Learning Through Discomfort

1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:05,120 How do young men like us who didn't listen to society who are on our own? 2 00:00:05,680 --> 00:00:09,800 How do we grow and improve ourselves so that we can live a better tomorrow? 3 00:00:11,240 --> 00:00:14,960 That is a question and this show will give you the answers 4 00:00:15,600 --> 00:00:20,640 My name is James Redzinski and this is the ascend momentum show 5 00:00:20,640 --> 00:00:30,600 So I want to tell you guys a story that I heard from 6 00:00:32,480 --> 00:00:35,360 Maureen Byron, I think let me oh 7 00:00:36,680 --> 00:00:38,680 Myron Golden my muffle 8 00:00:39,880 --> 00:00:41,360 so 9 00:00:41,360 --> 00:00:44,200 It was in your first final challenge 10 00:00:44,200 --> 00:00:48,360 the extra day the celebration and 11 00:00:52,960 --> 00:00:59,740 There were two so I'm just gonna get into the story there are two eagles and they were pregnant so 12 00:01:00,200 --> 00:01:03,400 the they decided to build a nest and 13 00:01:04,080 --> 00:01:09,680 They laid their eggs in the nest and then the birds were hatched 14 00:01:09,680 --> 00:01:18,920 Every day they would come to the bird to feed them food and then the birds would say hey mom and dad 15 00:01:18,920 --> 00:01:20,920 Can you teach us how to fly? 16 00:01:20,920 --> 00:01:28,560 The mom would say no, maybe tomorrow this repeated for 15 20 days then on the 20th day 17 00:01:29,800 --> 00:01:32,040 The bird was like hey mom and dad 18 00:01:32,640 --> 00:01:35,000 Can you teach us how to fly and then? 19 00:01:35,000 --> 00:01:39,720 They were like sure tomorrow is the first lesson 20 00:01:40,480 --> 00:01:43,120 so tomorrow rolls a rolls around and 21 00:01:43,760 --> 00:01:46,480 the first one gets on the mom's back and 22 00:01:47,000 --> 00:01:49,760 So they start flying up and the mom 23 00:01:50,160 --> 00:01:56,120 Starts flying up higher and higher and then the kid is like higher higher higher because he's so excited and 24 00:01:56,600 --> 00:02:00,000 Then the mom swoops around and drops the kid 25 00:02:00,000 --> 00:02:07,520 The kid is falling screaming crying like oh, I'm falling like I'm gonna die and 26 00:02:08,720 --> 00:02:10,000 then 27 00:02:10,000 --> 00:02:13,720 The mom suddenly right before he made lands on the ground 28 00:02:14,160 --> 00:02:17,000 cat swoops up and catches the bird and 29 00:02:18,680 --> 00:02:23,400 So the bird comes back to the nest and says like don't this is crazy 30 00:02:23,760 --> 00:02:28,960 Don't do it and so the mom forces all the rest to do it the same thing and 31 00:02:28,960 --> 00:02:33,080 And so the next day rolls around and they're all like no we're not doing this 32 00:02:33,200 --> 00:02:38,240 but the mom forces them to and they continue to have 33 00:02:38,680 --> 00:02:45,920 Flight lessons like this same way every single day and it's super scary and they feel like they're gonna die every day 34 00:02:47,640 --> 00:02:50,920 And then on the 20th day 35 00:02:52,280 --> 00:02:54,280 The bird flies 36 00:02:54,280 --> 00:03:03,160 The mom takes the bird all the way up drops it like usual and then suddenly the wind catches its wing 37 00:03:04,040 --> 00:03:11,520 Perfectly and then he starts gliding and then so he flies back. He's able to fly back to the next on his own and 38 00:03:13,120 --> 00:03:15,120 So he finally achieved 39 00:03:17,120 --> 00:03:19,440 Flight the goal that he was chasing and 40 00:03:19,440 --> 00:03:22,440 and so 41 00:03:22,840 --> 00:03:25,840 The learning curve for learning how to fly 42 00:03:26,760 --> 00:03:34,000 Learning equals learning how to fly is not just straight upwards. It's actually you you have to drop down and 43 00:03:34,480 --> 00:03:36,480 before you'll be able to fly up and 44 00:03:37,760 --> 00:03:45,200 So that's the learning curve. That's just the learning curve for everything. You have to fall down before you're able to climb back up and 45 00:03:46,640 --> 00:03:48,280 birds 46 00:03:48,280 --> 00:03:51,240 Succeed 100% of the time and learning how to fly 47 00:03:52,040 --> 00:03:56,280 But humans only succeed 3% of the time 48 00:03:57,200 --> 00:03:58,760 Why is that? 49 00:03:58,760 --> 00:04:00,760 Because we have choice 50 00:04:01,400 --> 00:04:04,520 So many of us choose not to 51 00:04:05,200 --> 00:04:08,840 Act and we choose not to fall before we can rise again 52 00:04:12,120 --> 00:04:14,120 So that's something that I learned today 53 00:04:14,120 --> 00:04:19,640 Today was a very long day for me 54 00:04:20,360 --> 00:04:25,760 I've been on my computer from 10 until right now and it's 447 55 00:04:26,960 --> 00:04:30,680 Super tired. I was watching the webinar all day long and 56 00:04:32,720 --> 00:04:35,200 I'm once I'm done with this 57 00:04:36,080 --> 00:04:37,560 webinar 58 00:04:37,560 --> 00:04:43,440 Which I have like one more thing tomorrow of two hours. I am done with the computer 59 00:04:43,440 --> 00:04:47,600 Of watching videos. I'm gonna get my studying from reading 60 00:04:56,080 --> 00:05:01,720 I'm really stressed out right now because my sister got home and 61 00:05:02,920 --> 00:05:07,920 She's like right above me and I get a lot of anxiety and I don't want my 62 00:05:07,920 --> 00:05:13,240 Family members to see my work and so I'm just talking 63 00:05:14,280 --> 00:05:16,280 quietly on my podcast 64 00:05:16,560 --> 00:05:18,360 talking you guys 65 00:05:18,360 --> 00:05:20,600 and my sister's like right there and 66 00:05:23,200 --> 00:05:26,560 If you guys have read the book reality Transurfing 67 00:05:27,880 --> 00:05:33,040 I'm rereading it again. I 100% recommend you read it and read it and read it 68 00:05:34,440 --> 00:05:36,280 and 69 00:05:36,280 --> 00:05:38,280 I'm taking into notice that 70 00:05:39,560 --> 00:05:41,840 people can be pendulums also and 71 00:05:42,800 --> 00:05:45,000 pendulums can act through people and 72 00:05:47,960 --> 00:05:53,840 So that's why I'm I actually don't know why I'm nervous right now 73 00:05:53,840 --> 00:06:04,840 So today I 74 00:06:08,160 --> 00:06:16,600 Contacted five more people and I have not gotten any response back from anyone yet 75 00:06:17,160 --> 00:06:21,400 Not from the five people now and not from the five people from yesterday 76 00:06:21,400 --> 00:06:28,240 And it is Saturday, so hopefully they'll respond back on Monday 77 00:06:28,800 --> 00:06:33,120 But I'm gonna contact five more new people every single day 78 00:06:34,040 --> 00:06:35,920 until I 79 00:06:35,920 --> 00:06:39,040 find work and what I'm doing is I'm gonna 80 00:06:41,000 --> 00:06:45,400 Basically build them a funnel I'm finding local businesses and 81 00:06:45,400 --> 00:06:52,080 and local brick and mortar businesses and emailing them or calling them and 82 00:06:54,280 --> 00:07:00,080 Seeing if I can build them a funnel and right now. I'm just doing it for the learning experience to see 83 00:07:00,840 --> 00:07:05,280 Just so I can learn how to do it learn the process and then I'll be able to sell it and 84 00:07:06,520 --> 00:07:08,440 Hope and 85 00:07:08,440 --> 00:07:12,120 Hopefully the first one goes well and I get a testimonial 86 00:07:12,120 --> 00:07:14,120 And maybe even a tip 87 00:07:16,280 --> 00:07:21,960 But right now I'm just doing it for the learning experience and while I'm doing it I'm maintaining my routine of 88 00:07:23,520 --> 00:07:25,880 Studying expert secrets every day and 89 00:07:27,360 --> 00:07:29,360 meditating and all this other stuff, but 90 00:07:30,160 --> 00:07:32,160 That's what I learned in 91 00:07:32,760 --> 00:07:35,720 Garrett J. White's part of the 30 days book 92 00:07:35,720 --> 00:07:42,080 The core for which the only one that I remember is meditating 93 00:07:45,880 --> 00:07:52,560 Man I'm so nervous right now. I'm so sorry you guys this is a really bad episode 94 00:07:54,440 --> 00:07:58,520 My sister's like right up there and I I just 95 00:08:01,120 --> 00:08:03,480 You know what screw this bro 96 00:08:03,480 --> 00:08:05,480 Screw this 97 00:08:22,360 --> 00:08:24,360 Okay, I'm awake 98 00:08:25,240 --> 00:08:27,240 Let's frickin do this thing 99 00:08:27,520 --> 00:08:29,520 Okay, so what did I learn today? 100 00:08:29,520 --> 00:08:33,520 I just learned something and that it's I need to 101 00:08:34,560 --> 00:08:39,760 Remember what I've learned so last night I read something in Transurfing 102 00:08:40,440 --> 00:08:44,120 I'm right now. I'm only in like the first 50 pages or so and 103 00:08:46,560 --> 00:08:50,280 He was introducing like pendulums and stuff which are just 104 00:08:53,680 --> 00:08:58,840 Actually, I am gonna explain it to you because that's the best way to see if you actually understand it a 105 00:08:58,840 --> 00:09:00,760 Pendulum is 106 00:09:00,760 --> 00:09:04,600 Something that is formed when people think 107 00:09:05,200 --> 00:09:10,920 So when a group of people think of the same thing a pendulum is formed and it's like a separate structure 108 00:09:11,920 --> 00:09:13,920 It's like an energy based structure 109 00:09:14,440 --> 00:09:21,120 and then it goes on on its own and then it tries and gets more adherence which are just like 110 00:09:21,720 --> 00:09:23,720 followers basically and 111 00:09:23,720 --> 00:09:31,240 And it can zap like it can suck people in through their emotions through many different things and 112 00:09:33,440 --> 00:09:36,920 It's all pendulums are bad but 113 00:09:38,960 --> 00:09:44,080 Not but you don't have to avoid them it's actually impossible to 114 00:09:45,200 --> 00:09:47,200 Break free from all pendulums 115 00:09:47,800 --> 00:09:49,320 but 116 00:09:49,320 --> 00:09:54,520 Yeah, I don't really understand it that much even though I've read the whole book. That's why I'm rereading it again 117 00:09:55,960 --> 00:09:57,960 It's a really 118 00:09:58,520 --> 00:10:00,520 complicated concept to 119 00:10:00,560 --> 00:10:05,280 understand and it's tough to explain it simply but 120 00:10:06,320 --> 00:10:07,800 pretty much 121 00:10:07,800 --> 00:10:14,720 They fight for adherence and then when you're thinking about it you lose your energy to it so it steals your energy and 122 00:10:15,120 --> 00:10:17,120 it's best to 123 00:10:17,120 --> 00:10:19,120 Just 124 00:10:19,120 --> 00:10:21,620 Accept that it exists and then 125 00:10:22,360 --> 00:10:27,320 Go on with your day like except that it exists, but don't accept it into your world 126 00:10:27,600 --> 00:10:32,360 Just accept it that it exists and then just walk on 127 00:10:33,080 --> 00:10:34,840 indifferently 128 00:10:34,840 --> 00:10:36,560 so 129 00:10:36,560 --> 00:10:40,920 That's huge another thing one thing I want to teach you guys is 130 00:10:41,960 --> 00:10:45,880 When you're meditating when you're doing your nightly meditation. I 131 00:10:45,880 --> 00:10:50,080 like to have a 20 minute journaling session 132 00:10:51,320 --> 00:10:53,320 beforehand and 133 00:10:56,200 --> 00:11:00,160 It's huge journaling has been so I 134 00:11:01,560 --> 00:11:06,040 Only have been journaling for the past month and three days maybe 135 00:11:07,000 --> 00:11:09,680 like consistently for the past month and three days and 136 00:11:13,080 --> 00:11:15,080 It's I 137 00:11:15,080 --> 00:11:19,160 I 100% recommend it because I'm able to keep myself 138 00:11:20,000 --> 00:11:22,000 on target and 139 00:11:22,000 --> 00:11:26,600 On track and what what I do is I I made these questions up on my own 140 00:11:26,600 --> 00:11:30,160 So I recommend you guys make your own questions up that you ask yourself every day 141 00:11:30,840 --> 00:11:38,920 But my questions I started with two and then I moved on to three and then four and then today or last night 142 00:11:38,920 --> 00:11:43,200 I added two more the first one is what did I do today to move towards my goals? 143 00:11:43,200 --> 00:11:49,640 The second one is is this actually helping or am I just distracting myself? 144 00:11:50,400 --> 00:11:52,400 the third one is 145 00:11:53,640 --> 00:11:59,640 Am I doing enough to move towards my goals and the fourth one is 146 00:12:01,840 --> 00:12:03,840 What should I do tomorrow? 147 00:12:03,840 --> 00:12:11,120 Like my daily my critical task and I also remind myself of my new routine additions. So I write down 148 00:12:11,120 --> 00:12:17,440 to remind myself to do a podcast to record three videos and to 149 00:12:18,560 --> 00:12:21,840 email five new people on my dream 100 list and 150 00:12:24,120 --> 00:12:28,280 And then on the the new addition that I added last night 151 00:12:28,280 --> 00:12:31,840 And I just added this because I started studying 152 00:12:32,760 --> 00:12:38,320 Expert secrets and I'm starting to actually study now before I was reading books 153 00:12:38,320 --> 00:12:43,400 Just to read them and learn from them, but now I'm actually sitting down and studying them 154 00:12:44,760 --> 00:12:46,760 Which I recommend both 155 00:12:47,680 --> 00:12:51,160 Because I was reading them and trying to learn I guess I was always studying 156 00:12:51,160 --> 00:12:54,680 But now I'm actually having a set amount of time daily 157 00:12:55,000 --> 00:13:01,240 To study expert secrets and pretty much what I'm just I'm just reading it. I'm not really studying it 158 00:13:01,480 --> 00:13:06,200 But the studying comes at nighttime is what I realized and 159 00:13:06,200 --> 00:13:12,040 And I read it right when I get home from the gym in the morning around 7 30 for 30 minutes 160 00:13:12,560 --> 00:13:13,360 and 161 00:13:13,360 --> 00:13:19,240 Then at nighttime right before I go to bed the fifth question I ask myself in my journal is 162 00:13:21,200 --> 00:13:23,200 What did I learn in 163 00:13:23,760 --> 00:13:25,400 my studies 164 00:13:25,400 --> 00:13:29,600 for expert secrets the book that I read in my morning studies and 165 00:13:29,920 --> 00:13:34,520 Then I write down what I learned. So last night I learned that you have to 166 00:13:34,520 --> 00:13:39,840 There I was just reading the first part and the first part was to 167 00:13:40,200 --> 00:13:42,200 in order to 168 00:13:42,320 --> 00:13:45,640 Build a movement you have to have an expert such guide 169 00:13:46,320 --> 00:13:48,640 which is the leader and then a 170 00:13:50,360 --> 00:13:56,480 New opportunity which is the vehicle and then a future-based cause which is the result and 171 00:13:56,480 --> 00:14:03,880 The leader uses a new vehicle the leader guides the dream customer 172 00:14:05,480 --> 00:14:09,240 To the future-based cause through the the vehicle 173 00:14:10,480 --> 00:14:12,480 so and then 174 00:14:13,320 --> 00:14:19,600 The fifth question or the sixth question that I asked myself in my journal journal in is 175 00:14:21,280 --> 00:14:23,480 What did I learn in my nighttime? 176 00:14:23,760 --> 00:14:25,480 but it's a 177 00:14:25,480 --> 00:14:27,120 nighttime 178 00:14:27,120 --> 00:14:30,880 learning study session which at nighttime I study 179 00:14:31,680 --> 00:14:33,680 reality transurfing and 180 00:14:36,160 --> 00:14:39,920 Yesterday I talked about this earlier, but yesterday I 181 00:14:41,160 --> 00:14:43,160 learned 182 00:14:43,160 --> 00:14:50,200 That I have to remember I have to remember what I've learned in reality transurfing and 183 00:14:50,200 --> 00:14:59,760 I'm gonna give you guys one of the biggest things that I've learned in reality transurfing and what you need to 184 00:15:00,600 --> 00:15:06,080 You won't be able to like build this skill or have it or whatever it is 185 00:15:07,120 --> 00:15:08,880 Unless you read the book 186 00:15:08,880 --> 00:15:11,160 You won't be able to get it by listening 187 00:15:11,160 --> 00:15:13,960 You won't be able to you might be able to have some success 188 00:15:13,960 --> 00:15:16,560 But if you truly want to change your mind 189 00:15:16,560 --> 00:15:22,960 I always love reading because you morph your mind into what that author wants 190 00:15:23,720 --> 00:15:25,720 you to get so you like 191 00:15:25,920 --> 00:15:32,400 Build those new channels in your mind and that's why rereading it strengthens those channels 192 00:15:32,400 --> 00:15:35,920 And then adds more of those mini channels that the author 193 00:15:36,400 --> 00:15:39,840 gets like the first time you read the book you build the 194 00:15:39,840 --> 00:15:48,480 Maybe the trunk you get the main idea and then the second time you start to branch out and build the thicker branches and 195 00:15:49,120 --> 00:15:54,400 Then the third time you read it you make the twigs and then the fourth time 196 00:15:54,960 --> 00:15:57,160 You make the leaves. It's not 197 00:15:57,960 --> 00:16:00,200 It's not that maybe I don't know 198 00:16:01,480 --> 00:16:07,800 Probably like closer to ten times to be able to make the full tree probably more to be honest, but 199 00:16:07,800 --> 00:16:10,800 That's just an example and 200 00:16:11,840 --> 00:16:14,920 If you read Transurfing you'll learn this one 201 00:16:15,640 --> 00:16:17,640 huge thing and it's to 202 00:16:18,120 --> 00:16:20,120 stay awake and 203 00:16:22,240 --> 00:16:29,560 Once you read Transurfing you'll learn what that actually means, but pretty much it means that it's just a game 204 00:16:30,560 --> 00:16:32,560 life is just a game and 205 00:16:32,560 --> 00:16:38,880 You should not get absorbed into it. You should you do not get 206 00:16:40,160 --> 00:16:42,160 Absorbed don't play the game 207 00:16:42,840 --> 00:16:49,920 Be a viewer be a bystander. Don't play the game watch the game from the sideline 208 00:16:50,520 --> 00:16:52,680 While still participating in the game 209 00:16:55,520 --> 00:17:01,420 What I mean is that so many people let life live them they don't live life on purpose 210 00:17:01,420 --> 00:17:06,900 They live it on accident. They live life accidentally and they just let life pass them by 211 00:17:07,860 --> 00:17:09,860 but and so 212 00:17:10,220 --> 00:17:16,100 What on the day-to-day what that looks like is a pendulum pops up and then they get sucked in and 213 00:17:16,940 --> 00:17:20,940 They end up doing exactly what the pendulum wants them to do not their own free will 214 00:17:21,420 --> 00:17:26,140 So what Transurfing has taught me is to stay awake and live life on purpose 215 00:17:26,660 --> 00:17:28,740 live life purposefully 216 00:17:28,740 --> 00:17:34,020 Do things on purpose and don't just let life pass me by and 217 00:17:35,060 --> 00:17:37,900 When I first read it I instantly woke up 218 00:17:37,900 --> 00:17:43,460 But then I fell back asleep and then I kept on reminding myself to wake up and so today 219 00:17:43,820 --> 00:17:48,540 Now I'm even more awake than I was back then, but I'm still not 220 00:17:49,660 --> 00:17:53,420 Awake enough. I want to be awake a hundred percent of the day and 221 00:17:53,420 --> 00:17:57,780 one of the ways to do that is to practice mindfulness and 222 00:17:59,420 --> 00:18:04,460 Focus on your breath all the time be conscious of your breathing consciously breathe 223 00:18:09,380 --> 00:18:12,740 So my business plan 224 00:18:15,100 --> 00:18:18,480 Here to wrap things up. Let me just explain 225 00:18:18,480 --> 00:18:22,840 The lessons today today's lessons 226 00:18:29,560 --> 00:18:34,440 What were today's lessons the learning curve is there for a reason 227 00:18:38,240 --> 00:18:42,360 Cuz without it we wouldn't be able to fly and then 228 00:18:43,600 --> 00:18:45,600 Was the other thing I 229 00:18:46,040 --> 00:18:47,560 taught 230 00:18:47,560 --> 00:18:49,560 Stay just stay awake 231 00:18:50,560 --> 00:18:52,560 Stay awake 232 00:19:06,440 --> 00:19:12,420 So I'm gonna tell you guys my business plans moving forward I'm gonna maintain my 233 00:19:12,420 --> 00:19:16,420 daily routine of 234 00:19:17,660 --> 00:19:21,920 Recording three tick tocks and one podcast and then 235 00:19:23,580 --> 00:19:26,780 And that's it so I'm doing for my business 236 00:19:27,420 --> 00:19:32,780 I'm just trying to provide you guys as much value as possible and I'm actually 237 00:19:33,860 --> 00:19:36,380 If you guys want to go to the self-improvement guidebook 238 00:19:36,380 --> 00:19:43,700 Dot com then go for it, but I'm gonna stop sending you guys there 239 00:19:45,100 --> 00:19:50,700 Because I realized that I have to start providing you guys a lot of value before you guys can actually 240 00:19:52,380 --> 00:19:54,940 Like trust me so I'm gonna 241 00:19:55,580 --> 00:20:01,420 Go in on providing you guys value and while I'm doing that it works out perfectly because 242 00:20:02,140 --> 00:20:04,140 while I'm doing that 243 00:20:04,140 --> 00:20:12,180 I'm actually growing myself because I'm becoming a better speaker using this podcast and also 244 00:20:13,980 --> 00:20:19,220 While I'm doing that I'm gonna add to my daily routine which I have added yesterday and today is 245 00:20:20,980 --> 00:20:27,460 To get into contact with five new people on my dream 100 list so my current 246 00:20:27,620 --> 00:20:31,900 Wait, I just realized I've never explained to you guys what the dream 100 list is 247 00:20:31,900 --> 00:20:34,300 the dream 100 list is 248 00:20:35,220 --> 00:20:40,300 Your list of 100 people or more or less it doesn't really matter just the name 249 00:20:41,740 --> 00:20:50,580 Your list of 100 people who if you're in contact with them, they will help you who have the capabilities of 250 00:20:51,460 --> 00:20:59,620 Letting you achieve your goals. So if you were selling high ticket items your dream 100 list was would be 251 00:20:59,620 --> 00:21:04,740 100 people of your dream customers and then you would just sell to them 252 00:21:05,380 --> 00:21:07,380 but if you 253 00:21:08,220 --> 00:21:10,220 were selling like 254 00:21:11,300 --> 00:21:15,060 Smaller items or most people if you're like most people 255 00:21:15,860 --> 00:21:18,660 selling not million dollar products 256 00:21:18,660 --> 00:21:29,180 Then your dream 100 list would be the people who own or control the traffic 257 00:21:29,500 --> 00:21:33,580 Excuse me, I just sneezed the dream 100 people would be the people who 258 00:21:35,740 --> 00:21:37,060 Control 259 00:21:37,060 --> 00:21:43,540 Who basically have your dream customers congregated already so that would be let's say 260 00:21:43,540 --> 00:21:51,940 It would be like influencers like youtubers tiktokers and then you would try and get into contact with them 261 00:21:51,940 --> 00:21:54,520 So you could gain access to their 262 00:21:55,860 --> 00:21:57,860 their viewers 263 00:21:59,020 --> 00:22:04,740 But my dream 100 right now is local brick and mortar businesses 264 00:22:06,220 --> 00:22:07,500 and 265 00:22:07,500 --> 00:22:09,500 I am trying to 266 00:22:09,500 --> 00:22:14,260 email like get into contact with them so that I can 267 00:22:15,900 --> 00:22:22,340 Build them funnels build them a funnel and this will be a huge learning thing for me 268 00:22:22,340 --> 00:22:26,940 And it'll be my first thing where I'm actually taking action 269 00:22:28,660 --> 00:22:30,660 and 270 00:22:31,260 --> 00:22:33,260 I feel like it'll actually propel me forward 271 00:22:33,260 --> 00:22:43,180 It's a entrepreneurship because right now I'm using my the fact that I'm not 18 as an excuse to not really 272 00:22:43,420 --> 00:22:45,420 Make any moves in entrepreneurship 273 00:22:45,420 --> 00:23:03,420 So this bites in the in the butt so I can start to learn the skills before I actually apply it to my business 274 00:23:03,940 --> 00:23:05,940 So there's one thing that I 275 00:23:07,340 --> 00:23:09,340 Realize and its entrepreneurship 276 00:23:10,380 --> 00:23:12,380 really makes you 277 00:23:12,380 --> 00:23:14,380 Makes you the man 278 00:23:14,380 --> 00:23:19,460 Like I am becoming way. I'm growing so much more 279 00:23:20,980 --> 00:23:26,420 As long as I keep pushing forward and taking action 280 00:23:27,820 --> 00:23:29,500 and 281 00:23:29,500 --> 00:23:34,620 the growth if you're an entrepreneur the growth is I 282 00:23:34,620 --> 00:23:47,300 Think that it's the most that you can ever have I'm just hearing all these success stories of people 283 00:23:49,620 --> 00:23:55,700 Making it like making all the money that they need in life in one year less than a year I 284 00:23:57,500 --> 00:23:59,580 Really believe that I can do that too. I 285 00:23:59,580 --> 00:24:04,180 Feel like I'm on the right life life line 286 00:24:05,460 --> 00:24:07,460 I'm just trying to document my journey 287 00:24:09,500 --> 00:24:15,300 But I'm gonna be honest I've really made any big big money mover 288 00:24:17,580 --> 00:24:20,240 You know what I haven't made any big money mover 289 00:24:20,240 --> 00:24:28,840 Steps in the right direction yet. I've just been making incremental steps 290 00:24:29,960 --> 00:24:31,960 tomorrow 291 00:24:32,080 --> 00:24:34,480 No tomorrow. I'm gonna email 20 people 292 00:24:35,360 --> 00:24:40,000 Not five screw that. I'm emailing 20 people tomorrow 293 00:24:40,680 --> 00:24:42,680 I'm gonna write it down right now 294 00:24:43,200 --> 00:24:44,400 email 295 00:24:44,400 --> 00:24:47,360 20 people on my dream 100 list 296 00:24:47,360 --> 00:24:50,640 So that I can get a response email 297 00:24:52,760 --> 00:24:54,760 20 dream 100 298 00:24:58,120 --> 00:25:03,920 I'm not stopping until I get one client and then once I get that one client 299 00:25:06,560 --> 00:25:11,880 I'll be able to work with them and my journey begins that'll be the first 300 00:25:11,880 --> 00:25:17,840 That'll be the first difficult thing that I do in entrepreneurship 301 00:25:18,880 --> 00:25:21,160 going to their business and 302 00:25:22,320 --> 00:25:28,760 Building something for them. That'll be the first real entrepreneur move that I've done so far. I've just been doing 303 00:25:29,480 --> 00:25:31,080 tiny 304 00:25:31,080 --> 00:25:33,080 scaredy cat moves and 305 00:25:33,720 --> 00:25:38,760 Right now. I'm just screwing over screwing over my future family. I'm screwing over 306 00:25:38,760 --> 00:25:45,000 My future wife. I'm screwing over my future kids. I'm screwing over 307 00:25:46,120 --> 00:25:48,120 myself 308 00:25:48,120 --> 00:25:53,760 By not making action not taking enough action. I have to be relentless. I 309 00:25:53,760 --> 00:26:07,280 Have to be relentless 310 00:26:07,280 --> 00:26:09,280 Man 311 00:26:11,280 --> 00:26:14,480 All of this stuff it's so difficult 312 00:26:14,480 --> 00:26:20,640 But I can do it. I can do it. I can do it. I have all of these thoughts running through my mind that 313 00:26:20,640 --> 00:26:24,400 I can't do it. I'm too scared but 314 00:26:25,520 --> 00:26:31,920 I'm in the same position here and I am so scared of doing all this stuff 315 00:26:31,920 --> 00:26:39,840 The only reason why I'm podcasting right now is because I spent 14 days straight practicing on my own without uploading 316 00:26:40,800 --> 00:26:46,160 And then I after the 15th day I finally built up the balls to upload 317 00:26:46,160 --> 00:26:50,640 And so I'm like extremely scared, but you know what? 318 00:26:51,760 --> 00:26:54,640 If I change my mindset if I focus 319 00:26:55,760 --> 00:27:01,680 My mind if I focus all of my energy on being intentional with my mind 320 00:27:02,480 --> 00:27:04,480 And my thoughts and my thinking 321 00:27:05,920 --> 00:27:07,920 Then I will be successful 322 00:27:07,920 --> 00:27:15,920 It starts with the mind the my mind is holding me back. I keep on reminding myself. Oh, I can't do this. I'm too scared 323 00:27:15,920 --> 00:27:17,920 I why am I scared? 324 00:27:17,920 --> 00:27:20,960 Why none of this stuff matters? I'll die 325 00:27:21,840 --> 00:27:23,840 And no one will remember anything 326 00:27:24,240 --> 00:27:26,240 Because I'm not doing anything 327 00:27:26,800 --> 00:27:28,800 And even if I did do something 328 00:27:28,800 --> 00:27:30,800 No, no one even remembers 329 00:27:31,520 --> 00:27:33,520 What? 330 00:27:33,520 --> 00:27:35,520 I'm not doing anything 331 00:27:35,520 --> 00:27:41,440 No one even remembers what how life does not even matter. So why do I? 332 00:27:42,720 --> 00:27:47,920 Why am I so scared? It's because society has trained us to keep us down 333 00:27:48,400 --> 00:27:50,960 And we need to be intentional about our thinking 334 00:27:51,840 --> 00:27:55,040 And change our thinking first to be able to 335 00:27:57,440 --> 00:28:02,400 To be able to counter what society has taught us and to 336 00:28:02,400 --> 00:28:09,600 To prevail and to live a better life than society lets us live 337 00:28:11,680 --> 00:28:13,680 Society has molded our brains 338 00:28:19,680 --> 00:28:24,000 To keep us down we're being held down by society 339 00:28:26,960 --> 00:28:29,520 So while I'm doing podcasting and 340 00:28:29,520 --> 00:28:31,520 And videos and stuff 341 00:28:32,240 --> 00:28:37,440 I'm actually growing so much more now because I'm teaching you guys things 342 00:28:38,160 --> 00:28:39,680 and if you 343 00:28:39,680 --> 00:28:41,920 I'm not sure if I'll upload this video, but 344 00:28:42,960 --> 00:28:44,240 I made a 345 00:28:44,240 --> 00:28:45,600 Tiktok 346 00:28:45,600 --> 00:28:47,600 to my drafts 347 00:28:47,600 --> 00:28:51,120 About that eagle story that I told you at the beginning of this episode 348 00:28:52,560 --> 00:28:54,800 And I actually drew it out just like how 349 00:28:56,160 --> 00:28:58,160 That speaker drew it out 350 00:28:58,160 --> 00:29:00,160 and 351 00:29:02,800 --> 00:29:04,800 I 352 00:29:08,080 --> 00:29:10,080 I am like learning so much more 353 00:29:10,640 --> 00:29:15,120 I'm being able to understand so much more where I'm lacking in knowledge and where 354 00:29:16,160 --> 00:29:18,160 I actually understand, you know 355 00:29:20,960 --> 00:29:22,960 So if you guys just 356 00:29:24,160 --> 00:29:26,160 What while you're learning books 357 00:29:26,160 --> 00:29:32,720 Do like a five minute daily podcast just in your voice memos. You don't even have to upload it. Just 358 00:29:33,680 --> 00:29:35,040 teach 359 00:29:35,040 --> 00:29:38,320 Someone on your voice memos on your phone 360 00:29:39,440 --> 00:29:41,920 What you learned that day in reading 361 00:29:42,800 --> 00:29:45,600 And I never did that until I started this podcast 362 00:29:46,560 --> 00:29:50,240 And I actually find that it's extremely beneficial 363 00:29:50,240 --> 00:29:55,920 For me and for you because I can teach you guys what I learned and also it strengthens my own 364 00:29:57,360 --> 00:29:59,360 learning 365 00:29:59,360 --> 00:30:01,360 All of that 366 00:30:02,720 --> 00:30:04,720 So with that 367 00:30:05,520 --> 00:30:07,520 That's going to be the end of the episode 368 00:30:07,520 --> 00:30:19,520 Thanks for listening. Have a great day