was nervous because I was typing 271 00:26:50,900 --> 00:26:55,660 out my name and it was not showing up and then I literally finished like half of 272 00:26:55,660 --> 00:27:02,220 the name like most of my finish my full first name I was typing J A M E S space 273 00:27:02,220 --> 00:27:07,660 and I was looking at the options no James Radsonsky and then I was saying R A D 274 00:27:07,660 --> 00:27:11,780 and I looked at the options no like my name was not there and I was like a 275 00:27:11,780 --> 00:27:15,700 little bit nervous and now and I just like ease my nerves and then I was I 276 00:27:15,700 --> 00:27:19,980 finished typing my name and I looked at it my name was right there and I was like 277 00:27:19,980 --> 00:27:25,580 let's go and I was looking at my friend as well because I was aware of the fact 278 00:27:25,580 --> 00:27:30,340 that we just got in even though he was not set he was not 18 and I was aware of 279 00:27:30,340 --> 00:27:35,340 that fact and I was looking over at him and he was printed out his as well which 280 00:27:35,340 --> 00:27:43,900 was an amazing thing so we both printed out our like badges and there's another 281 00:27:43,900 --> 00:27:49,540 thing so I'm like introverted and I get like nervous talking like to people and 282 00:27:49,540 --> 00:27:54,620 I don't really have like that great social skills and so I was like nervous 283 00:27:54,620 --> 00:27:58,460 like the one thing that I'm nervous about is the networking at this event and 284 00:27:58,460 --> 00:28:06,860 so we like went over to get like our bag of goodies which is just like a t-shirt 285 00:28:06,860 --> 00:28:13,300 some socks like so and like a schedule of the entire conference so we grabbed 286 00:28:13,300 --> 00:28:18,500 that and then we were like passing by this one guy who had like a cool backpack 287 00:28:18,500 --> 00:28:23,860 that my friend commented on and we were just brought into a networking talk and 288 00:28:23,860 --> 00:28:28,940 so we were just talking to him and turns out that he was actually talking to 289 00:28:28,940 --> 00:28:33,460 another dude so we kind of interrupted but we got added into the conversation and 290 00:28:33,460 --> 00:28:37,460 then we kind of got excluded in Scott conversation so we were basically just 291 00:28:37,460 --> 00:28:44,300 observing this this networking like action happening in front of us of these 292 00:28:44,300 --> 00:28:49,620 two dudes who just met and this one guy had like this tea company he was selling 293 00:28:49,620 --> 00:28:54,860 like tea and then this other guy had connections so they were talking to each 294 00:28:54,860 --> 00:28:59,180 other and this one dude literally set this other guy up with a bunch of 295 00:28:59,180 --> 00:29:04,100 connections like providers like so like I don't even remember what what it was 296 00:29:04,100 --> 00:29:09,140 but literally just from a simple conversation this one guy got set up with 297 00:29:09,140 --> 00:29:14,260 so much stuff and you could tell that this guy was excited so I hadn't realized 298 00:29:14,260 --> 00:29:19,620 how valuable networking was until that literally I just watched it in front of 299 00:29:19,620 --> 00:29:28,020 my very eyes and then we just walked around and we met like we bought hats 300 00:29:28,020 --> 00:29:33,340 from a click funnels hats which are very minimalist in their branding for that 301 00:29:33,340 --> 00:29:41,540 specific hat which is why we bought it and then we went to okay okay yeah so we 302 00:29:41,540 --> 00:29:47,340 got an Uber to go to Costco and we were able to get into Costco now let me tell 303 00:29:47,340 --> 00:29:53,340 you one thing dates that still have their pits in because usually I get like the 304 00:29:53,340 --> 00:29:58,420 dates that they have in Costco at my house are always pitted and so they're 305 00:29:58,420 --> 00:30:03,740 like dry sometimes but let me tell you one thing dates that have not been pitted 306 00:30:03,740 --> 00:30:09,140 like seeded dates straight off the tree those are the best things ever like they 307 00:30:09,140 --> 00:30:17,180 taste so good but that's a side note like I want like another okay so the 308 00:30:17,180 --> 00:30:22,740 today's biggest lessons is release your grip of control like literally allow the 309 00:30:22,740 --> 00:30:26,140 world to deal with things for yourself for you allow the world to take care of 310 00:30:26,140 --> 00:30:30,780 you and just move one step in front of the other like because you can't see 311 00:30:30,780 --> 00:30:35,940 past one meter like past your torch like you can't see that far into the forest 312 00:30:35,940 --> 00:30:41,940 and also don't plan things like it's ridiculous if you're sitting in a in 313 00:30:41,940 --> 00:30:47,820 darkness and you plan for there to be like a caterpillar there a frog there 314 00:30:47,820 --> 00:30:51,300 like that would be ridiculous if you just planned for things to happen like 315 00:30:51,300 --> 00:31:01,500 that and there was one more oh one more thing just do it like we because so we 316 00:31:01,500 --> 00:31:08,100 actually both me and Franklin when we were first like coming up with the idea 317 00:31:08,100 --> 00:31:14,900 of going to fun lacking life we both had like our our doubts and we both were 318 00:31:14,900 --> 00:31:19,180 kind of like naturally we're both a little nervous and we both didn't really 319 00:31:19,180 --> 00:31:23,980 want to take the leap of faith but that's it take the leap of faith because 320 00:31:23,980 --> 00:31:31,100 you're living in a life that is just average like my life even now my life 321 00:31:31,100 --> 00:31:36,220 is simply just average so you have to do crazy things if you want your life to 322 00:31:36,220 --> 00:31:43,220 get amazing like we took the leap of faith and now we're in Florida we haven't 323 00:31:43,220 --> 00:31:49,220 even gotten the actual benefits from coming here like going into the event 324 00:31:49,220 --> 00:31:56,980 and we've already like it's already going amazing already going amazing so take 325 00:31:56,980 --> 00:32:03,260 the leap of faith if you want your your life to turn itself upside down if you 326 00:32:03,260 --> 00:32:07,660 want your life to switch on itself if you want to go in a different direction 327 00:32:07,660 --> 00:32:13,700 in life take the leap of faith like there's so much like social mental or 328 00:32:13,700 --> 00:32:19,260 whatever the force may be but there's like this force that is actually like 329 00:32:19,260 --> 00:32:29,620 tugging on me and Franklin now we are students we are like literally the end 330 00:32:29,620 --> 00:32:35,380 to product of the American education system so we're just sitting we were we 331 00:32:35,380 --> 00:32:41,020 spent our entire life getting forged by the pendulum of the American system 332 00:32:41,020 --> 00:32:46,780 American education system so our worldview our brain our mindset was 333 00:32:46,780 --> 00:32:55,980 getting forged and shaped and morphed into a tiny little tiny little speck of 334 00:32:55,980 --> 00:33:03,380 what it should be like the there's this one thing where the chosen ones choose 335 00:33:03,380 --> 00:33:10,340 themselves now let me explain we live in a world of pendulums and these 336 00:33:10,340 --> 00:33:18,100 pendulums do not benefit from people like taking advantage of their full power 337 00:33:18,100 --> 00:33:24,900 so humans by default have this amazing power to create they create their own 338 00:33:24,900 --> 00:33:29,140 world layer and they actually can like get whatever they choose and it's a 339 00:33:29,140 --> 00:33:35,020 little known fact because pendulums actually don't benefit from us like 340 00:33:35,020 --> 00:33:40,500 creating and living to our most optimal like scenario we they don't benefit from 341 00:33:40,500 --> 00:33:46,980 us living like our best happy life but what they do benefit from us is us going 342 00:33:46,980 --> 00:33:54,460 in circles living in a tiny little box and constantly feeding its energy and 343 00:33:54,460 --> 00:34:01,220 becoming us a wheel in the cog like becoming a part in the machine that's 344 00:34:01,220 --> 00:34:06,940 what the American education system does they don't teach you how to be rich they 345 00:34:06,940 --> 00:34:10,540 don't teach you how to create a life of your dreams they don't even teach you how 346 00:34:10,540 --> 00:34:14,740 to buy a house how to get a job they don't even teach you how to do anything 347 00:34:14,740 --> 00:34:23,180 except simple stuff or not even simple stuff but stuff that is specifically 348 00:34:23,180 --> 00:34:30,140 curated to teach you and it kind of it just has the passive feature to morph 349 00:34:30,140 --> 00:34:34,100 your brain into this tiny little thing that's why you learn like you 350 00:34:34,100 --> 00:34:39,700 memorize facts because our minds are not actually meant to be like like storage 351 00:34:39,700 --> 00:34:44,380 devices there's they're meant to be much more than that I don't remember what the 352 00:34:44,380 --> 00:34:51,980 other metaphor was but what what the American education system does is it 353 00:34:51,980 --> 00:34:57,180 it basically forges you to be a cog in the machine so it forges you to be a 354 00:34:57,180 --> 00:35:03,420 part of the system and that's why you see everyone going through the system and 355 00:35:03,420 --> 00:35:11,060 then they end up living an like misery like an average mediocre life working a 356 00:35:11,060 --> 00:35:14,740 nine to five job for the rest of the lives for 40 years until they can 357 00:35:14,740 --> 00:35:21,900 possibly retire now one thing I want to say I want to be very clear on is do not 358 00:35:21,900 --> 00:35:27,220 judge because that's their choice everyone makes their own choice now everyone 359 00:35:27,220 --> 00:35:31,620 makes a choice and they get exactly what they receive like they you receive 360 00:35:31,620 --> 00:35:35,180 exactly what you choose so that's their choice and that's one thing I was 361 00:35:35,180 --> 00:35:38,660 struggling with when I first read the millionaire fast lane when I was learning 362 00:35:38,660 --> 00:35:46,020 about the system and like the slow lane and the sidewalk I was learning about 363 00:35:46,020 --> 00:35:53,460 that stuff and I was like like I was like very I was sending a lot of negative 364 00:35:53,460 --> 00:35:57,660 energy to these people even though they that's their choice let them live their 365 00:35:57,660 --> 00:36:02,900 life like one of the like the principle of transurfing is allow like be 366 00:36:02,900 --> 00:36:07,260 yourself and allow others to do them the same so allow them to make their 367 00:36:07,260 --> 00:36:16,940 choices but you were just a cog in the machine and this this leads to a lot of 368 00:36:16,940 --> 00:36:23,340 things so we are like going back to what I was originally talking about about how 369 00:36:23,340 --> 00:36:32,180 there's a lot of social forces and like other kind of supernatural forces pulling 370 00:36:32,180 --> 00:36:38,380 on me and Franklin because we're like right at the end of the American 371 00:36:38,380 --> 00:36:41,860 education system we're both seniors in high school so we're about to be like 372 00:36:41,860 --> 00:36:49,660 the finished product before college obviously but basically we're our worldview 373 00:36:49,660 --> 00:36:55,700 has been shaped all our lives and so there's been a seed planted into our 374 00:36:55,700 --> 00:37:02,740 like brains basically and that's the reason why we were so like nervous and we 375 00:37:02,740 --> 00:37:07,340 like didn't really know if we should or didn't know what to do about going to 376 00:37:07,340 --> 00:37:12,860 Florida like we almost didn't pull the trigger that's simply because the 377 00:37:12,860 --> 00:37:20,980 pendulums have morphed our minds and forged our worldview to become that like 378 00:37:20,980 --> 00:37:26,180 become a cog in the machine and cogs in the machine don't leave school they 379 00:37:26,180 --> 00:37:30,660 don't leave work to go on a five-day business conference across the country 380 00:37:30,660 --> 00:37:35,540 like cogs in the machine don't live their own lives cogs in the machine are 381 00:37:35,540 --> 00:37:41,460 not independent free-willed people who create their own world who love what 382 00:37:41,460 --> 00:37:46,660 they do cogs in the machine do exactly what they're told to do and they do the 383 00:37:46,660 --> 00:37:51,940 same thing over and over again if you have a I want you to picture like a 384 00:37:51,940 --> 00:37:57,740 bunch of like cogs spinning like I don't know what the word is but imagine 385 00:37:57,740 --> 00:38:05,620 like the the things how do I explain this circles a bunch of circles connected 386 00:38:05,620 --> 00:38:10,780 through like spikes kind of like that and they're like spinning together it's 387 00:38:10,780 --> 00:38:19,460 kind of like if you've seen the like a watch kind of where it like has cogs 388 00:38:19,460 --> 00:38:23,100 and they're spinning each other and then the small one spins the big one a 389 00:38:23,100 --> 00:38:26,740 little bit like cogs in the machine do exactly the same thing every single time 390 00:38:26,740 --> 00:38:32,100 all the time they only have one one thing on their mind and it's to do that 391 00:38:32,100 --> 00:38:37,100 action and what is that action you may ask is exactly what the pendulum needs 392 00:38:37,100 --> 00:38:41,900 at that time so that's why people chase like false dreams all the time because 393 00:38:41,900 --> 00:38:49,060 the pendulum needs that and another thing is the cog is providing energy to 394 00:38:49,060 --> 00:38:55,780 the whole system so that tiny little cog is moving itself a lot it's like 395 00:38:55,780 --> 00:38:59,860 using a lot of energy but it's moving the bigger one a little bit more and then 396 00:38:59,860 --> 00:39:03,020 that bigger one is moving the bigger one a little bit more and then it goes all 397 00:39:03,020 --> 00:39:07,460 the way up the line where eventually the whole system is moving and that's 398 00:39:07,460 --> 00:39:12,500 because all the tiny little ones are fueling the entire system with all 399 00:39:12,500 --> 00:39:17,500 their energy now how does this pertain to life people stress out they have doubts 400 00:39:17,500 --> 00:39:24,420 fears anxieties worries all the negative emotions as well as chasing false dreams 401 00:39:24,420 --> 00:39:32,420 false goals chasing different like going through the wrong path and they're 402 00:39:32,420 --> 00:39:38,220 basically living their life according to the pendulum rule do as I do so an 403 00:39:38,220 --> 00:39:45,020 excellent example of this is Michael Jordan he is one of the greatest basketball 404 00:39:45,020 --> 00:39:53,860 players of all time now when okay so he did not he was not like instantly he 405 00:39:53,860 --> 00:39:59,180 did not instantly become the greatest basketball player of all time he chose to 406 00:39:59,180 --> 00:40:03,340 do that he chose to get out on the court every single day and he allowed 407 00:40:03,340 --> 00:40:08,660 himself to become the best like you don't accidentally become the best so he 408 00:40:08,660 --> 00:40:13,860 chose to do that through his thoughts and actions and then eventually he got so 409 00:40:13,860 --> 00:40:19,940 good that the pendulum actually couldn't like hold him down any longer where the 410 00:40:19,940 --> 00:40:25,100 pendulum had no other choice but to light him up so he would be basically 411 00:40:25,100 --> 00:40:28,940 became a star there's a saying in Transurfing stars are born but pendulums 412 00:40:28,940 --> 00:40:35,100 light them up this pendulum like the NBA or the basketball pendulum lit up Michael 413 00:40:35,100 --> 00:40:40,580 Jordan and basically created a new rule do as I do so now the basketball 414 00:40:40,580 --> 00:40:46,020 pendulum collects a bunch of adherents so all the little middle school boys like 415 00:40:46,020 --> 00:40:53,660 elementary like all the young teenager boys or even younger like all the kids 416 00:40:53,660 --> 00:40:59,420 are basically adherents of this basketball pendulum now it's okay like that is 417 00:40:59,420 --> 00:41:04,620 fine like I'm an inherent of the gym pendulum like all pendulums are 418 00:41:04,620 --> 00:41:08,220 destructive but you just have to find your pendulums that actually help you 419 00:41:08,220 --> 00:41:14,580 with your goals like my goal is to get a nice physique and the pinch the gym 420 00:41:14,580 --> 00:41:20,340 pendulum helps me with that so all of these kids and I was actually an 421 00:41:20,340 --> 00:41:24,100 inherent of the soccer pendulum and I still still kind of am and like that's 422 00:41:24,100 --> 00:41:27,740 not a bad thing so all these kids are adherents of the basketball pendulum 423 00:41:27,740 --> 00:41:31,060 it just means that they play basketball they enjoy basketball they think about 424 00:41:31,060 --> 00:41:36,620 basketball nothing wrong with that but what what happens is that pendulum 425 00:41:36,620 --> 00:41:41,020 gains power and it just like it starts to control its adherents and it needs 426 00:41:41,020 --> 00:41:48,260 energy so it basically implants a thought or this mindset into its 427 00:41:48,260 --> 00:41:55,020 adherents minds where it basically they start thinking about oh this Michael 428 00:41:55,020 --> 00:42:01,380 Jordan guy he's the real deal like I should start doing what he does and so 429 00:42:01,380 --> 00:42:06,700 these guys start to become like Michael Jordan Jr. or kid Michael Jordan like 430 00:42:06,700 --> 00:42:11,220 all these guys start to rep you replicate Michael Jordan and they want to 431 00:42:11,220 --> 00:42:16,340 become him they basically want to become him now this is extremely negative 432 00:42:16,340 --> 00:42:23,940 because this is a foreign goal like you have your own path and when you are 433 00:42:23,940 --> 00:42:30,660 going your own path everything works out perfectly but when you're chasing after 434 00:42:30,660 --> 00:42:35,540 a foreign goal and you're changing yourself you're doing two things one 435 00:42:35,540 --> 00:42:39,660 you're creating a lot of problems for yourself because the world like this is 436 00:42:39,660 --> 00:42:45,740 not your path this is someone else's path and two you're changing yourself so 437 00:42:45,740 --> 00:42:52,300 you're basically putting your heart your soul inside of a box and locking it 438 00:42:52,300 --> 00:42:58,820 literally placing the box far doubt far down into the depths of darkness and 439 00:42:58,820 --> 00:43:04,180 throwing away the lock so you lose your individuality you basically become 440 00:43:04,180 --> 00:43:10,820 someone else or at least you try because you can never be better and it's 441 00:43:10,820 --> 00:43:17,220 extremely difficult to even be as good like no one at the highest levels who've 442 00:43:17,220 --> 00:43:21,380 actually made it to in basketball have tried to replicate other people they 443 00:43:21,380 --> 00:43:26,020 went their own path so what they did was they just followed their own heart and 444 00:43:26,020 --> 00:43:31,300 they went their own path and that is like that going back to the school system 445 00:43:31,300 --> 00:43:35,460 like the school needs cogs in the machine so they say do as I do go to 446 00:43:35,460 --> 00:43:42,180 college get a nine to five job so that's why like average parents they have a 447 00:43:42,180 --> 00:43:46,140 degree and they work in nine to five for their lives and so they raise their 448 00:43:46,140 --> 00:43:50,220 kids according to the pendulum rule do as I do so the kids end up doing the same 449 00:43:50,220 --> 00:43:54,180 thing their parents did they go to school finish school go to college finish 450 00:43:54,180 --> 00:43:58,820 college and then they get a degree go find a job and then they work there for 451 00:43:58,820 --> 00:44:04,080 the rest of their life that's the do as I do and so that is why it was so 452 00:44:04,080 --> 00:44:08,940 difficult for me and Frank Franklin to actually make the decision pull the 453 00:44:08,940 --> 00:44:16,540 trigger and go to Florida because when we were like originally thinking about it 454 00:44:16,540 --> 00:44:21,020 that was we were starting to find our own path we were starting to go our own 455 00:44:21,020 --> 00:44:26,460 way listen to our heart but since our mind is heavily controlled by pendulums 456 00:44:26,460 --> 00:44:30,900 the pendulum didn't want us to go our own way the pendulum still want us to be 457 00:44:30,900 --> 00:44:36,460 cogs in the machine and so we are literally just moving we're we're kind 458 00:44:36,460 --> 00:44:44,980 of like leaving the system but that does not come without like backlash so that 459 00:44:44,980 --> 00:44:50,100 was like the pendulum was still trying to hold us back he was like our minds 460 00:44:50,100 --> 00:44:54,300 were like we were like nervous like we didn't we had no idea what to even 461 00:44:54,300 --> 00:45:00,940 expect and the pendulum that was that was all the pendulums thoughts and we're 462 00:45:00,940 --> 00:45:07,180 supposed to be amazing creators like another thing is according to your faith 463 00:45:07,180 --> 00:45:11,100 be it on to you that's a verse in scripture like the Bible and it basically 464 00:45:11,100 --> 00:45:16,980 means whatever according to your worldview like you get exactly what your 465 00:45:16,980 --> 00:45:24,180 worldview dictates and your worldview is heavily heavily like morphed and 466 00:45:24,180 --> 00:45:29,380 formed by pendulums like I've been saying this whole episode now pendulums 467 00:45:29,380 --> 00:45:35,740 were created by humans like humans start thinking about having like similar 468 00:45:35,740 --> 00:45:40,340 wave like similar thinking so if I'm thinking about bread and you're thinking 469 00:45:40,340 --> 00:45:43,740 about bread and then a thousand other people are thinking about bread we 470 00:45:43,740 --> 00:45:48,580 create a bread pendulum that's basically how pendulums are formed and 471 00:45:48,580 --> 00:45:54,260 Vadom Zalem said that these are the worst things that humanity has ever created 472 00:45:54,260 --> 00:46:00,740 and it will like I'm not sure if it was always like this because there has been 473 00:46:00,740 --> 00:46:07,620 some amazing feats in human history like have you ever looked at the the great 474 00:46:07,620 --> 00:46:15,780 pyramids of Egypt or like they are like three pyramids perfectly perfectly 475 00:46:15,780 --> 00:46:21,180 aligned with the stars and they were made like thousands of years ago like 476 00:46:21,180 --> 00:46:27,260 that does not happen on accident like if you and I were to be placed like if 477 00:46:27,260 --> 00:46:33,620 okay so if all humans so okay so let's say let's say there was I'm just giving 478 00:46:33,620 --> 00:46:38,620 a random number for argument's sake let's say there was ten thousand people 479 00:46:38,620 --> 00:46:44,900 involved in the creation of the pyramids so those were ten thousand Egyptians 480 00:46:44,900 --> 00:46:52,780 ancient Egyptians so let's say ten thousand like average American citizens 481 00:46:52,780 --> 00:47:00,420 from the year 2023 got teleported back and replaced all those Egyptians let's 482 00:47:00,420 --> 00:47:05,220 just say that happen do you think that they would be able do you think that me 483 00:47:05,220 --> 00:47:11,260 and you would be able to team up with like nine thousand nine hundred ninety 484 00:47:11,260 --> 00:47:16,900 eight other people and create the like have the same success with creating the 485 00:47:16,900 --> 00:47:22,380 world pyramids no we would not because we are limited our world is so different 486 00:47:22,380 --> 00:47:27,140 to how it was thousands of years ago because now with the age of the internet 487 00:47:27,140 --> 00:47:34,900 there are so many pendulums so like our like I grew up watching TV playing 488 00:47:34,900 --> 00:47:42,220 video games looking on tiktok Instagram YouTube I grew up all of this extremely 489 00:47:42,220 --> 00:47:47,860 destructive pendulums that never existed back in the day back in the day like the 490 00:47:47,860 --> 00:47:52,540 only information out there was books that is not nearly as a destructive 491 00:47:52,540 --> 00:47:57,460 pendulum as tiktok is tiktok forms your brain and you're extremely limited in 492 00:47:57,460 --> 00:48:02,660 your worldview and so that's why the Egyptians the ancient Egyptians had so 493 00:48:02,660 --> 00:48:10,780 much success like the first of all they had like no equipment so and those stones 494 00:48:10,780 --> 00:48:17,300 to create the temple was massive like you cannot carry that stone like you 495 00:48:17,300 --> 00:48:23,980 have to have either equipment or some other force because you simply could not 496 00:48:23,980 --> 00:48:29,940 carry that stone without the modern equipment so what these people did I 497 00:48:29,940 --> 00:48:34,080 have no it like one of the books I actually plan on reading actually 498 00:48:34,080 --> 00:48:39,300 discusses and uncovers a lot of the truth surrounding the Egyptian temple 499 00:48:39,300 --> 00:48:45,820 like the pyramids so I'm not reading that yet but I plan on reading that but 500 00:48:45,820 --> 00:48:53,580 like there's no way that me and you in 9900 idiot like 98 other people like you 501 00:48:53,580 --> 00:48:59,260 and I could go back and replace those workers and build this and have the same 502 00:48:59,260 --> 00:49:03,420 success building those pyramids because those pyramids were perfectly aligned 503 00:49:03,420 --> 00:49:09,620 with the stars like you and I could not go back in time and figure out how to 504 00:49:09,620 --> 00:49:15,060 perfectly align those with the stars like the scientists today to even figure 505 00:49:15,060 --> 00:49:20,460 out how accurate those pyramids were they had to have sophisticated equipment 506 00:49:20,460 --> 00:49:25,540 like extremely sophisticated equipment they didn't like they didn't just eyeball 507 00:49:25,540 --> 00:49:29,260 it they actually like measured it and figure it out that it was actually like 508 00:49:29,260 --> 00:49:33,620 perfect and they didn't have that equipment back in the day you know what 509 00:49:33,620 --> 00:49:40,540 they had outer intention so outer intention is basically you controlling 510 00:49:40,540 --> 00:49:46,300 the world without direct impact and what we're trying to do right now okay so 511 00:49:46,300 --> 00:49:49,380 outer intention is living in unity with the world it's what I've been talking 512 00:49:49,380 --> 00:49:54,420 about throughout this episode of just going with the flow allowing the world 513 00:49:54,420 --> 00:50:00,060 to take care of things and but there's a lot more to it and I don't completely 514 00:50:00,060 --> 00:50:06,100 understand the concept yet but those like those ancient Egyptians use outer 515 00:50:06,100 --> 00:50:13,420 intention a hundred percent and we in our narrow limited worldview we use 516 00:50:13,420 --> 00:50:17,460 inner intention that is striving to direct like impact the world directly 517 00:50:17,460 --> 00:50:21,540 and that's why we have these sophisticated equipment like that's why the 518 00:50:21,540 --> 00:50:27,900 scientists today measured the accuracy of the the Egyptian temples or pyramids 519 00:50:27,900 --> 00:50:33,420 with sophisticated equipment because that's inner intention that is striving 520 00:50:33,420 --> 00:50:53,980 to direct the world directly now let me get some water all right so this is this 521 00:50:53,980 --> 00:51:02,300 is this a lot to unpack like I'm like starting to believe so much that the 522 00:51:02,300 --> 00:51:10,180 worldview is your most like your thoughts is the most important thing in your 523 00:51:10,180 --> 00:51:17,380 like in your life like you controlling your thoughts is the most important thing 524 00:51:17,380 --> 00:51:25,820 ever your thoughts dictate exactly like Jesus came to the earth he said I'm 525 00:51:25,820 --> 00:51:30,460 pretty sure it was Jesus who said this it was a scripture verse someone said 526 00:51:30,460 --> 00:51:39,140 according to your faith be it on to you according to your worldview like that is 527 00:51:39,140 --> 00:51:45,820 exactly the life you get and our worldview has been taught exactly how it 528 00:51:45,820 --> 00:51:51,940 should be like your worldview is it did not happen on accident it was perfectly 529 00:51:51,940 --> 00:51:59,020 scripted and curated by pendulums and so if you are not aware of your thoughts 530 00:51:59,020 --> 00:52:06,100 100% guarantee is that your thoughts are uncontrolled like if you've never 531 00:52:06,100 --> 00:52:12,300 really noticed your thoughts you have your thoughts have been controlled and 532 00:52:12,300 --> 00:52:18,460 formed by pendulums pendulums basically think for you and this is like I'm not 533 00:52:18,460 --> 00:52:23,260 good I'm no better like I'm just learning about this stuff I'm six months 534 00:52:23,260 --> 00:52:28,780 into learning this stuff and I've made good progress but nowhere near where I 535 00:52:28,780 --> 00:52:36,820 want to be and like from okay so when we are first born we are born into a 536 00:52:36,820 --> 00:52:42,540 fresh canvas like a fresh Google document and then as we experience things 537 00:52:42,540 --> 00:52:49,100 more and more throughout our life that like our worldview is typed up and since 538 00:52:49,100 --> 00:52:53,300 we're in a world of pendulums these pendulums basically take off take a hold 539 00:52:53,300 --> 00:53:02,900 of the Google document and start typing narrow like very narrow dialed in and 540 00:53:02,900 --> 00:53:07,860 like the simple fact is back in ancient times there was near not nearly as much 541 00:53:07,860 --> 00:53:14,380 pendulums and they weren't nearly as destructive but now there's a lot more 542 00:53:14,380 --> 00:53:18,380 pendulums and a lot more destruction so that's why we're not able to achieve 543 00:53:18,380 --> 00:53:25,500 that much more but literally you get exactly what you choose and honestly I 544 00:53:25,500 --> 00:53:29,980 go so far to say that your worldview is the most important thing ever that's 545 00:53:29,980 --> 00:53:37,340 why I'm spending so much time learning about this stuff because just from 546 00:53:37,340 --> 00:53:44,860 starting just from changing my worldview a little bit I'm in Florida now just from 547 00:53:44,860 --> 00:53:49,660 changing my worldview a little bit my life is changing just a tiny little bit 548 00:53:49,660 --> 00:53:55,060 now I'm a little conscious of it that's another thing most people are not even 549 00:53:55,060 --> 00:53:59,220 aware of like they're not even conscious about their thoughts like most 550 00:53:59,220 --> 00:54:03,900 people are kind of just letting their thoughts happen they don't really take 551 00:54:03,900 --> 00:54:08,700 any particular notice or try to control them and that's exactly how I was because 552 00:54:08,700 --> 00:54:12,980 that's like the reason like the reason why I know that most people are like that 553 00:54:12,980 --> 00:54:19,940 is because that's exactly how I was and their world reflects that like most 554 00:54:19,940 --> 00:54:24,380 people feel stuck most people are not living exactly how they actually want 555 00:54:24,380 --> 00:54:28,740 because their soul is trapped in a box and their soul is still part of them so 556 00:54:28,740 --> 00:54:34,620 they're feeling that tension and it's all on purpose like this is like the whole 557 00:54:34,620 --> 00:54:44,060 system there's a guy in my school who actually last year I was in a class with 558 00:54:44,060 --> 00:54:48,500 him literally one year ago today first semester I was in a class with him and 559 00:54:48,500 --> 00:54:56,580 he was a big Andrew Tate fan and so he was all about the Matrix and he basically 560 00:54:56,580 --> 00:55:00,780 brought into my attention the Matrix and mind you at this time I was just 561 00:55:00,780 --> 00:55:05,300 learning about the Matrix I have just figured out the Matrix or just like 562 00:55:05,300 --> 00:55:08,900 starting to uncover it because I was reading the book called unscripted by 563 00:55:08,900 --> 00:55:16,100 MJ DeMarco and it basically like reveals that we're living in a Matrix but it it 564 00:55:16,100 --> 00:55:21,260 was a good introductory book to it but after reading Transurfing and actually 565 00:55:21,260 --> 00:55:26,700 seeing this stuff in real life I know that it's so much deeper than that and 566 00:55:26,700 --> 00:55:32,660 it's actually interesting because the friend that introduced me to the Matrix 567 00:55:32,660 --> 00:55:39,460 like he is a part of the Matrix as well so am I but it's all about your worldview 568 00:55:39,460 --> 00:55:46,820 it's all about like how much you know so we are a part of a Matrix and I'm 569 00:55:46,820 --> 00:55:51,420 actually I actually haven't watched that movie I've only watched it once and it's 570 00:55:51,420 --> 00:55:55,700 been a while since I watched it and I think I watched it before I read 571 00:55:55,700 --> 00:56:01,740 Reality Transurfing but it was after I read Unscripted and it's funny because 572 00:56:01,740 --> 00:56:05,780 my friend who actually brought into my attention about the Matrix he was the one 573 00:56:05,780 --> 00:56:10,540 that caused me to watch the movie and I'm actually gonna be watching the movie 574 00:56:10,540 --> 00:56:18,500 in school in one of my classes sometime in the coming future so I'll definitely 575 00:56:18,500 --> 00:56:24,420 be getting a lot of insights on that because in of itself watching a movie 576 00:56:24,420 --> 00:56:29,740 is harmful because I was talking about this the other day where when you're 577 00:56:29,740 --> 00:56:32,940 watching a movie you're basically hypnotized and your brainwaves are 578 00:56:32,940 --> 00:56:36,420 actually like changed there's actually a change in your brainwaves when you're 579 00:56:36,420 --> 00:56:42,700 watching a movie and you can tell like if you if a Buddhist monk just came out 580 00:56:42,700 --> 00:56:49,100 of meditation after like a very disciplined year let's say okay no let 581 00:56:49,100 --> 00:56:53,040 just say for one year you are extremely disciplined and you meditate like two 582 00:56:53,040 --> 00:56:57,380 hours every day and then you were to watch a movie after one year of that and 583 00:56:57,380 --> 00:57:02,260 you go back up to your daily life you would be able to tell your focus and I 584 00:57:02,260 --> 00:57:05,340 actually was able to tell because I've been meditated for like three months 585 00:57:05,340 --> 00:57:12,020 consistently and I was able to tell after watching a movie a couple weeks ago 586 00:57:12,020 --> 00:57:18,660 like my mind my thoughts were like uncontrolled and I was like losing 587 00:57:18,660 --> 00:57:24,540 control of my thoughts a lot more but what Vadim Zalman said in Transurfing is 588 00:57:24,540 --> 00:57:32,060 that when you like you can never gain a profit on an energy exchange through 589 00:57:32,060 --> 00:57:39,540 pendulums like an energy exchange or energy debt would be like alcohol drugs 590 00:57:39,540 --> 00:57:45,060 like all that stuff but TV like watching television is also another like energy 591 00:57:45,060 --> 00:57:50,340 on credit you can never gain profit from it but to kind of reduce the negative 592 00:57:50,340 --> 00:57:57,020 effects so much and kind of use the energy positively is while you're watching 593 00:57:57,020 --> 00:58:00,540 the movie you link it back to your goals and you correlate it with 594 00:58:00,540 --> 00:58:05,180 Transurfing and that's what I plan on doing with the Matrix every single time 595 00:58:05,180 --> 00:58:11,020 I see something relating to like Transurfing and the Transurfing principles 596 00:58:11,020 --> 00:58:16,220 and relating to my goal and relating to how I can achieve my goal I'm going to 597 00:58:16,220 --> 00:58:19,540 be like thinking about it and watching the movie through that lens and that's 598 00:58:19,540 --> 00:58:25,780 actually what I did with towards the end like I did this partially through this 599 00:58:25,780 --> 00:58:31,060 one movie is called Gadica and there was a few times throughout that movie when 600 00:58:31,060 --> 00:58:33,940 I was like thinking about the transfer from principles for example this one 601 00:58:33,940 --> 00:58:37,660 guy like did an absolutely amazing thing that was impossible and he achieved 602 00:58:37,660 --> 00:58:41,900 his goal that was seemingly impossible everyone knew it was impossible everyone 603 00:58:41,900 --> 00:58:45,780 told him so but he decided not to listen and he followed the transfer from 604 00:58:45,780 --> 00:58:50,980 principles impeccably and as a result he achieved his goal and so like I was 605 00:58:50,980 --> 00:58:55,540 conscious of that a little bit throughout the book or movie mind you I was 606 00:58:55,540 --> 00:59:02,660 mostly hypnotized I was like hypnotized most of that movie but I was able to be 607 00:59:02,660 --> 00:59:10,300 conscious of it a little bit so that's like that's basically honestly that was 608 00:59:10,300 --> 00:59:15,140 today was a good episode because we talked about let's let's wrap up all 609 00:59:15,140 --> 00:59:23,540 the let's wrap up all of the lessons so don't don't plan like it's okay to plan 610 00:59:23,540 --> 00:59:29,780 certain things like we obviously planned to buy a hotel but like don't plan 611 00:59:29,780 --> 00:59:35,340 super specific details don't create a strong script don't plan go with the 612 00:59:35,340 --> 00:59:43,380 flow allow deviations also allow the world to take care of you allow the world 613 00:59:43,380 --> 00:59:47,700 like most people have a strangling grip on the world and I included still I'm 614 00:59:47,700 --> 00:59:54,340 I'm slowly trying to make it better but allow the world to fix things for or 615 00:59:54,340 --> 00:59:59,980 take care of you for you and like your worldview is extremely important probably 616 00:59:59,980 --> 01:00:05,660 like the most important thing part of you so that's the end of episode so it's a 617 01:00:05,660 --> 01:00:09,740 wrap things up don't forget to download your favorite episodes and subscribe to 618 01:00:09,740 --> 01:00:15,660 the ascend momentum show but before you guys leave make sure to look up at the 619 01:00:15,660 --> 01:00:28,620 sky