Transurfing Principals pt. 3

1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:07,000 So the big question is this, how do young men like us who didn't listen to society, 2 00:00:07,000 --> 00:00:13,000 who are on our own, how do we grow and improve ourselves so that we can live better tomorrow? 3 00:00:13,000 --> 00:00:18,000 That is the question and this show will give you the answers. 4 00:00:18,000 --> 00:00:24,000 My name is James Redzinski and welcome to the Ascend Momentum Show. 5 00:00:24,000 --> 00:00:29,000 Welcome back everyone. 6 00:00:29,000 --> 00:00:36,000 So today is going to be another Transurfing Principles episode. 7 00:00:36,000 --> 00:00:41,000 I've done a few of these in the past and today will be part three. 8 00:00:41,000 --> 00:00:48,000 I like to do these because I want you guys to hear what I'm reading about in real time 9 00:00:48,000 --> 00:00:55,000 and also Transurfing is very important so I want to share it with you guys. 10 00:00:55,000 --> 00:00:59,000 And I also do it for many more reasons. 11 00:00:59,000 --> 00:01:04,000 It helps me understand it more by teaching it. 12 00:01:04,000 --> 00:01:08,000 It refreshes my memory because I go back from the past like ten days 13 00:01:08,000 --> 00:01:16,000 and reread all the notes that I wrote and then consolidate them all into one principles list 14 00:01:16,000 --> 00:01:21,000 that I talk about on these episodes. 15 00:01:21,000 --> 00:01:27,000 But if you guys are trying to watch these episodes in real time, 16 00:01:27,000 --> 00:01:30,000 you know that I'm documenting my journey. 17 00:01:30,000 --> 00:01:36,000 So I want you guys to know that today I recorded, this is my second episode that I'm recording 18 00:01:36,000 --> 00:01:45,000 because next weekend today is Sunday so I just got done recording episode 39. 19 00:01:45,000 --> 00:01:47,000 Like ten minutes ago. 20 00:01:47,000 --> 00:01:53,000 And today is Sunday and next weekend I will be out of town so I won't be able to record. 21 00:01:53,000 --> 00:01:58,000 So I'm trying to have a, I'm trying to record two more episodes than normal 22 00:01:58,000 --> 00:02:05,000 so I can have a backlog so I don't have to worry about catching up. 23 00:02:05,000 --> 00:02:10,000 I'm just preparing for the future because I won't be able to record next weekend 24 00:02:10,000 --> 00:02:14,000 so I will just not record next weekend. 25 00:02:14,000 --> 00:02:20,000 And with that said, today I'm recording two and then tomorrow I'm recording two as well. 26 00:02:20,000 --> 00:02:24,000 So I'm going to record episode 41 tomorrow. 27 00:02:24,000 --> 00:02:26,000 It's just going to be documenting a normal episode. 28 00:02:26,000 --> 00:02:30,000 And then 42 will be another Transurfing Principles. 29 00:02:30,000 --> 00:02:35,000 And I consolidated all of my notes from the past ten days 30 00:02:35,000 --> 00:02:42,000 because the last Transurfing Principles episode I recorded was ten days ago. 31 00:02:42,000 --> 00:02:46,000 So I have ten days worth of content to share in two episodes. 32 00:02:46,000 --> 00:02:50,000 It's about nine pages worth of notes that I wrote down. 33 00:02:50,000 --> 00:02:58,000 So it took me like 30 to 40 minutes to even consolidate all of this stuff in the first place. 34 00:02:58,000 --> 00:03:03,000 And I simply just rewrote it again. 35 00:03:03,000 --> 00:03:11,000 So with that said, I just want to review how these types of episodes work. 36 00:03:11,000 --> 00:03:14,000 So I'm going to be reading the principle. 37 00:03:14,000 --> 00:03:20,000 So I have my... I wrote down a lot of principles just in bullet points. 38 00:03:20,000 --> 00:03:25,000 In a bullet point style. I don't actually have bullet points on my paper, but in a bullet point style. 39 00:03:25,000 --> 00:03:28,000 And I'll just be reading the principle and then speaking on it. 40 00:03:28,000 --> 00:03:33,000 But if I have nothing to speak on it, I'm just going to move on to the next one. 41 00:03:33,000 --> 00:03:39,000 Okay. So with that, with all that said, let's get straight into it. 42 00:03:39,000 --> 00:03:42,000 I'm going to adjust my microphone so I can look down. 43 00:03:42,000 --> 00:03:45,000 All right. First one. 44 00:03:45,000 --> 00:03:53,000 When a person experiences feelings of sincere gratitude, they radiate creative energy. 45 00:03:53,000 --> 00:04:03,000 So this is very... I feel like this is a very important quote because I want to explain what creative energy is. 46 00:04:03,000 --> 00:04:10,000 So the world is made up of... there's a common energy source amongst everything in the world. 47 00:04:10,000 --> 00:04:15,000 And that is love. Some people call it God. Some people call it love. 48 00:04:15,000 --> 00:04:23,000 It doesn't really matter what you call it, but there's a common source of energy that flows through everything in the world. 49 00:04:23,000 --> 00:04:30,000 And it's love. And that is... that love is creative energy. 50 00:04:30,000 --> 00:04:35,000 And there's also a thing called balance forces. 51 00:04:35,000 --> 00:04:41,000 And then there's also a thing that us as humans create is called excess potential. 52 00:04:41,000 --> 00:04:59,000 So anytime we destroy the balance, anytime we think badly of someone, think highly of ourselves, do anything that destroys the balance, we create excess potential. 53 00:04:59,000 --> 00:05:03,000 And then that excess potential generates balancing forces. 54 00:05:03,000 --> 00:05:07,000 And the balancing forces aim at bringing back the balance. 55 00:05:07,000 --> 00:05:12,000 Because the world is always trying to maintain a state of balance. 56 00:05:12,000 --> 00:05:25,000 Like with the waves coming in and going out, the high tide, low tide, the night and day, all this stuff. 57 00:05:25,000 --> 00:05:30,000 And just the world is always trying to maintain balance. 58 00:05:30,000 --> 00:05:40,000 And there's never... complete balance is never actually achieved, but just trying to maintain homeostasis. 59 00:05:40,000 --> 00:05:50,000 Now, with that said, balance forces were created by their like foundational... 60 00:05:50,000 --> 00:06:01,000 their foundation is based off of creative energy, that same force of love, that same force that goes through everything, is what creates balance forces. 61 00:06:01,000 --> 00:06:09,000 And so balance forces strive to eliminate things that destroy balance. 62 00:06:09,000 --> 00:06:16,000 And when it comes to us humans, they do that through literally just reducing our influence on the world. 63 00:06:16,000 --> 00:06:22,000 So we don't have as much influence on the world because of balance forces. 64 00:06:22,000 --> 00:06:30,000 Well, it's actually because of ourselves because we're creating excess potential and then balance forces brings the balance back by reducing our influence on the world. 65 00:06:30,000 --> 00:06:42,000 So to bring everything together, if you're experiencing sincere gratitude, that is an emotion. 66 00:06:42,000 --> 00:06:49,000 And negative emotions like envy creates excess potential. 67 00:06:49,000 --> 00:06:59,000 But since your gratitude creates creative energy, so you're radiating at a creative energy frequency. 68 00:06:59,000 --> 00:07:11,000 And since that frequency is the same frequency that is a foundation of balance forces, the balance forces can't actually destroy it because that would be like destroying their creator. 69 00:07:11,000 --> 00:07:13,000 Like they can't do that. 70 00:07:13,000 --> 00:07:22,000 And that's kind of the explanation that to my understanding, that's the explanation that Adam Zellin gave on all that. 71 00:07:22,000 --> 00:07:26,000 And now he didn't give that direct explanation how I did. 72 00:07:26,000 --> 00:07:32,000 He gave that explanation in little bits and pieces throughout the entire book. 73 00:07:32,000 --> 00:07:36,000 And then I crafted it all into just that. 74 00:07:36,000 --> 00:07:39,000 Alright, so the next. 75 00:07:39,000 --> 00:07:43,000 Complaints, requests and demands. 76 00:07:43,000 --> 00:07:48,000 All inventions of pendulums create excess potential. 77 00:07:48,000 --> 00:07:52,000 Delaying action leading to a buildup of energy. 78 00:07:52,000 --> 00:07:57,000 So if you're complaining. 79 00:07:57,000 --> 00:08:02,000 Well, first of all, everyone knows that complaining is not good. 80 00:08:02,000 --> 00:08:04,000 It's not constructive at all. 81 00:08:04,000 --> 00:08:08,000 And in fact, it's actually destructive. 82 00:08:08,000 --> 00:08:12,000 Because if you complain, then you're not actually grateful for the world. 83 00:08:12,000 --> 00:08:17,000 And you're basically saying you're basically being unappreciative of what you have. 84 00:08:17,000 --> 00:08:25,000 And you're basically trying to act like you're basically saying, oh, why don't I have more? 85 00:08:25,000 --> 00:08:32,000 And that's a destructive emotion, a destructive attitude. 86 00:08:32,000 --> 00:08:42,000 But requests, on the other hand, is a not so much known destructive attitude. 87 00:08:42,000 --> 00:08:48,000 Many people like to request to God to give them things. 88 00:08:48,000 --> 00:08:57,000 But it's no different if you request a newspaper than if you request a mansion from God. 89 00:08:57,000 --> 00:08:58,000 They're all the same. 90 00:08:58,000 --> 00:09:03,000 If God governs the entire universe, God can do anything. 91 00:09:03,000 --> 00:09:07,000 It's the same if he gives you a newspaper as a billion dollars. 92 00:09:07,000 --> 00:09:10,000 It's all the same to him. 93 00:09:10,000 --> 00:09:22,000 But who are we to think that God would, that God will actually listen and give you what you want? 94 00:09:22,000 --> 00:09:30,000 Who are we, we think that we're so important that God is worried about what we're requesting of him? 95 00:09:30,000 --> 00:09:39,000 When in reality, God has given us the greatest gift of all, which is the freedom of choice. 96 00:09:39,000 --> 00:09:43,000 And that basically allows us to go out and get it ourselves. 97 00:09:43,000 --> 00:09:49,000 So who are we to whine and complain and demand and request for things? 98 00:09:49,000 --> 00:09:57,000 From a person who gave us the ability to get them ourselves. 99 00:09:57,000 --> 00:09:59,000 And that's also demands. 100 00:09:59,000 --> 00:10:08,000 If we demand something, that's just destructive because the world gave us the ability to get things on our own. 101 00:10:08,000 --> 00:10:13,000 So we don't need to ask more of the world. 102 00:10:13,000 --> 00:10:15,000 And there are ventures of the pendulums. 103 00:10:15,000 --> 00:10:22,000 And pendulums are basically energy sources that are destructive towards us. 104 00:10:22,000 --> 00:10:29,000 And we like to, they hook into us and basically control us. 105 00:10:29,000 --> 00:10:36,000 And that's why many people don't really get what they want out of life. 106 00:10:36,000 --> 00:10:42,000 Because they're under the influence of pendulums. 107 00:10:42,000 --> 00:10:46,000 Now everyone's under the influence of pendulums in some way or another. 108 00:10:46,000 --> 00:10:52,000 It's just how much you choose to let it go in. 109 00:10:52,000 --> 00:10:56,000 Most people let the pendulums go on as much as possible. 110 00:10:56,000 --> 00:11:07,000 But transfer for us choose to let pendulums in as much as it provides their own goals. 111 00:11:07,000 --> 00:11:13,000 Wading, worrying, doubt, and desire only drain your energy. 112 00:11:13,000 --> 00:11:17,000 So let's repeat that. 113 00:11:17,000 --> 00:11:19,000 Wading, worrying, doubt, and desire. 114 00:11:19,000 --> 00:11:21,000 Drain your energy. 115 00:11:21,000 --> 00:11:25,000 So if you're waiting for something to happen, then it'll drain your energy. 116 00:11:25,000 --> 00:11:29,000 If you're worrying about something that will drain your energy. 117 00:11:29,000 --> 00:11:33,000 If you doubt something will happen, drain your energy. 118 00:11:33,000 --> 00:11:35,000 If you desire something, it'll drain your energy. 119 00:11:35,000 --> 00:11:43,360 And now all of these attitudes are all destructive and none of them are constructive. 120 00:11:43,360 --> 00:11:49,920 Desire, there's no constructive trait about desire. 121 00:11:49,920 --> 00:11:52,720 If you desire something, it will not happen. 122 00:11:52,720 --> 00:11:56,400 But if you intend to have something, it will happen. 123 00:11:56,400 --> 00:11:59,000 Desire alone leads to nothing. 124 00:11:59,000 --> 00:12:00,000 Doubt. 125 00:12:00,000 --> 00:12:05,560 Well, if you doubt something, that's just simply just use common sense. 126 00:12:05,560 --> 00:12:12,240 If you doubt that you'll achieve your goals, well, you're not helping anyone. 127 00:12:12,240 --> 00:12:13,600 They're your goals to achieve. 128 00:12:13,600 --> 00:12:17,760 And if you doubt them, well, you're just hurting yourself. 129 00:12:17,760 --> 00:12:19,320 Just use common sense. 130 00:12:19,320 --> 00:12:21,520 Worrying also use common sense. 131 00:12:21,520 --> 00:12:26,600 There's no point in worrying about things. 132 00:12:26,600 --> 00:12:33,000 Like actually think to yourself, why do I worry so much? 133 00:12:33,000 --> 00:12:38,080 It's because you place too much meaning and importance on things. 134 00:12:38,080 --> 00:12:41,200 You place too much value on things. 135 00:12:41,200 --> 00:12:47,880 Like, I was worried that I wouldn't be able to make enough money before Funnel Hacking 136 00:12:47,880 --> 00:12:48,880 Live. 137 00:12:48,880 --> 00:12:51,800 I was worried I wouldn't even make any money before Funnel Hacking Live. 138 00:12:51,800 --> 00:12:57,120 But then I realized that that's just draining my energy and it's just destructive towards 139 00:12:57,120 --> 00:12:58,120 me. 140 00:12:58,120 --> 00:13:03,360 Worry is not constructive at all. 141 00:13:03,360 --> 00:13:07,120 Outer intention simply chooses a certain alternative. 142 00:13:07,120 --> 00:13:18,100 So outer intention is basically giving the green light to the world to let your goals 143 00:13:18,100 --> 00:13:22,600 realize themselves or to allow the goals to realize. 144 00:13:22,600 --> 00:13:26,320 So you're basically saying, okay, world, you can let this happen. 145 00:13:26,320 --> 00:13:30,960 Okay, world, you can let me go to Funnel Hacking Live. 146 00:13:30,960 --> 00:13:32,720 It's basically outer intention. 147 00:13:32,720 --> 00:13:37,960 And it seems straightforward, but most people don't actually let the world do things for 148 00:13:37,960 --> 00:13:39,760 them. 149 00:13:39,760 --> 00:13:41,760 And I was the same way and I still am the same way. 150 00:13:41,760 --> 00:13:45,600 I'm working towards changing it. 151 00:13:45,600 --> 00:13:50,560 Outer intention does not hurry to achieve the goal because it is already a done deal. 152 00:13:50,560 --> 00:13:58,240 Now this is something that I needed to hear a while back and I did hear it actually. 153 00:13:58,240 --> 00:14:03,960 I realized that I was hurrying so much to try and make enough money before Funnel Hacking 154 00:14:03,960 --> 00:14:09,000 Live so I can actually afford to go. 155 00:14:09,000 --> 00:14:10,600 But I was like two months out. 156 00:14:10,600 --> 00:14:15,480 So it was already deconstructive because I had two months. 157 00:14:15,480 --> 00:14:23,840 But it was especially not good because I wasn't using outer intention. 158 00:14:23,840 --> 00:14:28,160 I was basically saying to the world that I can do things on my own and I don't need their 159 00:14:28,160 --> 00:14:29,160 help. 160 00:14:29,160 --> 00:14:33,760 I don't need its help. 161 00:14:33,760 --> 00:14:35,680 Because I didn't think that it was possible. 162 00:14:35,680 --> 00:14:38,680 That's why. 163 00:14:38,680 --> 00:14:44,080 The only way to understand the nature of outer intention more deeply is to practice lucid 164 00:14:44,080 --> 00:14:45,360 dreaming. 165 00:14:45,360 --> 00:14:49,880 So we're in a dream at night time. 166 00:14:49,880 --> 00:14:57,840 So when you're sleeping, things just happen to you when you're dreaming. 167 00:14:57,840 --> 00:15:02,320 You don't really know that you're dreaming or else you would be doing whatever you want. 168 00:15:02,320 --> 00:15:05,600 Things just happen in your dreaming and you're not really aware. 169 00:15:05,600 --> 00:15:07,840 You're not really awake. 170 00:15:07,840 --> 00:15:09,140 Things just happen. 171 00:15:09,140 --> 00:15:11,360 Life just happens. 172 00:15:11,360 --> 00:15:15,000 And then when you're awake, it's the same thing. 173 00:15:15,000 --> 00:15:17,760 You're not aware that you can actually choose your script. 174 00:15:17,760 --> 00:15:20,960 You can actually choose what's going on. 175 00:15:20,960 --> 00:15:26,600 But so things just happen and life just happens. 176 00:15:26,600 --> 00:15:37,120 But if you wake up and you're aware that you can do whatever you want, then you can invoke 177 00:15:37,120 --> 00:15:39,160 the winds of outer intention. 178 00:15:39,160 --> 00:15:45,600 Outer intention is basically, like I said earlier, giving the green light for the world 179 00:15:45,600 --> 00:15:47,880 to realize things. 180 00:15:47,880 --> 00:15:55,040 So when you're asleep and you summon an apple in front of you, you're using outer intention. 181 00:15:55,040 --> 00:16:04,040 Now you can't necessarily do that in real life at this point of time because your worldview 182 00:16:04,040 --> 00:16:08,160 is not corresponding with that. 183 00:16:08,160 --> 00:16:09,920 Your mind doesn't believe that that's possible. 184 00:16:09,920 --> 00:16:15,000 So your mind doesn't allow that to happen. 185 00:16:15,000 --> 00:16:22,400 But if you practice lucid dreaming and then summon an apple, you can feel that feeling 186 00:16:22,400 --> 00:16:23,700 that it feels like. 187 00:16:23,700 --> 00:16:28,600 You can start to feel what outer intention feels like and then you'll be able to understand 188 00:16:28,600 --> 00:16:29,600 it more. 189 00:16:29,600 --> 00:16:31,160 It's basically like practicing. 190 00:16:31,160 --> 00:16:39,680 And then you can use that and take that understanding and take it into real life. 191 00:16:39,680 --> 00:16:45,280 Inner intention transforms into outer intention when the conscious mind meets and merges with 192 00:16:45,280 --> 00:16:48,000 the subconscious. 193 00:16:48,000 --> 00:16:50,880 So this can happen in two ways. 194 00:16:50,880 --> 00:16:56,280 Through your least, your worst expectations or your best expectations. 195 00:16:56,280 --> 00:17:09,640 We hate people since we are a species controlled by pendulums and we tend to steer towards 196 00:17:09,640 --> 00:17:12,120 the negative than the positive. 197 00:17:12,120 --> 00:17:16,600 Most people know exactly what they don't want and as a result, their heart and mind 198 00:17:16,600 --> 00:17:20,360 are unified in the decision that they hate that thing. 199 00:17:20,360 --> 00:17:24,280 And then as a result, outer intention manifests that thing in real life. 200 00:17:24,280 --> 00:17:32,000 And I actually have an example that is funny because I was studying Transurfing even before 201 00:17:32,000 --> 00:17:33,000 school started. 202 00:17:33,000 --> 00:17:35,840 And on the first day of school, it was the classic. 203 00:17:35,840 --> 00:17:42,920 We had to go around and do ice breakers and have conversations with people in the class. 204 00:17:42,920 --> 00:17:48,320 So the certain type of ice breaker we were doing is everyone had a card with a question 205 00:17:48,320 --> 00:17:49,440 on it. 206 00:17:49,440 --> 00:17:55,000 And there were just questions about what's your greatest fear if you could have a party 207 00:17:55,000 --> 00:17:56,880 and invite anyone in history to it. 208 00:17:56,880 --> 00:17:58,240 Who would you invite? 209 00:17:58,240 --> 00:18:01,360 Like just interesting questions like that. 210 00:18:01,360 --> 00:18:08,800 And it was funny because I had the question of what's your greatest fear and there is 211 00:18:08,800 --> 00:18:13,800 this one girl that I was talking to and she said her greatest fear is spiders. 212 00:18:13,800 --> 00:18:23,360 And I had just read the part in Transurfing where your worst expectations are always realized. 213 00:18:23,360 --> 00:18:27,520 And so I was, I just remembered that when I was talking to her and I asked her, do you 214 00:18:27,520 --> 00:18:31,080 find that you see spiders all the time throughout your day? 215 00:18:31,080 --> 00:18:35,160 And she like, it was almost as she felt understood. 216 00:18:35,160 --> 00:18:38,760 She like looked at me and she was so happy and excited that someone finally understood 217 00:18:38,760 --> 00:18:39,760 her. 218 00:18:39,760 --> 00:18:42,520 And she was like, yes, they are all over the place. 219 00:18:42,520 --> 00:18:44,480 Like she always experiences them. 220 00:18:44,480 --> 00:18:48,520 Like literally the other day she had a spider crawl on her. 221 00:18:48,520 --> 00:18:51,960 And so I was just like, oh, that's interesting. 222 00:18:51,960 --> 00:18:58,840 But inside I was thinking that's, that's so cool how I like that is proof that that's 223 00:18:58,840 --> 00:19:01,160 how the world works. 224 00:19:01,160 --> 00:19:06,560 Because I'm always looking for proof to prove my mind that Transurfing actually works because 225 00:19:06,560 --> 00:19:15,000 that's how you, that's how you grow your mind to actually accept the Transurfing worldview 226 00:19:15,000 --> 00:19:17,160 is to give it proof. 227 00:19:17,160 --> 00:19:21,760 And so that was a piece of proof that I was very excited to hear about. 228 00:19:21,760 --> 00:19:30,920 So that's the worst expectation, but you can also get your best expectation through the 229 00:19:30,920 --> 00:19:34,440 same means. 230 00:19:34,440 --> 00:19:39,280 To wake up in a dream, you have to train your mind to ask yourself, is this real? 231 00:19:39,280 --> 00:19:41,720 Okay, this is important. 232 00:19:41,720 --> 00:19:45,380 This is one of the things about lucid dreaming that they teach. 233 00:19:45,380 --> 00:19:48,800 You always have to be critical about your reality and ask yourself, are you dreaming? 234 00:19:48,800 --> 00:19:50,720 Is this real? 235 00:19:50,720 --> 00:19:55,480 And that allows you to gain awareness. 236 00:19:55,480 --> 00:19:59,240 And then that allows you to basically wake up and realize the rules of the game because 237 00:19:59,240 --> 00:20:01,240 it serves two reasons. 238 00:20:01,240 --> 00:20:05,400 One, you'll realize if you're dreaming or not, so then if you are dreaming, you'll train 239 00:20:05,400 --> 00:20:09,160 your mind to realize, to ask that question when you are dreaming and then hopefully turn 240 00:20:09,160 --> 00:20:11,120 into a loose dream. 241 00:20:11,120 --> 00:20:18,920 But two, you will be aware that it is just a game and you'll be aware of the rules of 242 00:20:18,920 --> 00:20:22,760 the game are up to you. 243 00:20:22,760 --> 00:20:25,840 So train yourself to be awake all the time. 244 00:20:25,840 --> 00:20:31,360 The next one is over the course of the day, you need to ask yourself whether what you 245 00:20:31,360 --> 00:20:38,560 are saying is real at least 10 times. 246 00:20:38,560 --> 00:20:45,800 So like I said, you have to be asking yourself all the time throughout the day. 247 00:20:45,800 --> 00:20:51,800 He says at least 10 times here, but I suspect that he only said that to not scare away the 248 00:20:51,800 --> 00:20:57,560 listener, the reader because later on he goes on and say you have to ask yourself that every 249 00:20:57,560 --> 00:21:03,440 minute of the day, literally every single waking minute. 250 00:21:03,440 --> 00:21:08,280 So basically the moral of the story is you should always be aware, always conscious, 251 00:21:08,280 --> 00:21:17,400 always awake throughout the day so you can actually take control of your destiny. 252 00:21:17,400 --> 00:21:22,600 Ask your inner guardian to keep asking yourself whether you are asleep. 253 00:21:22,600 --> 00:21:24,760 That goes along with what I said before. 254 00:21:24,760 --> 00:21:32,760 Your inner guardian is actually like your inner witness, like that thing that is aware 255 00:21:32,760 --> 00:21:36,160 of things in your mind. 256 00:21:36,160 --> 00:21:43,160 And if you instruct it to always ask yourself if you're asleep, then over time you'll get 257 00:21:43,160 --> 00:21:52,840 better and better and then you'll be asking yourself are you asleep all the time? 258 00:21:52,840 --> 00:21:56,040 And I just ask myself if I'm asleep just now. 259 00:21:56,040 --> 00:21:58,240 That's why I just went silent. 260 00:21:58,240 --> 00:22:05,720 And I am in fact awake, but it is just a game so I can manage my destiny how I want. 261 00:22:05,720 --> 00:22:11,600 It is essential to always ask yourself with a critical attitude and prevent it from becoming 262 00:22:11,600 --> 00:22:13,640 a routine procedure. 263 00:22:13,640 --> 00:22:15,960 That refers to asking yourself are you awake? 264 00:22:15,960 --> 00:22:19,400 You should never go through the motions in this. 265 00:22:19,400 --> 00:22:22,200 You should always be critical about it. 266 00:22:22,200 --> 00:22:27,040 You should always be awake because I told this story yesterday, but last night I actually 267 00:22:27,040 --> 00:22:33,160 had, or not yesterday, I told this story in yesterday's episode which was last night for 268 00:22:33,160 --> 00:22:40,560 me which I recorded yesterday's episode like 30 minutes ago. 269 00:22:40,560 --> 00:22:45,800 But last night I had a dream where someone literally said, wake up. 270 00:22:45,800 --> 00:22:47,120 Someone literally told me to wake up. 271 00:22:47,120 --> 00:22:52,080 Someone gave me the cue that I'm dreaming and that it's just a dream. 272 00:22:52,080 --> 00:22:53,080 And you know what I did? 273 00:22:53,080 --> 00:22:54,080 I didn't. 274 00:22:54,080 --> 00:22:55,080 I woke up. 275 00:22:55,080 --> 00:22:57,960 I was present. 276 00:22:57,960 --> 00:23:00,000 But I wasn't aware that I was dreaming. 277 00:23:00,000 --> 00:23:01,640 So I wasn't critical enough. 278 00:23:01,640 --> 00:23:03,440 I kind of just made it routine. 279 00:23:03,440 --> 00:23:04,920 It was just routine. 280 00:23:04,920 --> 00:23:07,040 And that was last night. 281 00:23:07,040 --> 00:23:10,600 I'm still struggling with this stuff. 282 00:23:10,600 --> 00:23:15,200 It does not happen right away. 283 00:23:15,200 --> 00:23:19,840 To subject outer intention to your will, you have to wipe all negative thoughts from your 284 00:23:19,840 --> 00:23:25,280 mind and establish harmony between the heart and mind. 285 00:23:25,280 --> 00:23:30,640 So that goes along with what I was saying earlier about unifying the heart and mind, 286 00:23:30,640 --> 00:23:36,400 the subconscious and the conscious. 287 00:23:36,400 --> 00:23:43,200 And the second piece to this was you have to wipe negative thoughts from your mind because 288 00:23:43,200 --> 00:23:49,560 you can use outer intention against your will through realizing your worst expectations. 289 00:23:49,560 --> 00:23:50,560 You don't want... 290 00:23:50,560 --> 00:23:56,240 Like that girl didn't want to always have spiders be in her life. 291 00:23:56,240 --> 00:23:58,800 But that was her worst expectation. 292 00:23:58,800 --> 00:24:01,200 Her heart and mind were unified. 293 00:24:01,200 --> 00:24:06,360 And so outer intention was subjected against her will. 294 00:24:06,360 --> 00:24:10,640 But if you want to subject it towards your will, you have to get rid of all negative 295 00:24:10,640 --> 00:24:16,440 thoughts and only think about the positive, about what you want, and then establish harmony 296 00:24:16,440 --> 00:24:22,080 between your heart and mind on those things. 297 00:24:22,080 --> 00:24:25,040 Reconsider your established views of the world. 298 00:24:25,040 --> 00:24:30,320 So this was just a passing statement in the book. 299 00:24:30,320 --> 00:24:32,160 But this is all about the book. 300 00:24:32,160 --> 00:24:33,640 This is what the book is. 301 00:24:33,640 --> 00:24:40,080 It's all about changing your views on the world because your views of the world obviously 302 00:24:40,080 --> 00:24:41,380 are not helping. 303 00:24:41,380 --> 00:24:46,560 They are obviously not working if you are in a situation where you're not happy about. 304 00:24:46,560 --> 00:24:52,160 But if you simply just change your worldview, change your view of the world, then your situation 305 00:24:52,160 --> 00:24:53,680 will improve. 306 00:24:53,680 --> 00:24:56,760 Not overnight, but it will improve. 307 00:24:56,760 --> 00:25:03,040 And it's been five months since I started and it has improved, but not to the extent 308 00:25:03,040 --> 00:25:06,480 that I was hoping. 309 00:25:06,480 --> 00:25:10,920 So it does not happen overnight, but it will be quicker than not. 310 00:25:10,920 --> 00:25:13,720 So you might as well do it. 311 00:25:13,720 --> 00:25:14,960 Reconsider your established views of the world. 312 00:25:14,960 --> 00:25:18,640 And the way you train your brain to reconsider the established views of the world, the best 313 00:25:18,640 --> 00:25:21,660 way in my opinion is to read and study. 314 00:25:21,660 --> 00:25:28,480 And just constantly read and study, trans surfing like I did, or like I am doing. 315 00:25:28,480 --> 00:25:30,840 Gypsy's hypnosis. 316 00:25:30,840 --> 00:25:33,040 Book three questions that all respond with yes. 317 00:25:33,040 --> 00:25:36,840 So this, I talked about this in a previous episode. 318 00:25:36,840 --> 00:25:40,320 I'm pretty sure it was called Ask Yes three times. 319 00:25:40,320 --> 00:25:43,080 Very valuable episode. 320 00:25:43,080 --> 00:25:48,960 And it's basically where it's something that is good for human. 321 00:25:48,960 --> 00:25:53,480 I read about it in How to Win Friends and Influence Others, Expert Secrets and Transurfing. 322 00:25:53,480 --> 00:25:58,040 So there's something in three different books that are good books. 323 00:25:58,040 --> 00:25:59,880 There's a common thing in three different books. 324 00:25:59,880 --> 00:26:05,360 It's definitely legit and it's definitely something to take into account. 325 00:26:05,360 --> 00:26:10,760 It's basically where you ask someone three questions related to the thing that you're 326 00:26:10,760 --> 00:26:13,000 getting at at that moment. 327 00:26:13,000 --> 00:26:16,320 And they, all the answers to the question, they should respond yes. 328 00:26:16,320 --> 00:26:24,520 So I'm not going to give an example because you guys can go back and listen to that episode, 329 00:26:24,520 --> 00:26:35,400 ask yes three times if you want, but that is very, like that is very valuable. 330 00:26:35,400 --> 00:26:40,920 And it's basically puts them into a daydream and then they're more susceptible to ask, 331 00:26:40,920 --> 00:26:46,840 to answer yes to the fourth question that you ask, which is usually what you want to 332 00:26:46,840 --> 00:26:49,840 get out of it with that. 333 00:26:49,840 --> 00:26:54,040 Outer intention requires an even higher level of conscious awareness. 334 00:26:54,040 --> 00:26:57,200 So that gets at what I was talking about earlier. 335 00:26:57,200 --> 00:26:58,800 You have to be aware. 336 00:26:58,800 --> 00:26:59,800 You have to be conscious. 337 00:26:59,800 --> 00:27:04,600 You have to be awake all the time if you want to use outer intention. 338 00:27:04,600 --> 00:27:07,640 And it just requires a high level of conscious awareness. 339 00:27:07,640 --> 00:27:26,680 I'm going to get some water in order to work with outer intention. 340 00:27:26,680 --> 00:27:30,440 You have to wake up. 341 00:27:30,440 --> 00:27:35,440 So if you guys notice, I'm repeating the same things just in different concepts, like different 342 00:27:35,440 --> 00:27:36,840 phrases. 343 00:27:36,840 --> 00:27:41,560 And this is because he repeated, the Vatam Zellan repeated the same things over and over 344 00:27:41,560 --> 00:27:46,880 and over again in different phrases, just drilling into the fact that you have to do 345 00:27:46,880 --> 00:27:51,000 this one thing just from different perspectives. 346 00:27:51,000 --> 00:27:57,600 Like he has talked about being conscious and being awake so many times in that book. 347 00:27:57,600 --> 00:27:59,960 That means that it's definitely a must do. 348 00:27:59,960 --> 00:28:04,240 Like you definitely need to take it into account and apply it. 349 00:28:04,240 --> 00:28:07,920 So just always wake up and it's not going to happen overnight. 350 00:28:07,920 --> 00:28:13,000 Like it over past episodes, I actually talked about how I was, I felt like I was losing 351 00:28:13,000 --> 00:28:14,000 my growth. 352 00:28:14,000 --> 00:28:15,400 I was shrinking in my growth. 353 00:28:15,400 --> 00:28:19,800 I was losing progress because I was waking up more throughout the day. 354 00:28:19,800 --> 00:28:23,120 So I thought I was falling asleep more throughout the day, but it was just that I realized that 355 00:28:23,120 --> 00:28:24,880 I was asleep more. 356 00:28:24,880 --> 00:28:26,680 So I was actually doing, it was actually good. 357 00:28:26,680 --> 00:28:33,520 It's a whole thing. 358 00:28:33,520 --> 00:28:37,560 This is essential if you want outer intention to work. 359 00:28:37,560 --> 00:28:42,040 Once again, awareness is essential if you want outer intention to work. 360 00:28:42,040 --> 00:28:43,600 You have to be awake. 361 00:28:43,600 --> 00:28:47,800 You have to be aware that it's just a game. 362 00:28:47,800 --> 00:28:52,680 In order to avoid getting completely absorbed in a role, the intensity of inner importance 363 00:28:52,680 --> 00:28:57,000 and the projection of outer importance must be kept to a minimum and the guardian must 364 00:28:57,000 --> 00:28:58,160 always be ready. 365 00:28:58,160 --> 00:29:07,400 So this once again is another statement of be awake, be aware, just worded differently. 366 00:29:07,400 --> 00:29:11,280 You only have the right to choose not to change. 367 00:29:11,280 --> 00:29:21,200 So the analogy he gave in the book was if you're in an art exhibit and you see a painting 368 00:29:21,200 --> 00:29:25,120 you don't like, you don't make a fit and ask for it to get removed. 369 00:29:25,120 --> 00:29:27,680 You simply just walk to the next exhibit. 370 00:29:27,680 --> 00:29:33,120 So you have the right to choose which exhibit you look at, but you don't have the right 371 00:29:33,120 --> 00:29:36,120 to change that exhibit. 372 00:29:36,120 --> 00:29:40,960 So we can choose if we want to go to Florida. 373 00:29:40,960 --> 00:29:48,240 We can choose if we want to go to Florida, but we can't change Chicago to Florida. 374 00:29:48,240 --> 00:29:49,840 I think that's the right interpretation. 375 00:29:49,840 --> 00:29:53,520 I don't even know to be honest. 376 00:29:53,520 --> 00:29:58,920 You have to remind yourself again and again of the need to go with the flow. 377 00:29:58,920 --> 00:30:04,520 So there's this thing called the alternatives flow, the alternative space, which has everything 378 00:30:04,520 --> 00:30:06,360 there was, is and will be. 379 00:30:06,360 --> 00:30:11,560 It's basically any possible variation in life. 380 00:30:11,560 --> 00:30:14,840 And that's where the soul goes when you're dreaming. 381 00:30:14,840 --> 00:30:18,960 So that's why crazy things happen in your dreams because your soul is basically just 382 00:30:18,960 --> 00:30:23,480 randomly flying through the alternative space. 383 00:30:23,480 --> 00:30:35,800 But in reality, in material reality, only the manifest sectors where we lived in and 384 00:30:35,800 --> 00:30:42,360 then things from the alternative space slowly begin to manifest. 385 00:30:42,360 --> 00:30:47,760 And going with the flow is basically going on the path of least resistance towards your 386 00:30:47,760 --> 00:30:48,760 goal. 387 00:30:48,760 --> 00:30:53,800 And going with the flow is basically not listening to the mind, but listening to the heart and 388 00:30:53,800 --> 00:31:04,800 allowing the heart to listen to the alternatives flow and go on the most efficient path forward. 389 00:31:04,800 --> 00:31:08,480 Conscious awareness lies in observation, not in the ability to control. 390 00:31:08,480 --> 00:31:14,880 So observe, this is the thing he talked about, step down from the auditorium. 391 00:31:14,880 --> 00:31:22,240 So if you're immersed in your role of life, in your role that you're playing in life, 392 00:31:22,240 --> 00:31:29,400 step down from the actor's seat in the play and go to the auditorium and just observe. 393 00:31:29,400 --> 00:31:33,760 And do not try and control things, just observe. 394 00:31:33,760 --> 00:31:36,640 And that's conscious awareness. 395 00:31:36,640 --> 00:31:42,040 The more conscious awareness you have in waking, the more effectively you will be able to take 396 00:31:42,040 --> 00:31:44,000 charge of your own destiny. 397 00:31:44,000 --> 00:31:48,960 I touched on this a little earlier, barely, but the more conscious awareness you have 398 00:31:48,960 --> 00:31:54,520 in waking, so if you are conscious all the time in waking, you are able to evoke the 399 00:31:54,520 --> 00:31:56,640 winds of outer intention all the time. 400 00:31:56,640 --> 00:32:02,320 So then you will more and the most effectively be able to move towards your goals and take 401 00:32:02,320 --> 00:32:05,440 control of your own destiny. 402 00:32:05,440 --> 00:32:11,040 So that sentence alone will change your life. 403 00:32:11,040 --> 00:32:14,320 The more conscious awareness you have in waking, the more effectively you will be able to take 404 00:32:14,320 --> 00:32:15,320 charge of your own destiny. 405 00:32:15,320 --> 00:32:20,800 If you don't like the way your destiny is played out, then just be conscious aware more 406 00:32:20,800 --> 00:32:25,080 throughout the day and then you'll be able to effectively take control of your destiny 407 00:32:25,080 --> 00:32:28,760 and change it how you want. 408 00:32:28,760 --> 00:32:33,880 Taking responsibility of your own fate is not a burden, but an act of freedom. 409 00:32:33,880 --> 00:32:37,080 So that's what I was thinking the first time I read Transurfing. 410 00:32:37,080 --> 00:32:43,400 I thought that it was a burden to always have to wake up and always be conscious, but it's 411 00:32:43,400 --> 00:32:44,400 not a burden. 412 00:32:44,400 --> 00:32:48,160 It's just an act of freedom. 413 00:32:48,160 --> 00:32:52,440 It's just, it's like, I'm not trying to be trapped. 414 00:32:52,440 --> 00:32:55,000 I'm not trying to be imprisoned all my life. 415 00:32:55,000 --> 00:32:58,440 So I'm going to do an act of freedom and it's really easy. 416 00:32:58,440 --> 00:33:05,600 It's not even that difficult, not nearly as difficult as I thought it would be to take 417 00:33:05,600 --> 00:33:12,440 responsibility of my own fate and just wake up, simply just wake up. 418 00:33:12,440 --> 00:33:18,020 The relative sharpness or dullness of one's mind depends more on awareness than it does 419 00:33:18,020 --> 00:33:19,440 on intellect. 420 00:33:19,440 --> 00:33:29,120 So this was very, very enlightening for me to hear the first time I read it. 421 00:33:29,120 --> 00:33:35,120 And at first I didn't really think much of it, but now looking back on it, I realize 422 00:33:35,120 --> 00:33:40,880 my mind feels so much more sharp and so much more concentrated. 423 00:33:40,880 --> 00:33:49,280 Like my mind just feels so much more clean now that I am way more aware now. 424 00:33:49,280 --> 00:33:54,880 And looking back on my memories, my mind just seemed dull back in the day. 425 00:33:54,880 --> 00:34:04,520 And plus I wasn't very, I was intellectually smart in certain areas, but I was not, I was 426 00:34:04,520 --> 00:34:10,200 not really, I was not very sharp. 427 00:34:10,200 --> 00:34:11,720 Like I don't really know how to explain it. 428 00:34:11,720 --> 00:34:18,560 I have a vague conceptual idea of what this same means, but you just got to understand 429 00:34:18,560 --> 00:34:20,160 and I don't really understand it. 430 00:34:20,160 --> 00:34:23,400 So sorry about that. 431 00:34:23,400 --> 00:34:24,400 Lack of awareness. 432 00:34:24,400 --> 00:34:26,080 Oh wait, actually no, go back to it. 433 00:34:26,080 --> 00:34:30,480 The relative sharpness of the dullness of one's mind depends more on awareness than 434 00:34:30,480 --> 00:34:32,120 it does on intellect. 435 00:34:32,120 --> 00:34:36,880 So you can actually, I want to explain something. 436 00:34:36,880 --> 00:34:40,480 So if you're more aware and you're listening to the Russell and Morning Stars, which is 437 00:34:40,480 --> 00:34:46,160 basically the intuition feeling, then you can get intuitive thoughts more often. 438 00:34:46,160 --> 00:34:50,200 So then you seem more smart, seem more intelligent. 439 00:34:50,200 --> 00:34:52,840 So that alone is making you more intelligent. 440 00:34:52,840 --> 00:34:57,880 Plus you're more clear, you're more conscious, so your mind is more clear. 441 00:34:57,880 --> 00:35:01,920 Clean of the clutter, the constant chatter. 442 00:35:01,920 --> 00:35:05,760 And you just are sharp, you're a sharp human being. 443 00:35:05,760 --> 00:35:09,360 And it's also, you make mistakes when you're asleep. 444 00:35:09,360 --> 00:35:13,160 Any time you make a mistake, reflect and ask yourself, were you asleep? 445 00:35:13,160 --> 00:35:14,880 Probably were. 446 00:35:14,880 --> 00:35:17,720 You don't make nearly as much mistakes when you're awake. 447 00:35:17,720 --> 00:35:21,360 And because of that, when you're awake, you move towards your goals quicker so you don't 448 00:35:21,360 --> 00:35:24,800 make as much mistakes. 449 00:35:24,800 --> 00:35:31,480 And I'm talking the bad mistakes, not necessarily the, actually yeah, mistakes. 450 00:35:31,480 --> 00:35:37,280 Back of awareness is the result of not wanting to look reality in the eye. 451 00:35:37,280 --> 00:35:40,160 That is why everyone falls asleep. 452 00:35:40,160 --> 00:35:42,360 Because they don't like the harshness of reality. 453 00:35:42,360 --> 00:35:44,480 They don't like reality. 454 00:35:44,480 --> 00:35:51,120 And it was a defense mechanism that our brain uses to hide ourselves from the reality. 455 00:35:51,120 --> 00:35:57,640 But it is actually hurting us more than helping us because we are losing the, when we fall 456 00:35:57,640 --> 00:36:02,280 asleep, we are losing the power of outer intention. 457 00:36:02,280 --> 00:36:06,360 And also we get caught by pendulums and we get immersed in the game. 458 00:36:06,360 --> 00:36:12,320 So it was, it's simply just a downside. 459 00:36:12,320 --> 00:36:22,560 I'm not really sure if there's any good side to falling asleep throughout the day. 460 00:36:22,560 --> 00:36:24,560 And let me tell you a story. 461 00:36:24,560 --> 00:36:29,520 The first story I heard, the lack of awareness is the result of looking, of not wanting to 462 00:36:29,520 --> 00:36:31,520 look reality in the eye. 463 00:36:31,520 --> 00:36:36,040 I was conscious of that statement throughout the following days. 464 00:36:36,040 --> 00:36:44,440 And I found myself, when reality got tough and it became harsh, I literally just fell 465 00:36:44,440 --> 00:36:45,440 asleep. 466 00:36:45,440 --> 00:36:51,560 And there's one example where I was in a situation where there was a deviation in my script. 467 00:36:51,560 --> 00:37:02,200 So we were, I don't even remember what happened, but we were at the park and then something 468 00:37:02,200 --> 00:37:06,640 happened, something bad happened and then I just fell asleep. 469 00:37:06,640 --> 00:37:08,480 And so reality was harsh and I didn't like it. 470 00:37:08,480 --> 00:37:09,840 So I fell asleep. 471 00:37:09,840 --> 00:37:13,880 But another example, the other day, and this happens like all the time and I'm starting 472 00:37:13,880 --> 00:37:19,080 to become conscious of it, every time I take a cold shower in the morning, that sucks. 473 00:37:19,080 --> 00:37:21,760 Like no one likes to take cold showers. 474 00:37:21,760 --> 00:37:29,360 I mean, people like it, like I like it, but it sucks, you know? 475 00:37:29,360 --> 00:37:31,840 And so reality sucks at that moment. 476 00:37:31,840 --> 00:37:36,480 So I literally just fell asleep right when I started taking a cold shower. 477 00:37:36,480 --> 00:37:43,960 And then I realized I was aware, I was conscious of that statement that lack of awareness is 478 00:37:43,960 --> 00:37:47,240 the result of not wanting to look reality in the eye. 479 00:37:47,240 --> 00:37:52,280 And then I woke up and looked reality in the eye and I just felt the cold water touching 480 00:37:52,280 --> 00:37:59,800 my body and just felt the shivers going down my spine. 481 00:37:59,800 --> 00:38:06,520 Fear and anger are extreme examples of the absence of awareness. 482 00:38:06,520 --> 00:38:14,920 So fear and anger, if you see someone in a, like an angry rage, a temper tantrum, they 483 00:38:14,920 --> 00:38:20,080 are absolutely immersed and they're not aware of the game. 484 00:38:20,080 --> 00:38:28,440 They're immersed in their role and it is just, I've seen it all the time. 485 00:38:28,440 --> 00:38:29,640 Sorry about that. 486 00:38:29,640 --> 00:38:30,640 There was an interruption. 487 00:38:30,640 --> 00:38:33,280 I had to deal with it. 488 00:38:33,280 --> 00:38:38,280 I try to limit those interruptions, but sometimes things are just out of my control. 489 00:38:38,280 --> 00:38:39,800 It's okay though. 490 00:38:39,800 --> 00:38:41,920 Let's get back to it. 491 00:38:41,920 --> 00:38:46,760 I was talking about how fear and anger are extreme examples of the absence of awareness. 492 00:38:46,760 --> 00:38:51,680 So whenever someone's in a temper tantrum, they are immersed and you can tell, like they 493 00:38:51,680 --> 00:38:57,560 don't know what's right or wrong and they don't know that things just are not actually 494 00:38:57,560 --> 00:38:58,560 that important. 495 00:38:58,560 --> 00:39:02,400 And usually people get extremely mad over just the simplest things. 496 00:39:02,400 --> 00:39:04,840 And at those times, they're just unaware. 497 00:39:04,840 --> 00:39:08,760 They're simply just unaware. 498 00:39:08,760 --> 00:39:13,800 So don't just avoid that. 499 00:39:13,800 --> 00:39:18,280 Maximum awareness can be achieved as long as the inner guardian is constantly present 500 00:39:18,280 --> 00:39:21,520 in your consciousness. 501 00:39:21,520 --> 00:39:25,680 That is very, that's a very important sentence. 502 00:39:25,680 --> 00:39:30,680 So if you, maximum awareness, if you've been paying attention, you obviously now want maximum 503 00:39:30,680 --> 00:39:36,400 awareness so you can use outer intention to get your goals, achieve your goals. 504 00:39:36,400 --> 00:39:40,440 And it can be achieved as long as the inner guardian is constantly present in your consciousness. 505 00:39:40,440 --> 00:39:45,840 So always be aware and always have your inner guardian constantly asking yourself, are you 506 00:39:45,840 --> 00:39:46,840 awake? 507 00:39:46,840 --> 00:39:47,840 Are you awake? 508 00:39:47,840 --> 00:39:53,160 Just every minute of the day, make sure that you're awake and so ask yourself that until 509 00:39:53,160 --> 00:40:02,280 it becomes an attitude. 510 00:40:02,280 --> 00:40:06,680 You have to remember to ask yourself every minute of the day, are you asleep or not so 511 00:40:06,680 --> 00:40:08,640 that it becomes an attitude? 512 00:40:08,640 --> 00:40:10,080 I just said that. 513 00:40:10,080 --> 00:40:14,960 But yeah, it must become an attitude to always stay awake. 514 00:40:14,960 --> 00:40:21,240 You have to change your attitude to be awake currently. 515 00:40:21,240 --> 00:40:28,760 And here's a tip that I learned from Tufti, the priestess on one of Adam Zeldin's book. 516 00:40:28,760 --> 00:40:34,480 People have the habit to fall asleep when certain events or things happen. 517 00:40:34,480 --> 00:40:39,680 So let's say you start talking to someone, people have a habit to fall asleep. 518 00:40:39,680 --> 00:40:44,760 Let's say a box falls on the ground, people have a habit to just fall asleep. 519 00:40:44,760 --> 00:40:51,480 So right now, let's just say the default habit for humans is to fall asleep after something 520 00:40:51,480 --> 00:40:52,880 happens. 521 00:40:52,880 --> 00:40:56,920 We just habitually fall asleep. 522 00:40:56,920 --> 00:41:02,800 Now Tufti says reverse that habit, reverse it. 523 00:41:02,800 --> 00:41:06,440 So after any time something happens, wake up. 524 00:41:06,440 --> 00:41:07,760 Wake up and set it fall asleep. 525 00:41:07,760 --> 00:41:13,640 So if you're about to do something, wake up, make it a habit to wake up before you do anything. 526 00:41:13,640 --> 00:41:19,520 If something happens, if that box falls down, make it a habit to trigger you to wake up. 527 00:41:19,520 --> 00:41:25,840 Always wake up, make it a habit to wake up. 528 00:41:25,840 --> 00:41:28,240 Human neither believes nor desires. 529 00:41:28,240 --> 00:41:29,240 It simply does. 530 00:41:29,240 --> 00:41:37,040 So the example he gave is, right now I want you to desire to lift your arm. 531 00:41:37,040 --> 00:41:40,880 So desire to lift your arm. 532 00:41:40,880 --> 00:41:42,800 You feel that urge, oh, I want to lift my arm. 533 00:41:42,800 --> 00:41:44,040 I want to lift my arm. 534 00:41:44,040 --> 00:41:49,200 And that's what people who are paralyzed, if they try to lift their leg, they feel the 535 00:41:49,200 --> 00:41:51,760 desire to lift their leg. 536 00:41:51,760 --> 00:41:57,120 But it's not until they intend to lift their leg when it does. 537 00:41:57,120 --> 00:42:00,720 So intention doesn't believe that you can lift your arm. 538 00:42:00,720 --> 00:42:03,920 It doesn't desire that you can lift your arm. 539 00:42:03,920 --> 00:42:05,000 Intention just does it. 540 00:42:05,000 --> 00:42:06,640 So lift your arm. 541 00:42:06,640 --> 00:42:08,240 You just lifted your arm. 542 00:42:08,240 --> 00:42:09,240 That was intention. 543 00:42:09,240 --> 00:42:10,720 You intended to lift your arm. 544 00:42:10,720 --> 00:42:15,960 And that action was intention. 545 00:42:15,960 --> 00:42:19,280 And you didn't believe or desire that you could lift your arm. 546 00:42:19,280 --> 00:42:20,280 You just did it. 547 00:42:20,280 --> 00:42:24,480 You simply just did lift your arm. 548 00:42:24,480 --> 00:42:32,840 If you start walking, assuming that you're not paralyzed, if you just start walking, you 549 00:42:32,840 --> 00:42:34,320 don't believe you can walk. 550 00:42:34,320 --> 00:42:36,120 You don't desire to walk. 551 00:42:36,120 --> 00:42:37,120 You just do it. 552 00:42:37,120 --> 00:42:39,640 You just get up and walk. 553 00:42:39,640 --> 00:42:43,680 It's just an example of what intention is. 554 00:42:43,680 --> 00:42:47,760 And intention is tough to explain and tough to describe. 555 00:42:47,760 --> 00:42:52,760 Tough to put words to. 556 00:42:52,760 --> 00:42:59,440 The secret to fulfilling one's desires lies in the understanding that desire must be replaced 557 00:42:59,440 --> 00:43:04,800 by intention, total resoluteness and the desire to have an act. 558 00:43:04,800 --> 00:43:06,560 So there's two types of intention. 559 00:43:06,560 --> 00:43:09,040 Inner intention and outer intention. 560 00:43:09,040 --> 00:43:13,640 Inner intention strives to impact the world directly and outer intention strives to allow 561 00:43:13,640 --> 00:43:18,320 the world to do things on its own. 562 00:43:18,320 --> 00:43:25,840 And if inner intention is the decision to act, then outer intention is the decision to 563 00:43:25,840 --> 00:43:27,480 have. 564 00:43:27,480 --> 00:43:34,440 So the decision to have is something that will, is a theme that will pop up more and 565 00:43:34,440 --> 00:43:37,120 more throughout the book. 566 00:43:37,120 --> 00:43:43,120 If you simply just have to allow yourself to have something and decide to have it. 567 00:43:43,120 --> 00:43:46,600 I mean, just in, let's use common sense. 568 00:43:46,600 --> 00:43:53,440 If you, let's say you want to become a millionaire and that's your goal. 569 00:43:53,440 --> 00:43:58,080 And you don't allow yourself to have that and you don't like, decide to have that. 570 00:43:58,080 --> 00:44:04,800 If you don't allow yourself that you can have the millionaire status, like just use common 571 00:44:04,800 --> 00:44:05,800 sense. 572 00:44:05,800 --> 00:44:06,800 Do you think you're going to get that? 573 00:44:06,800 --> 00:44:10,000 No, probably not. 574 00:44:10,000 --> 00:44:13,640 There's no point if you don't allow yourself to have. 575 00:44:13,640 --> 00:44:18,080 It's all about allowing yourself to have. 576 00:44:18,080 --> 00:44:20,560 Importance gives rise to doubt. 577 00:44:20,560 --> 00:44:25,440 So if you place too much importance on something, this is what I did for the Florida trip that 578 00:44:25,440 --> 00:44:28,560 I'm going on next month, next month. 579 00:44:28,560 --> 00:44:37,960 And one month from today as a recording, I'm going, well actually less than a month, but 580 00:44:37,960 --> 00:44:42,920 I placed too much importance on that trip and I doubted that I could actually do it. 581 00:44:42,920 --> 00:44:49,360 And so once I realized that I had doubts, well, I just lower the importance and create 582 00:44:49,360 --> 00:44:53,720 a backup plan, realize what will happen if I fail. 583 00:44:53,720 --> 00:44:55,880 Nothing will happen. 584 00:44:55,880 --> 00:45:00,200 When there's doubt, the rational mind desires something. 585 00:45:00,200 --> 00:45:02,120 So that's another thing. 586 00:45:02,120 --> 00:45:06,320 So importance gives rise to doubt, but when there's doubt, that means that the rational 587 00:45:06,320 --> 00:45:07,960 mind desires it. 588 00:45:07,960 --> 00:45:13,640 And as you know, desire does not do anything to lift up your arm. 589 00:45:13,640 --> 00:45:16,080 It's intention that actually lifts the arm. 590 00:45:16,080 --> 00:45:21,980 So if your goal is to lift your arm, desire won't do anything to help it. 591 00:45:21,980 --> 00:45:24,880 If anything will hurt you. 592 00:45:24,880 --> 00:45:27,160 And that's the same if your goal is to be a millionaire. 593 00:45:27,160 --> 00:45:30,960 Desire will not do anything to help it. 594 00:45:30,960 --> 00:45:35,920 And if there's doubt, that means that the mind desires something. 595 00:45:35,920 --> 00:45:41,600 So you have to fix that. 596 00:45:41,600 --> 00:45:44,880 Accept the possibility of defeat at the outset of the goal. 597 00:45:44,880 --> 00:45:47,520 This should be a one time event. 598 00:45:47,520 --> 00:45:50,480 Then never think about failure or success. 599 00:45:50,480 --> 00:45:55,520 Just move in the direction of the goal and set off as you would to the store to get some 600 00:45:55,520 --> 00:45:57,280 bread. 601 00:45:57,280 --> 00:46:01,600 So that was a longer quote. 602 00:46:01,600 --> 00:46:07,640 17, okay, so if you have too much outer importance on the goal, that means that you placed too 603 00:46:07,640 --> 00:46:11,840 much value, you interpreted that goal too highly. 604 00:46:11,840 --> 00:46:14,640 You placed too much meaning on it. 605 00:46:14,640 --> 00:46:20,600 Then you simply just have to come up with a backup plan or accept the fact that you might 606 00:46:20,600 --> 00:46:26,880 or accept the possibility, not the fact, the possibility that you may be defeated. 607 00:46:26,880 --> 00:46:29,200 Like you may fail at your goal. 608 00:46:29,200 --> 00:46:40,400 So for example, for me, I accepted the possibility of the possibility that I may not be able 609 00:46:40,400 --> 00:46:44,040 to make it to Funnel Hacking Live the second I created that goal. 610 00:46:44,040 --> 00:46:48,280 So at the outset of the goal, the second you create it, you accept the possibility that 611 00:46:48,280 --> 00:46:51,440 you might not make it. 612 00:46:51,440 --> 00:46:53,000 And that should only happen once. 613 00:46:53,000 --> 00:46:59,280 Once you accept the possibility of the goal, simply just do not think about failure or 614 00:46:59,280 --> 00:47:02,480 success and just move in the direction of the goal. 615 00:47:02,480 --> 00:47:09,640 And your attitude should be the same attitude that you have when you go to the store and 616 00:47:09,640 --> 00:47:12,080 pick up a loaf of bread. 617 00:47:12,080 --> 00:47:14,480 You simply just go out and get it. 618 00:47:14,480 --> 00:47:16,800 You don't think too much. 619 00:47:16,800 --> 00:47:17,800 You just go out and get it. 620 00:47:17,800 --> 00:47:18,800 You know it's there. 621 00:47:18,800 --> 00:47:21,640 You simply just get it. 622 00:47:21,640 --> 00:47:33,960 Let me get some water. 623 00:47:33,960 --> 00:47:37,440 Outer intention is the unity of the heart and mind. 624 00:47:37,440 --> 00:47:39,880 So I touched on this earlier. 625 00:47:39,880 --> 00:47:46,840 Unify the heart and mind and you activate outer intention. 626 00:47:46,840 --> 00:47:51,120 Once you live without conscious awareness, reality cannot be controlled. 627 00:47:51,120 --> 00:47:52,120 It just happens. 628 00:47:52,120 --> 00:47:55,240 So I talked about this. 629 00:47:55,240 --> 00:47:57,960 When you're asleep, dreams just happen. 630 00:47:57,960 --> 00:47:59,920 You don't control your dreams. 631 00:47:59,920 --> 00:48:02,560 Even though everyone knows you can control your dreams. 632 00:48:02,560 --> 00:48:07,280 And if you don't know that, I mean not everyone knows it, but I didn't know that until a couple 633 00:48:07,280 --> 00:48:08,280 years ago. 634 00:48:08,280 --> 00:48:15,960 But now you know you can control your dreams if you are aware that you're dreaming. 635 00:48:15,960 --> 00:48:23,120 But you can control your dreams, but people are not aware. 636 00:48:23,120 --> 00:48:25,040 And so it just happens. 637 00:48:25,040 --> 00:48:27,200 Dreams just happen. 638 00:48:27,200 --> 00:48:30,240 And reality is just like that. 639 00:48:30,240 --> 00:48:38,080 You can't control reality unless you're aware, unconsciously aware. 640 00:48:38,080 --> 00:48:39,480 And reality will just happen to you. 641 00:48:39,480 --> 00:48:43,680 That's why people end up where they don't want to be in life. 642 00:48:43,680 --> 00:48:51,760 They look back on the past like 20 years and they think, man, how did I get here? 643 00:48:51,760 --> 00:48:55,960 Awareness is achieved by being detached from the game. 644 00:48:55,960 --> 00:49:00,080 So that's, I touched on this about the rage thing. 645 00:49:00,080 --> 00:49:08,480 So when someone experiences a lot of rage, they're immersed in the game. 646 00:49:08,480 --> 00:49:14,120 But if you simply detach and realize, oh, that is not important. 647 00:49:14,120 --> 00:49:17,520 Like just detach yourself from the game. 648 00:49:17,520 --> 00:49:21,640 So let's say you stub your toe and you just go into a fit of rage. 649 00:49:21,640 --> 00:49:24,480 Well, it's not actually that bad. 650 00:49:24,480 --> 00:49:29,160 It's simply just when you stub your toe, it hurts for what, 10 seconds and then you're 651 00:49:29,160 --> 00:49:30,640 good. 652 00:49:30,640 --> 00:49:34,280 So you're just in the game. 653 00:49:34,280 --> 00:49:39,240 And if you detach yourself and realize, oh, that just happened, and you can actually interpret 654 00:49:39,240 --> 00:49:42,560 it as good, and that's following the principle of coordination, which I'll be talking about 655 00:49:42,560 --> 00:49:49,560 in the near, far future episodes, because coordination doesn't come up until later on 656 00:49:49,560 --> 00:49:52,560 in the book. 657 00:49:52,560 --> 00:50:01,640 But if you, and then once you detach yourself, then you're aware. 658 00:50:01,640 --> 00:50:07,000 Most people are 90% preoccupied with thoughts about themselves. 659 00:50:07,000 --> 00:50:09,960 This was a game changer for me. 660 00:50:09,960 --> 00:50:17,720 So I'm, for context, I'm a high school student and I would walk around the halls and most 661 00:50:17,720 --> 00:50:20,080 people are like this, I think. 662 00:50:20,080 --> 00:50:24,000 People are like nervous or not nervous. 663 00:50:24,000 --> 00:50:27,400 Some people have anxiety about what other people are thinking about. 664 00:50:27,400 --> 00:50:31,640 A lot of people waste a lot of energy worrying about what others are thinking. 665 00:50:31,640 --> 00:50:34,280 And even to this day, I still sometimes worry about that. 666 00:50:34,280 --> 00:50:39,920 But then once I detach myself and become aware, then I remind myself most people are 90% preoccupied 667 00:50:39,920 --> 00:50:41,080 with thoughts about themselves. 668 00:50:41,080 --> 00:50:47,120 So I'm 90% preoccupied with thoughts about myself, so I'm not worried about thinking, 669 00:50:47,120 --> 00:50:51,740 I'm not thinking about what other people are doing or look like. 670 00:50:51,740 --> 00:50:54,480 And that's the same with everyone else. 671 00:50:54,480 --> 00:51:01,880 And people don't even notice what you look like, particularly like they don't, they know 672 00:51:01,880 --> 00:51:04,960 what you look like, but they don't notice whether you're ugly or not. 673 00:51:04,960 --> 00:51:10,480 And you can ask, you can actually prove that by asking yourself, do you notice what anyone 674 00:51:10,480 --> 00:51:16,640 you encounter on a day to day basis looks like unless they're in your inner circle, like 675 00:51:16,640 --> 00:51:26,200 your closest friends, family or whatever. 676 00:51:26,200 --> 00:51:31,280 I don't particularly notice and most people don't particularly, like no one particular 677 00:51:31,280 --> 00:51:35,920 in the notice will let you look like unless you're a potential partner or competitor. 678 00:51:35,920 --> 00:51:40,800 So if you're a potential partner, then I notice what you look like. 679 00:51:40,800 --> 00:51:43,640 But that's all there is to it. 680 00:51:43,640 --> 00:51:45,800 And this actually helped me a lot. 681 00:51:45,800 --> 00:51:50,960 So I have this, I'm very insecure about, because I sweat a lot. 682 00:51:50,960 --> 00:51:53,440 And I get like nervous in social situations. 683 00:51:53,440 --> 00:51:54,920 So I start sweating. 684 00:51:54,920 --> 00:52:00,040 And I also have just bad sweating genetics in general. 685 00:52:00,040 --> 00:52:04,080 And I say genetics because I don't know what causes it. 686 00:52:04,080 --> 00:52:06,800 It might not be genetics, I don't know. 687 00:52:06,800 --> 00:52:09,600 But I get bad pit stains. 688 00:52:09,600 --> 00:52:16,680 And sometimes if I'm like running around, I get like sweat stains on my butt. 689 00:52:16,680 --> 00:52:23,200 And I always get super insecure about my armpits and I hold my arms close to my body so people 690 00:52:23,200 --> 00:52:25,560 don't see my pits. 691 00:52:25,560 --> 00:52:31,440 And then I like, when I'm walking in the hallway, I position myself sometimes so where I'm away 692 00:52:31,440 --> 00:52:35,240 from people so they don't see. 693 00:52:35,240 --> 00:52:40,160 But then I remembered that most people are 90% preoccupied or I learned that most people 694 00:52:40,160 --> 00:52:44,960 are 90% preoccupied with thoughts about themselves. 695 00:52:44,960 --> 00:52:53,480 And that was huge because that allowed me to basically drop the importance and realize 696 00:52:53,480 --> 00:52:55,640 that no one's even thinking about me. 697 00:52:55,640 --> 00:52:58,840 So why should I need to waste my energy? 698 00:52:58,840 --> 00:53:00,840 Worried about what other people are thinking. 699 00:53:00,840 --> 00:53:04,360 Why do I need to waste my energy? 700 00:53:04,360 --> 00:53:06,400 Worried about other people if they're not even thinking about me. 701 00:53:06,400 --> 00:53:09,640 They're just doing exactly what I'm doing, thinking about themselves. 702 00:53:09,640 --> 00:53:12,920 And that's neither good nor bad if you're thinking about yourself. 703 00:53:12,920 --> 00:53:15,440 Just how things are. 704 00:53:15,440 --> 00:53:19,840 And you can take advantage of it and realize that no one's thinking about you and then 705 00:53:19,840 --> 00:53:23,120 you don't have to feel self-conscious or insecure. 706 00:53:23,120 --> 00:53:28,840 And it really lifts a huge burden, a heavy weight off of you if you're like me and you're 707 00:53:28,840 --> 00:53:37,840 self-conscious about yourself. 708 00:53:37,840 --> 00:53:40,560 No one particularly notices what you look like. 709 00:53:40,560 --> 00:53:41,560 That was the next one. 710 00:53:41,560 --> 00:53:43,360 I talked about that. 711 00:53:43,360 --> 00:53:50,000 Switch your attention to qualities you do like about yourself and other attributes you 712 00:53:50,000 --> 00:53:52,280 would like to acquire. 713 00:53:52,280 --> 00:53:55,240 That one is one of the oldest ones in the book. 714 00:53:55,240 --> 00:54:02,160 People always talk about don't worry about your flaws, just focus on positives or traits 715 00:54:02,160 --> 00:54:04,640 you wish to acquire. 716 00:54:04,640 --> 00:54:11,240 And I kind of did that naturally, subconsciously throughout time. 717 00:54:11,240 --> 00:54:14,160 And I'm doing it now still. 718 00:54:14,160 --> 00:54:16,560 And that is definitely huge. 719 00:54:16,560 --> 00:54:18,400 It actually works. 720 00:54:18,400 --> 00:54:24,000 So I would always, like when I first started lifting, I did not like how I was skinny. 721 00:54:24,000 --> 00:54:25,200 But I did not focus on that. 722 00:54:25,200 --> 00:54:27,160 I didn't focus on my physique. 723 00:54:27,160 --> 00:54:29,080 I literally just focused on getting jacked. 724 00:54:29,080 --> 00:54:30,840 I used to always say, I'm a beast. 725 00:54:30,840 --> 00:54:33,400 And I used to repeat that to myself with the emotion. 726 00:54:33,400 --> 00:54:35,280 I used to say, I'm a beast. 727 00:54:35,280 --> 00:54:38,640 Like I look in the mirror and I'm like, man, I'm a beast. 728 00:54:38,640 --> 00:54:44,680 And I would just focus on the traits that I would look that I wish I had, like me being 729 00:54:44,680 --> 00:54:45,680 a beast. 730 00:54:45,680 --> 00:54:48,080 Like I certainly was not a beast. 731 00:54:48,080 --> 00:54:50,640 I'm more so of a beast now. 732 00:54:50,640 --> 00:54:55,960 I'm not sure if I'm entirely a beast yet, but I like to think I am. 733 00:54:55,960 --> 00:55:00,640 But I changed my identity to being a beast. 734 00:55:00,640 --> 00:55:03,000 And then I slowly became a beast. 735 00:55:03,000 --> 00:55:07,040 And my physique grew. 736 00:55:07,040 --> 00:55:09,960 Like I have a very nice physique now. 737 00:55:09,960 --> 00:55:15,200 And it's because I focused on positive qualities that I wish to acquire, that I would like 738 00:55:15,200 --> 00:55:16,200 to acquire. 739 00:55:16,200 --> 00:55:19,560 And then I worked towards acquiring them. 740 00:55:19,560 --> 00:55:22,200 And this also is like many things. 741 00:55:22,200 --> 00:55:29,720 When I started, when I realized one month ago to be conscious, I wasn't focusing on how 742 00:55:29,720 --> 00:55:31,520 much I was asleep every day. 743 00:55:31,520 --> 00:55:36,080 I was focusing on how much I was aware and awake today. 744 00:55:36,080 --> 00:55:39,280 And then the next day I was like, oh, I was awake more than yesterday. 745 00:55:39,280 --> 00:55:43,920 And then the next day more, you know, I always focused on the positive. 746 00:55:43,920 --> 00:55:46,560 Don't focus on the negative. 747 00:55:46,560 --> 00:55:50,240 And I'm going to be honest, I just presented myself as doing this perfectly. 748 00:55:50,240 --> 00:55:52,360 I did not do it perfectly. 749 00:55:52,360 --> 00:55:55,160 There's many times where I focus on the negative. 750 00:55:55,160 --> 00:55:56,840 And I got consequences because of that. 751 00:55:56,840 --> 00:56:02,800 You simply just got to catch yourself every time you do that and then just change it. 752 00:56:02,800 --> 00:56:05,000 It's really all about consciousness. 753 00:56:05,000 --> 00:56:06,280 It's all about being aware. 754 00:56:06,280 --> 00:56:12,360 If you can conquer the mind, I'm not sure if that's the right term, but if you can control 755 00:56:12,360 --> 00:56:17,560 your mind, then you can achieve whatever you want. 756 00:56:17,560 --> 00:56:21,480 And most people including me are not in control of their mind. 757 00:56:21,480 --> 00:56:27,800 I'm training myself to be in control of my mind, but my mind just does whatever it wants 758 00:56:27,800 --> 00:56:28,920 most of the day. 759 00:56:28,920 --> 00:56:35,000 But now it's changing one month in and I'm starting to actually gain control over my 760 00:56:35,000 --> 00:56:39,800 mind. 761 00:56:39,800 --> 00:56:42,560 Get your attention from the negative to the positive. 762 00:56:42,560 --> 00:56:47,560 So this kind of goes hand in hand with the one I talked about before, but it just makes 763 00:56:47,560 --> 00:56:48,560 sense. 764 00:56:48,560 --> 00:56:49,560 Use common sense. 765 00:56:49,560 --> 00:56:50,640 Why would you think about the negative? 766 00:56:50,640 --> 00:56:51,640 No point. 767 00:56:51,640 --> 00:56:52,640 There's no point. 768 00:56:52,640 --> 00:56:55,160 There's no positive to thinking about the negative. 769 00:56:55,160 --> 00:56:59,080 So then just think about the positive because it's better, makes you feel better. 770 00:56:59,080 --> 00:57:07,320 Plus, you're radiating positive thought energy to where you are literally like transferring 771 00:57:07,320 --> 00:57:11,600 to lifelines of more positive nature. 772 00:57:11,600 --> 00:57:16,520 Even if you don't believe in that, it just makes sense to think about the positive. 773 00:57:16,520 --> 00:57:23,760 And the rose-tinted glasses, Badem Zon said that it was actually created by the pessimists. 774 00:57:23,760 --> 00:57:28,640 That term was created by the pessimists because it was so uncomfortable to them to think about 775 00:57:28,640 --> 00:57:33,880 the positive that they just said that don't think about the positive because it was uncomfortable 776 00:57:33,880 --> 00:57:34,880 to them. 777 00:57:34,880 --> 00:57:38,960 And the other people not to, they created the rose-tinted glasses. 778 00:57:38,960 --> 00:57:41,040 But rose-tinted glasses are actually good. 779 00:57:41,040 --> 00:57:43,360 I'm pretty sure. 780 00:57:43,360 --> 00:57:49,120 Still flogging on that, but I think it's good because always focus on the positive. 781 00:57:49,120 --> 00:57:52,920 Give yourself permission to be worthy of the luxury. 782 00:57:52,920 --> 00:57:55,400 So why not? 783 00:57:55,400 --> 00:57:56,400 Why not? 784 00:57:56,400 --> 00:58:01,880 I'm still trying to convince myself to give myself permission to be worthy of luxury. 785 00:58:01,880 --> 00:58:06,400 But I'm asking myself, why not? 786 00:58:06,400 --> 00:58:12,400 My heart is just the same as everyone else, just the same perfectness. 787 00:58:12,400 --> 00:58:14,840 So why not? 788 00:58:14,840 --> 00:58:16,480 Why can't I have luxury? 789 00:58:16,480 --> 00:58:17,480 No reason. 790 00:58:17,480 --> 00:58:18,480 And I can. 791 00:58:18,480 --> 00:58:22,720 The only person, the only thing stopping me is myself. 792 00:58:22,720 --> 00:58:27,200 And the only thing that will allow me to is myself. 793 00:58:27,200 --> 00:58:28,720 So it's really up to me. 794 00:58:28,720 --> 00:58:32,800 And you simply just have to give yourself permission to be worthy of luxury. 795 00:58:32,800 --> 00:58:36,520 It's all about giving yourself permission first. 796 00:58:36,520 --> 00:58:43,840 It is essential to give yourself permission to have. 797 00:58:43,840 --> 00:58:50,160 If you can't give yourself permission to have, how can you expect to have it? 798 00:58:50,160 --> 00:58:56,800 If I can't give myself permission to go to Florida next month, how can I expect to get 799 00:58:56,800 --> 00:58:57,800 there? 800 00:58:57,800 --> 00:59:01,800 Now, I already bought the tickets in the hotel, but that's not a guarantee. 801 00:59:01,800 --> 00:59:02,800 Stuff can happen. 802 00:59:02,800 --> 00:59:06,240 I still have to give myself permission. 803 00:59:06,240 --> 00:59:13,080 I still have to give myself permission to be worthy of the luxury. 804 00:59:13,080 --> 00:59:14,560 It's all about that. 805 00:59:14,560 --> 00:59:28,960 So I actually have one, two, three, four more pages of review that I have not, that I was, 806 00:59:28,960 --> 00:59:31,600 that I have not gone on over yet. 807 00:59:31,600 --> 00:59:35,360 So I will be posting that in two days, I believe. 808 00:59:35,360 --> 00:59:42,760 I believe I will be posting part four in two days of Transurfing Principles. 809 00:59:42,760 --> 00:59:47,640 So that will help me catch up for next weekend's recording. 810 00:59:47,640 --> 00:59:50,600 And that's the end of today's episode. 811 00:59:50,600 --> 00:59:54,840 To wrap things up, don't forget to download your favorite episodes and subscribe to the 812 00:59:54,840 --> 00:59:57,400 Ascend Momentum show. 813 00:59:57,400 --> 01:00:16,080 But before you guys leave, make sure to remember the equals.